Can man and woman be a best friends?

Man and Women can never be best friend.....

Because we are Difference
Before the World War, people played where man and women stand. In 1979, the treaty to abolish discrimination against women (女性差別撤廃条約) was adopted by the United Nations. In 1985, the Equal Employment Opportunity Law（男女雇用機会均等法）that prohibit any discrimination against women for employment and promotion （昇進）was adopted. ...blah..blah..blah

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Today, women came to be able to serve as ministers, however we still say "man and womanﾓ and we don't say "woman and manﾓ at many times. In addition, I often see babies are divided into two colors, blue for boys and pink for girls. In this way, we are mentally trained to treat boys and girls differently. This is why women and men can not fully understand each other.

The second one is ...because of my experience...

Once i always thought that man and woman can be just close friends without being lovers. As It doesn't matter whether my best friend is a man or a woman. Ignorantly in this 5 year, i always thought that this is because Women and men have different point of view, so it is "interesting to have a best friend of opposite sex."

Even though man and woman "can be best friends", but Then one day i realize something that it is "so natural to fall in love each other" that the "TRUTH" is that it is impossible to make best friends between man and woman because we tend to look at the opposite sex as our possible boy friend or girl friend.

If I ever have a "girlfriend", I probably will not be interested in "romance with my female friend". But if U "don't have any girlfriend, then" You may feel like want to "fall in love with your female friends" whom you can get along with well...Which is human nature.

But when this do happen then i need to tell you that this really will effect your friendship. But As long as We can respect the other's decision even thought how difficult it may be as it is difficult to keep best friends' relationships. If one wishes to become more intimate to the others then it is very difficult to remain as good friends.

So please do heed my advise ....!!

To be a close friend with the opposite sex is quite difficult because there are a lot of mental barriers. When we are a small children, We won't quite feel the barrier between man and woman. When i say barriers it doesn't mean not only the difference of sex, but also physical difference, personality, strength, sense of color, interest,ages and so on.


"Friendship can be build regardless of sex"... In fact, I have many female friends. We talked about various things and I learned a lot from them. If i had a quarrel . They will gave me good advice and help to guided me about womens feeling and such vice versa..

Both the Advice from opposite sex was helpful. the Different viewpoint broadens my horizon .Yet it is quite difficult to become best friends with a female friend without expecting romance.

Trust me the feeling is mutual...as i have this same problem...sadly it really affect our friendship...