Time will heal our wounds

Yesterday, i found some meaningfull article that i like it so much that i wish to share with yer all.

"Trouble passes. What has caused you to burst into tears today will soon  be forgotten; you may remember that you cried but it is unlikely that you will remember what you cried about!  As   we   grow   up   and   go   through   life,   if   we   remember   this   we   shall   often   be  surprised to find how we lie awake at night  brooding something that  has happened to upset  us during the  day,  or   how   we   nurse   resentment   against   someone   and   keep   on  letting the same thoughts run through our minds about how we  are going to  have our own    back   against   the   person    who    has   harmed    us.   We   may    fall  into  a  rage  over something and later wonder what it was we were so angry about. And being surprised, we   can   realise   what   a   waste   of   time   and   energy   it   has   all   been,  and  how we  have deliberately gone on being unhappy when we could have stopped it and started to think about something else.

              Whatever our troubles, however grievous they may appear, time will heal our wounds. But surely there must be something we can do to prevent ourselves from  being hurt in the first place. Why should we allow people and troubles to drain our energy and make us unhappy? The answer is, of course, that they do not, it is we who  make ourselves unhappy.

              You   may   have   had   some   trouble   in   your   office   or   the   place  where  you  work  but you should not bring or extend such troubles to your home and create a bad atmosphere. You should realise that there is a cure or an end to those problems and troubles which are   to   be   found   by   achieving   freedom  from  our   selfish   desires   and   by   eradicating   all forms of confusion and ignorance.

              Whenever we fail to find a solution to any problem, we are inclined to find a scapegoat, someone against whom we can vent our grievance. We are not prepared to admit our own   shortcomings.   We   feel   it   is   easier   to   put   the   blame   on   others   and   to   nurture   a grievance   against   someone.   In   fact,   some   of   us   take   pleasure   in   so   doing.   This  is  a completely wrong attitude.

               We must not show resentment or to be angry towards others. We  should do our utmost, painstakingly and calmly, to resolve our own problems.We must be prepared to face up to any difficulties that we may encounter."

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