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Always feeling tired,sleepy,headache with difficulty in concentrating? Here WHY!

2011-12-06T09:37:00.001+08:00

Have you ever wander why sometime we often felt very sleepy during the day especially on the buses or the Commuter and Feeling always tired, headache, difficulty concentrating and memory loss during the day? Here Why!!This is because our body and the brain are not getting enough sleep. The common tall tell sign also show that we're having sleeping disorder. Care should be show more to treat ths sleeping disorder as it can be at risk of an accident and death when a person operating a machinery or vehicles

The number of us experiencing this sleeping disorder are rising each weeks. More and more of us are having a hard time to sleep well this day. It keep us lie awake at night for hour or several hour before we can fall asleep.

Most common reason for our sleeping disorder are because of our poor sleeping habits which can make it difficult for us to sleep at night. Stress, anxiety, and feeling tense at home or at works, caffeine comsumption like coffee and cola, alcohol, and watching TV in bed are among the main case why people have trouble sleeping.

Sleeping disorder can be rid off by creating a good sleeping pattern or habits, by just doing some of the following

1.Avoid caffeine (coffee, tea, chocolate), alcohol and food / sugary drinks. Survey of the National Sleep Foundation (USA) found that 47 percent of people with sleep problems may have been consuming caffeinated beverages to reduce sleepiness in the daytime, but the stimulants (caffeine) that act cause difficulty in sleeping.

2.Create a calm atmosphere and relaxing in your bedroom which you can felt comfortable. Such as lighting , calming co lour theme for your room.You may also use aromatherapy candle, incense or potpourri.

3.Take a warm bath before bed to help the body become relaxed.

4.Drinking a glass of warm milk 15 minutes before bedtime. Milk contains calcium which acts to calm the nerves.

5.Avoid long sports or activities that drain your energy during the hours before bed. Although exercise can reduce stress, it also increases body temperature which makes it difficult to sleep.

6.Create a relaxing routine activity before bedtime through prayer, meditation, listening to soft music and the like. This activities help us to Create a relaxed body and mind.

7.Use your bedroom only for sleep, keep the TV, computer, file and job elsewhere. Your mind should be established that the bedroom is a room solely for sleep.

8.If you have trouble sleeping because of stress and tension, massage may be the solution . If can ask your partner or someone else to massage your body prior to sleep. Massage the whole body or even just on the backs and heads of great help to improve sleep quality.

Our skin has millions of nerve receptors that are linked in our nervous system. Massage to the skin will create stimulation and will release of chemicals in our brain such as serotonin which reduces stress, anxiety and depression. Massage also increases the production endrofin, hormones that reduce pain and soothe. All it makes you more calm and easy to sleep. Massage helps reduce stress, improve blood circulation, relaxes tense muscles, releasing the burden of thought while calming the mind and even lower high blood pressure.

If you have severe trouble sleeping, consult your doctor. Severe insomnia can be a symptom of physical disorders that require medical treatment.

Time will heal our wounds

2011-12-03T00:58:00.001+08:00

Yesterday, i found some meaningfull article that i like it so much that i wish to share with yer all.

"Trouble passes. What has caused you to burst into tears today will soon be forgotten; you may remember that you cried but it is unlikely that you will remember what you cried about! As   we   grow   up   and   go   through   life,   if   we   remember   this   we   shall   often   be surprised to find how we lie awake at night brooding something that has happened to upset us during the day, or   how   we   nurse   resentment   against   someone   and   keep   on letting the same thoughts run through our minds about how we are going to have our own    back   against   the   person    who    has   harmed    us.   We   may    fall into a rage over something and later wonder what it was we were so angry about. And being surprised, we   can   realise   what   a   waste   of   time   and   energy   it   has   all   been, and how we have deliberately gone on being unhappy when we could have stopped it and started to think about something else.

              Whatever our troubles, however grievous they may appear, time will heal our wounds. But surely there must be something we can do to prevent ourselves from being hurt in the first place. Why should we allow people and troubles to drain our energy and make us unhappy? The answer is, of course, that they do not, it is we who make ourselves unhappy.

              You   may   have   had   some   trouble   in   your   office   or   the   place where you work but you should not bring or extend such troubles to your home and create a bad atmosphere. You should realise that there is a cure or an end to those problems and troubles which are   to   be   found   by   achieving   freedom from our   selfish   desires   and   by   eradicating   all forms of confusion and ignorance.

              Whenever we fail to find a solution to any problem, we are inclined to find a scapegoat, someone against whom we can vent our grievance. We are not prepared to admit our own   shortcomings.   We   feel   it   is   easier   to   put   the   blame   on   others   and   to   nurture   a grievance   against   someone.   In   fact,   some   of   us   take   pleasure   in   so   doing.   This is a completely wrong attitude.

              We must not show resentment or to be angry towards others. We should do our utmost, painstakingly and calmly, to resolve our own problems.We must be prepared to face up to any difficulties that we may encounter."

Read More here by the Original author

Whatever our dreams, we can only accomplish them if we have a plan to do it

2009-08-01T19:18:00.000+08:00

Everyone has personal dreams.

One person may want to be a doctor or a lawyer, while another may want to play in the NFL. Another person may want to be a teacher, while yet another may want to be a stay-at-home Mom.

Some may want to own a home on the beach, and some may want to take annual trips to the mountains to snowboard. Our personal dreams give us hope and may providethe incentive to stay in school or work harder to improve our grades.

Whatever our dreams, we can only accomplish them if we have a plan to do it

Dreams will remain fantasies until we take steps to make them real. The difference between dreams and goals is the level of commitment. Setting goals enables us to identify what is really important to us so we can prioritize our behaviors. It helps us to concentrate our time and energy on what is important, keeping us from distractions that consume our scarce resources.

To transition from dreams to goals, most experts recommend writing them down. Once written, they give us a sense of control and hope for the future. At that point, our goals give us purpose and start to shape ourhope for the future. At that point, our goals give us purpose and start to shape our choices today and tomorrow. The more we believe in our goals, the more determined we are to achieve them. Goals become a source of motivation and confidence.

Short-Term and Long-Term Goals

Short-term goals are more immediate. They can be reached in a few months. Examples may be making an A in your math class, getting the lead role in the class play or helping Dad clean out the garage. Medium-term goals take a little longer, generally about one to three years. That may include buying a car or graduating from
high school. Long-term goals take five years or more to accomplish, and may be more difficult because they are further away. Long-term goals may be graduating from college, owning a home, being a grandparent or running a marathon

When setting goals, it is recommended that you start with at least one long-term goal. Shorter goals have little meaning or purpose unless they are leading to some kind of long-term objective. Smaller, short-term goals can keep you working everyday on a consistent basis towards your main goal. When a goal is far away, it is often
easier to forget about it or get discouraged. Those short-term goals, however, are
frequent reminders of what we want to achieve.

The Challenge of 1 Malaysia

2009-07-04T00:03:00.006+08:00

Many people has been giving their view about 1 Malaysia and its challenge. I agree that they are many challenge that we as a MALAYSIAN will face in the future to archive those dream of a united and harmornios country and this is my point of view about 1 Malaysia and my hope that it will archive our dream "A ONE MALAYSIA"

The 1 Malaysia concept is nothing very new about it as it is just a new words that had been coin by our YAB Prime Minister’ Najib A.R.

It actually the same goal that what our forefather and our leader were doing in the first place from the first Prime Minister, Tunku Abdul Rahman, Tun Tan Cheng Look , Tun Sanbathan ,Tun Abdul Razak, Tun Hussein Onn, Tun DR M , Tun Abdullah and now our current Primer, Dato Sri Najib Razak

Before the 1Malaysia concept was announce by our premier. The concept was already been implement through Our National Philosophies Of Education, Rukun Negara and also the Vision 2020 mooted by Tun Dr Mahathir in the '90s , Negara Bangsa in ‘2000s all with the same goal as 1Malaysia and was actually being taught in school classes detailing each and every points and it is still be taught on and today it is taught under the PIPP 2006-2010 (Pelan Induk Pembangunan Pendidikan)

The 1MALAYSIA by our premier, i applauded as a spear that will carry more weight as it will touch us as a “1 Community” . The building of 1 Malaysia is important for multicultural country like us especially in the era of globalization that allow the fast and free flow of information, capital and human also system of value, cultural and belief from all over the world. 1 Malaysia will depend by the sharing of value and also the spirit of patriotism, lingua franca, integrations, citizenship and democratic.

But we have not achieved even half of it .This including the Bangsa Malaysia. Thanks to the mismanagement of the country’s flaw in its Education that progated Racialism such early on in its citizen life. Even in Primary 1, the first chapter that our children had been taught is to difference each people living in our country not as a whole Malaysia but difference entities Such as Ahmad is Malay, Mutu is Indian, and Ah Chong is Chinese.

Then we had a lot of local News paper that had abuse the freedom of the press that seen to championing each races and also enticing Racial problem and fanning the small ember to fire if it is not stop early on

Thus from my point of view, education must give more emphasis toward education to created and maintain the collective spirit of 1 Malaysia among our generation. The challenge of globalization and liberation demand dynamic change in our education system to born “Warganegara Glokal” that are smart in their action to face the challenge of globalization and liberation following the local mould or “acuan tempatan”.

Thus to create student that will live as a caring community, democratic, liberal, “bertolak- ansur”, thinking, scientific cultural

QUOTE :

“ History is a lesson to be learned to know the background of “what is today”. It cannot be a statement written in stone to be unchangeable today. Everyday as we live, history is being written. If mutual responsibility never existed before due to circumstances then, it does not mean that we have to perpetuate the historical circumstances that never gave birth to mutual responsibility. We have to create the history of mutual responsibility and for this be done we
must have the ability and wisdom to understand the children of today.”

Annoymous,

Human beings, regardless of which social grouping the Creator has chosen to put them into have one thing in common – human dignity and the need to be respected as a fellow human being. 1Malaysia Vision will fail if it cannot bring forth policies that will give birth to mutual respect between the citizen.

The creation of MUTUAL RESPECT among the people requires many things to be done. A few examples will be – equality as a human being in the diverse spheres of life, ascension to positions of wealth and responsibility due to skill, and effort and not through unfair handouts (this does not mean the less fortunate ones should not enjoy a “handicap”). Where respect is lacking, tension and hypocrisy is the result. It cannot foster true unity. There are so many things that can be written on this point

Hopefuly 1 Malaysia will created the idea of mutual responsibility and “sense of belonging” to it citizen that Malaysia is their home. People must be able to feel that they and their siblings can depend on this country for their sustenance and survival. They must be able to feel that they can invest all their energy, creativity, emotions and effort in this country so that they and their siblings can receive due benefit from their investments. This is their SOIL and will move forward in one kinship and togetherness with the spirit of one Malaysia.

Thus i end my post with a quote from The official blog of our Prime Minister of Malaysia

“1Malaysia digagaskan sebagai satu formula yang menjadi pra-syarat bagi memastikan aspirasi negara mencapai status negara maju menjelang tahun 2020 tercapai,jika ia diterapkan ke dalam sanubari rakyat dan diamalkan oleh setiap lapisan masyarakat. Jika "Bangsa Malaysia" yang diilhamkan melalui Wawasan 2020 adalah matlamat akhir perjalanan ini, maka 1Malaysia adalah penunjuk haluan kearah matlamat itu. Pengertian ini adalah bertunjangkan hujah bahawa untuk mencapai status negara maju dalam jangkamasa yang telah ditetapkan, syarat yang paling utama ialah sebuah negara yang kukuh dan stabil dan ini akan hanya dapat dicapai apabila rakyatnya bersatu padu”

Quote from
Dato Seri Najib Razak bin Abdul Razak’
The Prime Minister of Malaysia,
www.1malaysia.com

＊誰可以當男朋友，誰只能當普通朋友。＊‏

2009-05-11T12:41:00.006+08:00

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普通朋友：半夜會找妳打BBS聊天到很晚。
男朋友：半夜看妳還在BBS上會趕你下線(當然妳可以柪個幾分鐘)。
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普通朋友：他會找你出去玩,叫妳放棄報告或翹課。
男朋友：他會催妳快寫作業,或者想要跟你討論功課。
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普通朋友：在你生病時，會講好話關心妳。
男朋友：在你生病時，他會關心到你很煩，而且逼你去看醫生。
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普通朋友：他會盡量說好話來討好妳，妳會覺得他很棒。
男朋友：他所說的話，都是關心妳的！但通常像是在命令妳，妳會覺得他幹麻這麼做。
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普通朋友：他什麼事情都會配合著你，只要你高興。
男朋友：他會幫你辨別是非，但你會覺得他管太多。
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普通朋友：他會說他要給你最大的幸福。
男朋友：他只能給你保證，妳跟他在一起，他是最快樂的。
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普通朋友：他會幫你買消夜，送宵夜，載你上下課。
男朋友：他會幫你買宵夜，不過他會提醒你，吃什麼比較健康。他會載你上下課，不過要他有順路，因為他不能為你而翹課。因為他翹課，他成績便會不好，成績不好不會有好工作。那你們將來日子怎麼會好過，他會想的很遠。
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普通朋友：他只有想到現在。
男朋友：他已經預見將來，該怎麼自我努力，好給你幸福。

★我要把幸福裝滿.連同我......一起送給你～。。☆

愛上一个人..........如此的甜蜜卻又讓人受傷害
放棄一个人..........如此的難過卻又讓人心碎

珍惜身旁的每一个人,不要等到失去了

才瞭解到遺憾.和後悔是如此的痛苦....

~※→因為愛你.所以放手還你自由←※~
~※→因為愛你.所以不再讓你困擾←※~
~※→因為愛你.所以寧願自己難過←※~
~※→因為愛你.所以我逼自己離開←※~

如果我還一直深愛著你...你是否還會待在我身邊?

如果我還一直在乎著你...你是否會再多看我一眼?

是否我已不存在了...你才感覺的到我的離開?

是否我已離開了....你才感覺的到我對你的好?

在此祝福全天下所以的有情人~都能夠忠誠眷屬~~

各位，為了自己的幸福，寄出去吧！

但這古老的傳說規定，

不可以寄給所有寄件人寄過的人，

包括寄件人！

請各注意喔！

如果沒寄給 1 人的話，將有噩運喔！
寄給１～１０人－－好運即將來臨
寄給１１～２０人－－喜歡的人會主動找你
寄給２１～３０人－－你會有勇氣向喜歡的人告白喔！
寄給３１～５０人－－會發生好事情唷 ^ ^
寄給５１～１００人－－ > ３ < < - - 懂吧 ~ ~ 寄給１０１～５００人－－跟他 ( 她 ) 情同意合嚕！
寄給１０００人以上－－快準備 結婚禮堂 那些吧

广东话.....笑死啊！

2009-05-11T12:22:00.003+08:00

This is what people speak in HK now .........

正宗潮洲菜 …
客人：'伙計 , 有咩好介紹呀?!'
伙計：〝食老鼠拼盤啦，有老鼠蛋、老鼠腸、老鼠豬耳，但冇老鼠鵝〞.............(滷水拼盤 )

桑拿入面 …
骨妹 :[sen 山, 你蝕唔蝕飯？ ] ..............(先生你食唔食飯)
男客人:[??........]
骨妹 :[sen 山 , 射個精嗎 ?] .............( 先生, 寫個 drink嗎 ?)
男客人:[err.......] ( 面都紅晒)
骨妹 :[sen 山 , 要唔要做雀仔按摩呀？按完仲可以除…] ................( 腳低按摩 …… 鎚 ……)

深圳麥當勞 …
港客：〝唔該一個豬柳漢堡。
'店員：〝要蛋呀。〞
港客：〝唔要蛋喇唔該！〞
店員好勞氣：〝你要蛋呀！〞
港客開始勞氣：〝我唔要蛋喇，我淨係要豬柳漢堡咋！〞
店員更勞氣：〝要蛋一蛋呀，要蛋十分鐘呀 …… 〞

入境處 …
遊客： '要睇新款證定畜牲證呀 ?' ...............( 身份證定出生證 ?)

巴士站…
遊客：〝sen 山，唔該，請問你有冇生痔瘡呀？ .............(有冇散紙唱 )

數碼通 …
遊客 : [呢個管睇到雷電嗎? ]
售貨員 : [唔怕 , 好安全的…]
遊客 : [無雷電顯示功能嗎 ?!]......................... (來電顯示)
售貨員 :[手機唔駛用避雷針的< /FONT> ~]
遊客 :[咁我部手機可唔可以出煙先 ? ].................... (trade in)

豐澤電器 …
A遊客：〝請問呢部電視機有冇電視框呀？〞.................(Discount)
售貨員：〝當然有啦。〞
A 遊客：〝咁電視框幾多錢呀？ '
售貨員： ' 唔好意思要成架買，冇得要個電視框 !'
B 遊客：' 請問忍忍支係ben？另外呢度有冇死守間？〞...................﹝影印機、洗手間﹞

髮型屋 …
髮型師： [小姐想點剪呀 ?]
小姐： [師父，同我剪得神似 D !]
髮型師：[己經好神似嫁喇 ]
小姐： [唔係神似，係要有神似 ! !] ....................(要有層次 )
髮型師：[小姐想做 D咩顏色呀 ?]
小姐：[ 我想做森林色! ] ...............(深藍色 )
髮型師： [森林 ?? ]
小姐： [係呀 ~]

Thank You ,karyee it was very dead Funny..Remind me of my experiance at Hong Kong

What is Ancient Chinese Martial Arts?

2009-05-10T12:29:00.001+08:00

The history of Chinese martial arts is fascinating, obscure, and steeped in mystery. For anyone who is serious about studying the fighting arts, the trial eventually leads back to the ancient Chinese martial arts. After all, the Chinese were the ones who first pioneered the martial arts systems which have since spread to every corner of the world. It was the Shaolin Monks, an ancient Chinese Buddhist sect, which developed and refined Kung Fu training techniques centuries ago.

Apparently, they did a good job of it too; Shaolin Kung Fu is still practiced to this very day.

One of the important things about ancient Chinese martial arts that every student must realize is that they evolved around the use of ancient weapons. Ancient melee weapons like swords, spears, and axes could be parried and dodged, unlike modern weapons like guns and explosives. As such, intense training of the mind and body could really give a soldier an intensive advantage over an enemy.

The weapons of ancient Chinese martial arts evolved from things that farmers and peasants would have readily available. Staffs, shovels, pick-axes ?basically anything long, hard, or point ?could be wielded as an impromptu weapon. To this very day, the martial arts teach people to take careful account of their surroundings and always be ready to take advantage of unexpected advantages that might present themselves. Even a hat or a shirt could be a weapon, used to distract an opponent so a more effective attack could be launched.

A lot of people get into the ancient Chinese martial arts as a way to learn ancient fighting secrets. There are many martial arts that claim to be able to kill with a touch, and their secrets are sought after all over the world. Although it can be interesting to research and study these traditions, it is important to keep in mind that the goal of modern martial arts students should not be to kill an enemy, but to effectively incapacitate him without causing overwhelming damage.

The ancient Chinese martial arts evolved in a much more lawless world where personal self-defense counted for a lot. In this world, you rarely have to kill or be killed. Nonetheless, knowing the ancient Chinese martial arts and their secrets really can give you a boost of confidence. They can make you understand your own body and surroundings in ways that you were never able to before.

Odor Removal

2009-03-30T01:43:00.000+08:00

There are many conditions that call for a quality odor removal product that actually works. It is very important to look into your options before putting any soap or other classic cleaning agent on the smelly surface. These cleaners can actually lock the odor into the surface, especially a porous one. Following are some options in odor removal that you may want to consider.

If the smells linger in the air, you may want to opt for activated charcoal. This stuff literally sucks the stink out of the atmosphere. I was thrilled to discover how well activated charcoal works as an odor removal agent in my damp basement. In no time at all, the charcoal removed the musty mildew smell from the area.

You can always try good, old-fashioned baking soda. This is a natural product that works well in areas like the fridge or on carpeting. However, you may want to look into a stronger odor removal product for serious smells. Baking soda does a fine job but it just doesn’t stand up to more technologically advanced products made specifically for odor removal.

One of those products that merge technology with getting rid of unpleasant smells is the ozone machine. This product does require you (or a hired professional) to do a little work in order to get the odor out of the area. However, this approach does yield excellent results that you will adore.

Enzymes are all the rage these days when it comes to odor removal. This kind of product is applied directly to the source of the smell and it chemically alters that source, making the smell disappear. I used this odor removal product on portions of my hardwood floor that had been sprayed by the previous homeowner’s pets.

The enzymes worked wonders and this is an example of an odor removal product that does have to be applied right on the source. This can be tricky if you don’t know exactly where the odor is coming from. If you don’t know where to spray, you’re pretty much shooting in the dark.

This may seem a little hard to believe but my basement smelled but I couldn’t pinpoint where the smell actually lived. This is why the activated charcoal was a much better option for this area.

There are other options to consider as well. Some odor removal products are designed for specific types of smells while others clean the air of unpleasant scents in general. No matter what, they are a great investment for a happier, fresher home.

Am I suffering from depression?”

2009-03-28T01:52:00.000+08:00

There are times in just about everyone’s when the question, “Am I suffering from depression?” surfaces. The mere fact that you are asking yourself this question isn’t necessarily a reason to run out to get a prescription for an antidepressant. There are symptoms of depression to consider before opting for meds.

One morning, I found myself asking this very question. Am I suffering from depression just because I am pondering the notion? Not necessarily. There are things that factor into our everyday moods. Clinical depression is quite different from simply feeling down or out of sorts.

After considering the symptoms of depression, I determined that I was simply going through an emotional. I had to ask am I suffering from depression because of my sloping emotional state but I also had to consider other symptoms that come into play when a person is clinically depressed as well.

Am I suffering from insomnia? Am I sleeping too much? Do things that I used to enjoy no longer bring me pleasure? Am I irritable and cantankerous? Do I have thoughts about death or suicide that are overwhelming and consuming? Am I suffering from depression really?

The problem lies in the simple fact that people feel depressed from time to time. However, clinical depression is persistent. Others may tell you to snap out of it but when you are truly in a depressive state, it is impossible. There is also no real reason for the dark emotions, either.

Am I suffering from depression or am I going through a rough patch? Life changing events and tragedies like a death in the family or a divorce can spiral you into a dark chasm of dread and gloom. There is good reason for the emotions and feelings of dread. When those emotions become all encompassing, then you may want to seek help.

Basically, you have to ask yourself if your state of mind is interfering with your ability to function normally. Am I able to complete tasks as usual in spite of my current dreary outlook? Am I unable to maintain healthy relationships with coworkers, friends and family because of my mood? Am I suffering from depression really?

These questions are never easy to answer, especially when you are in the emotional throws of a life changing event. Talking to a professional is a good idea but remember to try and stay objective rather than letting your dreary feelings get in the way of a real diagnosis.

New Year Greeting 2009

2009-01-03T00:52:00.006+08:00

Wish you in next year 2009 Good Health , Good appetiteIf you are single , wish you find your lover , and get married soon;If you are married, wish you love each other more, and have a smart little baby;If you are a man, wish you more handsome and strongerIf you are a girl, wish you more beautiful more consideratelyWish you happy! Enjoy your life!And Keep in touch

THank You All For Vising My Blog!!
3rd William Zhuo Wish You All
.........Merry X'mas and Happy New Year 2008 ;P !!!

Kelana Jaya Lake Park......

2008-12-30T01:12:00.004+08:00

Kelana Jaya Lake Garden 8pm my favorite walk

“You are like a private garden, my treasure, my bride! You are like a spring that no one else can drink from, a fountain of my own. 13 You are like a lovely orchard bearing precious fruit, with the rarest of perfumes: 14 nard and saffron, calamus and cinnamon, myrrh and aloes, perfume from every incense tree, and every other lovely spice. 15 You are a garden fountain, a well of living water, as refreshing as the streams from the mountains.”

“I am here in my garden, my treasure, my bride! I gather my myrrh with my spices and eat my honeycomb with my honey. I drink my wine with my milk.”

“Oh, lover and beloved, eat and drink! Yes, drink deeply of this love!”

Kelana Jaya Lake Park ,Selangor

stop by again at the Kelana Jaya Lake Garden when I was on my way back home. The time was around 7.08 in the morning

The Lake is one of my favourite since im study at UNITAR.... Meet alot of people...
The lake is very calming in deed that i usualy come here...for a walk especialy arlir in the morning or before dusk...becouse of its scenery.....Being Ones with The NAture...ah ..what a wanderfull gift indeed that God and Mother Nature Gave us..

Thank You for you gift i had kept me well company here at Kelana Jaya

The Common Causes of Computer Stress

2008-12-19T18:24:00.001+08:00

A Special Report By Morton C. Orman, M.D.
(c) 1996 - 2007 M.C. Orman, MD, FLP. All rights reserved

Anyone who uses a computer regularly knows how valuable these 20th century machines can be. And anyone who has ever waited for their on-line service to respond, received a "mailbox full" message, had their hard disk crash, been flamed on the internet, upgraded to Win95, or tried to set up their own home-based computer network knows that there is also a dark side to this modern wonder of technology.

Yes, working with computers can sometimes be stressful. And dealing with computer stress is really no different than dealing with any other type of stress in life. The more you understand and focus upon the underlying causes of computer stress, the better you will fare in trying to cope with it.

In this Special Report, I discuss 10 common causes of computer related stress. While this in no way represents a complete list of causes, the ones I will highlight here account for much of the computer stress most people frequently experience.

1. Failing to Anticipate Problems

Many stressful problems computer users experience can be prevented. Yes, power outages do occur, but equipment and software controls are available to keep you from losing data. Theft or damage from children, natural disasters, viruses, intruders, and hard disk failures may not always be avoidable. But adopting a regular backup schedule and keeping a recent backup in a second location can make such losses easier to bear. Software bugs are common in many types of programs, especially new releases such as Windows 95. So if one is uncomfortable dealing with such problems, it may be better to wait before making a purchase.

The point is there are many potential computer-related nightmares, but they can be anticipated and steps taken to either prevent a disaster or at the very least to significantly soften its blow.

2. Trying to Get By on the Cheap

Sometimes we invite disasters by trying to do things on the cheap. That less expensive modem or graphics board you could pick up at a computer show may save you a hundred dollars or more, but are the potential headaches worth the risk? Sure you can save some money if you don't upgrade to a Pentium processor, but are the savings really worth all the frustration and anger you may experience when your slower CPU can't keep up with the latest software? Or how about building a system on your own. If you're not really experienced, it's probably better (and less stressful) to pay a little more and get a system assembled by a pro.

3. Failing to Ask for Help

Many novice computer users (and some veterans too), are reluctant to ask other people for help. This can lead to an incredible amount of stress, most of which is totally unnecessary.

When you are just starting out learning to use your computer, nothing can beat having one or two experienced computer users in your life whom you can call whenever you run into a problem. It also may help to visit your local bookstore and purchase a supplemental training or tutorial guide. And don't forget the many on-line sources of help for all levels of users. Hardware and software forums can be found on AOL, Compuserve, and other popular services. And there is also a tremendous amount of free (and not so free) technical support available by phone, fax, and on-line that is provided by most product manufacturers.

4. Failing to Relate to Stress as Feedback

Whether you get angry, frustrated, or impatient with your computer from time to time, or whether you worry about some computer disaster befalling you, the very best way to deal with any type of stress in your life is to view it as personal feedback.

Instead of blaming your computer, blaming software developers and manufacturing companies, or blaming life itself, take the viewpoint that any type of stress in your life may have something to do with your own thinking and behavior. Did nefarious forces single you out and send that lightning bolt down your electrical lines that fried your expensive equipment? Or did you fail to anticipate this problem and install an adequate surge protector? Are you frustrated and angry because you can't seem to get your slick new software program to run as advertised? Or did you fail to read the instruction manual or skip the online tutorial?

Whatever type of computer stress you might be experiencing, look for your own hidden thought patterns and behavior patterns lurking in the background. If you're not familiar with how to do this, there are several excellent self-help references available. (Try my book The 14 Day Stress Cure for openers.)

5. Trying to Cut Corners

In addition to cutting financial corners, there are many other ways computer users get themselves into trouble by trying to skip important or critical steps. Trying to use hardware or software without reading the manuals or doing the basic tutorials is one very common cause. Unfortunately, the new "Plug and Play" mentality fosters this behavior. Many Plug and Play users, on the other hand, have found out that they still need to understand how their new equipment works (and installs) to get it up and running smoothly.

Attempting to use powerful software programs such as word processors, spread sheets, relational database programs, web page designers, graphics illustrators, and many others right out of the box is another preventable cause of computer related stress. While many of these program are relatively easy to learn and operate at a very basic level, most users could benefit from additional training and tutoring.

The usual excuse for skipping these steps is time. Many people feel that they just don't have the time to sit down and study their manuals, read an additional book, attend a class, or hire a professional trainer. Unfortunately, when you don't put in the time to learn what you are doing on the front end, you usually end up spending much more time (and sometimes money) in the long run.

So try to get yourself properly trained at the outset. Not doing this is a very common cause of computer related headaches.

6. Unrealistic Expectations

Much of our stress in life is caused by our own unrealistic expectations. Many of these expectations are quite silly when examined in the open. But they often lurk in the background of our thinking, causing mischief and stress in ways that we may not always be consciously aware of.

Take the common experience of frustration associated with computers. Much of this frustration comes from expecting ourselves or our computers to function perfectly all the time. While this is a laudable goal, it is not very realistic. From time to time, computer problems will occur. The file we are working on may have appeared to disappear! (Don't worry, it's usually still there--somewhere.) Heavy traffic on our on-line service may preclude us from being able to connect when we want or may cause a system slow down just at the moment we need things to be fast.

Or the new "Plug and Play" mentality sweeping the computer world today may lead us to believe that every installation of every new product we buy will be a pleasurable experience. As many users have already discovered, Plug and Play, in many instances, should be more aptly renamed "Plug and Pray" or "Plug and No-Play."

Another area where expectations play an important role is how we respond to the behavior of others. In the computer world, there are many opportunities to become upset with other people. Some people may not respond in a timely manner (or at all) to your e-mail messages. Others will send you unsollicited e-mail or will flame you repeatedly for making a beginner's mistake. And then there are all the vendors, sales people, repair technicians, receptionists, tech support people and many others who repeatedly fail to live up to our personal standards for how people should behave.

This common source of stress is not just limited to the world of computer usage. If you look at other instances of stress in your life, you will almost always find unrealistic expectations, of one type or another, lurking somewhere.

7. Beating Up On Yourself Unnecessarily

Along with the expectations of perfectionism and universally faultless performance comes the very common behavior pattern of beating yourself whenever you do something wrong or make a "dumb" mistake.

Mistakes in the computer world are very common. All it takes is entering one incorrect letter, number, or symbol and your whole operation can grind to a halt. Deleting the wrong file (or a whole directory of important files!) happens to the very best of us. And when it comes to operating complex software applications or coordinating the installation of complex hardware or networking systems, errors are common, and you should not feel too bad or demean yourself when they occur.

Forgiveness and compassion are what you need to deal with the many intracacies and pitfalls computer usage entails. If you find yourself engaging in their opposites, stop this at once. There is nothing to be gained from continuing.

8. Conflicts With Other People

Much of our stress in life comes from conflicts and interpersonal difficulties we encounter with other people. While the computer world may give you the illusion of working alone and isolating yourself from others, this is not really the case.

Both at home and at work, many different types of computer related conflicts and resultant stress can arise. At home, there may be issues of sharing usage between family members, exposure of children to outside influences, increased financial burdens, conflicts over the amount of time spent at the terminal (or not being spent elsewhere) and many others. These types of conflicts require strong communication, relationship building, and negotiation skills.

At work, similar types of issues can surface. Conflicts over access to shared company resources, such as laser printers, network searches, or the availability of expert assistance, are very common.

And both at home or at work, there are vendors, customers, other computer users and their networked virtual communities, and many other people you might interact with, both on-line and in person. Some of these interactions can sometimes be stressful. Because computers expand our capabilities for social interactions, and because such interactions are often beyond our direct personal control, computers tend to increase our stress in this very important and difficult area of living harmoniously with other human beings.

9. Failing to Do Your Homework

Another common cause of computer stress is failing to do your homework. In some ways this is similar to Cause #5 (Trying To Cut Corners). It too is done mainly to save time. But many problems computer users experience could have been prevented had they researched products or companies more thouroughly or had they spoken to experienced experts before making a purchase.

10. Compromising Your Own or Others' Integrity

When you do something you know is wrong, you don't have to get caught to suffer consequences. Your unconscious will take over and make sure you are punished.

Since no one is actually watching, many computer users feel safe about accepting copied software, using shareware without paying registration fees, giving copies of non-free software to others, or using purchased software programs on multiple machines. But these minor transgressions do add up. And they can be subtle causes of later "accidental mishaps."

Do yourself and others a favor--don't engage in any of this behavior. Even if no one else finds out, you will know, and that's all that counts.

How can I make my blog load faster?

2008-12-11T16:42:00.001+08:00

How can I make my blog load faster?

The speed at which your blog loads is critical to attracting more readers to your blog. If your blog takes a long time to load, many readers may leave your blog before they have the chance to read it. Here are a few tips and tricks that will help your blog load faster and attract more users:
Posts

Your blog's load time can be affected by the number of posts you display on your main page. You can easily edit the number of posts displayed of the main page from the Settings Formatting tab. You can then select the number of posts you want to display on the main page. We recommend displaying 10 or fewer posts on the main page.
Third Party JavaScript and Links

For optimal blog load speed, we recommend using Google/Blogger widgets, JavaScipt and links. However, if you need to use third party JavaScipt and links, your blog will load much faster if you put all JavaScript at the bottom of your blog. If you have third party JavaScript and links in your sidebar, put them in at the bottom of the sidebar.
Images and Media

The more images, videos and other multi-media you have on your blog the longer it will take to load. However, images and other multimedia are important to attracting users to your blog, so it is important to optimize the load speed of your images and media. Here are a few tips to increase the load speed of your media:

* Decrease the size of your images or use thumbnails that link to the full-size image.
* If you use third party images, consider uploading them to Picasa Web Albums via the Blogger post editor.
* If you have a large number of images to display, you can upload all your images (from a vacation or event) to a Picasa Web Album and link to the album in your post or sidebar.

Other suggestions

* If you've added any custom CSS to your blog, make sure you put it at the top of the page.
* The most important content of your blog that catches readers attention should load the quickest. To help you identify which items are taking the longest to load you can use Stopwatch. To use Stopwatch, enter your blog's URL into the text box and click "Start StopWatch". Stopwatch will then open your blog in a frame and will record the time it takes for everything on your blog to load, including images, videos, widgets, etc. Take note of the items that take the longest to load and modify them appropriately using our suggestions.

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2008-12-11T16:32:00.000+08:00

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2008-12-11T16:19:00.004+08:00

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2008-12-11T15:37:00.004+08:00

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How to Tell If a Girl Likes You

2008-12-03T03:12:00.003+08:00

Women are confusing. This is a universal truth, and no matter where you'd happen to go, you're likely to encounter a group of men trying to answer woman-related questions. As complex as relationships are, finding ways to begin them can be even more difficult, which means that you're going to want to be armed with a set of useful techniques to show you how to tell if a girl likes you. We'll detail below what we think is one of the best ways to go about this so you can benefit from our experience and find out what it is you need to know.

There are a number of things that you probably already know, such as a smile in your direction, excessive flirting, and other attention grabbing strategies. While these may show you that she's interested, you might want to find just a little more evidence before you make what could potentially be a bad move. After all, there's nothing worse than losing out on a potentially good thing because you were ill-prepared to acquire it. Read on for some advice on how to use flowers to tell if a girl likes you.

-- How to use flowers to tell if a girl likes you

So you're looking for a solution to your problems, and that's exactly what we can provide. Flowers are just the answer that you're looking for! They are a simple gift that is easily acquired, and are very useful in this purpose. A good test is to pick out a bouquet or basket of fresh flowers that you think best suits the personality of your interest, and then present them to her. If you notice positive reactions, then you're pretty safe to assume she's interested. You might not start dating as a result, but there's definitely a better chance than without the flowers. How to tell if a girl likes you is much easier if you employ a strategy like this.

There are other combinations available to you, like flowers with a teddy bear and a card, which would be appropriate for Valentine's Day. If you have any questions about what would be best, feel free to ask the florist for assistance. Not only will they be able to help you select a great bouquet, but they may also have some insight into how to tell a girl likes you. Women love flowers, so you're sure to elicit positive feelings with such a gift, and that could be exactly what you need to bring one into your life.

Im a Bad Blogger

2008-11-30T06:07:00.002+08:00

I know ive been a bad blogger.
it's not that i've neglected this blog
but im been bussy doing some serious partying over the weekend! After my Final Exam...Last Weeks...Kua kua kua...

^_^,

nevertheless, updates soon!

Memories Of life

2008-11-30T04:55:00.007+08:00

Memories of Life

This is a Banner of a friendly Blogger name AnGeL On Earth. I think she is very pretty. AnGeL has a round face with freckles. She has long curly red hair. Her eyes are round and very blue and she has a beautiful smile. AnGeL is not very tall, but she has a slim figure. I like they way she dresses. She always wears nice modern clothes.

I accidentally bump into her blog while looking for a song ... (Which i cant seen to remember which song was it..^_^ LoL ^

There alot of nice nice stuff in this blog beside the song.
Check out Her Blog at bellow Banner

Mystifying event and Teories on Malaysia's prime ministership over the years

2008-11-25T13:04:00.001+08:00

SYED NADZRI: Here come the sons
Datuk Seri Najib Razak is virtually the new Umno leader, while Datuk Seri Hishammuddin Hussein and Datuk Mukhriz Mahathir are currently sitting pretty in the nomination standings that precede the party's climactic elections due in four months.

They are not vying for the same positions in Umno, Malaysia's principal political party, but if Hishammuddin and Mukhriz take after Najib to win their respective contests, they will have a date with destiny, for an uncanny pattern will emerge.

The three men will not only be following in their fathers' footsteps in climbing the country's perilous political ladder, they might just do so in a sequence of succession that could be remarkably identical to the one their fathers went through some three decades ago -- Tun Abdul Razak Hussein, Najib's father, as prime minister from 1970 to 1976, Tun Hussein Onn, Hishammuddin's father (1976-1981) and Tun Dr Mahathir Mohamad, Mukhriz's father (1981-2003).

This is provided, of course, that these political aristocrats get over their immediate but treacherous hurdles from now until March, as victory -- even for Najib who has clinched an unassailable lead in nominations for president -- can never be taken for granted, as many in the party would attest.

Mukhriz, especially, is not guaranteed a win in his fight for the Umno Youth's top post despite piling on the nominations from the divisions week after week.

But the possibility of the exact order of succession being followed and history repeating itself will be made clearer when Najib is officially installed president and he has under him Hishammuddin as one of the vice-presidents and Mukhriz as Youth chief. Though the positions of vice-president and Youth chief are not by any means automatic tickets to the top, it does follow by convention that these posts do carry a lot of push to climb further.

It will be momentous, therefore, if the pattern runs, mystifying even -- just like the much-hyped RAHMAN theory about the country's prime ministership over the years, each alphabet in Rahman denoting the name of a person assuming the post: R for Rahman (as in Tunku Abdul Rahman), A for Abdul Razak (as in Tun Abdul Razak), H for Hussein (as in Hussein Onn), M for Mahathir (as in Dr Mahathir), A for Abdullah (as in Datuk Seri Abdullah Ahmad Badawi the present prime minister) and N set to be Najib.

Najib is well on the way to becoming the seventh president of Umno, and the country's sixth prime minister. The approval ratings for him, as they say, have broken through the ceiling and the only thing left now is for him to formally take over the reins from Abdullah in March next year.

And when that happens, it will mark the nascent ascendancy of the second generation of the political blue blood. It would also be exactly 39 years since Razak took over as prime minister from Tunku in 1970 during a tumultuous period in the country's history.

It is highly likely too that when Najib assumes the top office, Education Minister Hishammuddin would also be well placed in the Umno heirarchy to be considered next in line, just like his father then under Razak. And the striking similarity is that his Dad, too, was education minister before being elevated to deputy prime minister upon the death of Tun Dr Ismail Abdul Rahman in 1973.

Going by the number of nominations he has collected from the divisions, Hishammuddin is now the overwhelming favourite to become vice-president, which will put him within striking distance of the No. 2 and subsequently top of the party heap in the future.

Mukhriz, likewise, seems to be in a comfortable position to be elected leader of the Youth movement, judging by the nominations he has been getting from the divisions. Though interestingly, none of the past prime ministers had ever held this post, the Umno Youth chief is always regarded as a position of great significance in Umno because it is seen as a stepping stone to bigger things.

Najib himself held that position for six years from 1987 and Hishammuddin, perhaps the longest-serving, is into his 11th year before he moves on. Others who have served in the post include Datuk Seri Anwar Ibrahim, now opposition leader, for five years.

Assuming that things go well for the three, the likely scenario after March is Najib as Umno president at 56 years old, Hishammuddin as vice-president at 47 and Mukhriz as Youth chief at 44.

And, if fate would have it that the order of succession is somehow repeated from history, we would have Najib-Hishammuddin-Mukhriz as Umno's seventh, eighth and ninth president following exactly the perfect order of their fathers Razak-Hussein-Mahathir as third, fourth and fifth presidents.

Is Google’s Ad Biz Beginning to Unravel?

2008-11-16T04:26:00.001+08:00

by Josh Catone

The prevailing wisdom at Google is that their ad-centric business model is recession proof. As advertising budgets are squeezed, some pundits have suggested that ad dollars will move online to advertising methods where it is more easy to measure return on investment. That means advertising models such as Cost Per Action, and Google’s bread and butter, Cost Per Click ads, would see growth while other advertising methods hit the skids.

Further, Google believes that as consumers become more budget conscious, they’ll turn to online search engines to scout out new deals. “One thing that we think at Google is that when there is a recessionary environment, people are counting their pennies, are going to be researching their purchases, looking for bargains, and this potentially has something of an upside for Google, where we referred to this last time I called it the Wal-Mart effect,” said Google’s chief economist Hal Varian during a conference call last month.

But Wal-Mart effect or not, the economic downturn has to catch up to Google eventually, and WIRED Epicenter reports today that is might just be starting to.

“Sponsored ad sales — or Cost-per-click ads that are paid for by advertisers only when people click on them — are softening, according to Collins Stewart analyst Sandeep Aggarwal,” writes Epicenter’s Betsy Schiffman. “[Aggarwal’s] research suggests that CPC ad rates have held up so far because of the number of advertisers bidding on keywords and quality scores demanded a minimum bid for low-quality key words.”

Unfortunately for Google, it looks like the number of bidders per keyword is starting to flatline. As a result, Aggarwal gave his outlook for Google’s Q4 revenue a $110m haircut today. Google had an off day on the stock market as well, closing at a 52-week low of $291 per share.

Image via Rizza.

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Big Victory in Fight Against Spam: Major Spam Host Axed

2008-11-16T04:20:00.001+08:00

by Josh Catone

The Washington Post is reporting that a US host allegedly responsible for a whopping 75% of the junk email sent out globally on on a daily basis has been knocked offline. “For the past four months, Security Fix has been gathering data from the security industry about McColo Corp., a San Jose, Calif., based Web hosting service whose client list experts say includes some of the most disreputable cyber-criminal gangs in business today,” writes the Post’s Brian Krebs.

According to Benny Ng, director of marketing for Hurricane Electric, which was one of the major backbone providers for MyColo, after being contacted by Security Fix, the web fraud blog at the Post authored by Krebs, the company decided to shut down the rogue hosting provider. “We looked into it a bit, saw the size and scope of the problem [Security Fix was] reporting and said, ‘Holy cow!’ Within the hour we had terminated all of our connections to them,” Ng said.

In addition to controlling spam-producing botnets, MyColo’s bad practices extended to other illegal activities, such as hosting child pornography, sites that managed payment processing for spam and child porn, and a Trojan horse operation that apparently swiped banking and credit card information from hundreds of thousands of people. Suffice it to say, they won’t be missed.

However, don’t expect the level of spam in your inbox to decrease — or not by much, and not for long. As we reported earlier this week, spam is still a vastly profitable endeavor, and spammers are very resourceful. They won’t simply disappear now that one of the largest spam hubs is gone — they’ll just find a new place to blast their spam from.

“With McColo gone off the air, I do not suspect I’ll find little to do in the coming weeks, months, and year, the badness they hosted will simply move,” wrote Jose Nazario a Arbor Networks, a web security firm.

One major question is why MyColo has taken so long to be stopped. According to security experts, they’ve been a known offender for quite some time, but authorities have been slow to act.

“There is damning evidence that this activity has been going on there for way too long, and plenty of people in the security community have gone out of their way to raise awareness about this network, but nobody seems to care,” Paul Ferguson, a threat researcher with computer security firm Trend Micro told the Washington Post. “It’s a statement on the inefficiencies of trying to pursue legal prosecution of these guys that it takes so long for anything to be done about it. Law enforcement is saying they’re doing what they can, but that’s not enough. And if law enforcement can’t address stuff like this in a timely fashion, then the whole concept of law enforcement in the cyber world needs to be readdressed, because it’s hardly making a dent at the moment.”

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Advertisng On The Internet

2008-11-15T15:17:00.002+08:00

Considering the age we live in, there's virtually nothing more crucial than advertising on the Internet. Especially if you have an online business, website or blog. The reason I give credit to cyberspace is related to the fact that you can advertise online so much cheaper than you can advertise on television or even the radio. The World-Wide-Web offers so many great opportunities for anyone and everyone. Even if you're just starting to ponder an online business venture, remember that advertising on the Internet is crucial to your business's success. This is due to the notion that millions of individuals are connected to cyberspace at any given time from all around the globe. The web opens up doors and opportunities galore.

Countless business owners resort to advertising on the Internet these days. A perfect example of this can be seen with the past success of the low-budget film entitled "The Blair Witch Project." You probably didn't really see this "reality" style horror flick trailered on TV much. This is because the student film makers who came up with the idea thought it would be prudent to advertise on the Internet. They could do this by building a website that would essentially cost them next to nothing. Once the word got out, everyone was jumping on the Blair Witch bandwagon. Furthermore, regardless of what you thought of the film, it still made millions and millions of dollars. This is amazing because it's pretty much all profit since no funds were put into the film. This is just one example of how advertising on the Internet can be excellent for your business or website's success. Even a mere blog can pull in serious cash if you put the effort into it.

For those who like to build websites and create blogs, one great way to earn a little extra dough is by selling affiliate products via your websites and blogs. Earn a percentage by advertising on the Internet with someone else's product. Hey, modern companies appreciate the extra business. That's also more money in their pocket every time you sell. But, let's not forget about companies that have a stellar business going in the real world. Not everyone operates online. However, advertising on the Internet can seriously assist any business of any kind. This route plain and simply offers a great deal more exposure.
Take full advantage of the web today!

Bananas... This is very interesting tips to read

2008-11-10T03:48:00.002+08:00

Bananas. Containing three natural sugars - sucrose, fructose and glucose combined with fiber, a banana gives an instant, sustained and substantial boost of energy. Research has proven that just two bananas provide enough energy for a strenuous 90-minute workout. No wonder the banana is the number one fruit with the world's leading athletes. But energy isn't the only way a banana can help us keep fit. It can also help overcome or prevent a substantial number of illnesses and conditions, making it a must to add to our daily diet.

Depression: According to a recent survey undertaken by MIND amongst people suffering from depression, many felt much better after eating a banana. This is because bananas contain tryptophan, a type of protein that the body converts into serotonin, known to make you relax, improve your mood and generally make you feel happier.

PMS: Forget the pills - eat a banana. The vitamin B6 it contains regulates blood glucose levels, which can affect your mood.

Anemia: High in iron, bananas can stimulate the production of haemoglobin in the blood and so helps in cases of anemia.

Blood Pressure: This unique tropical fruit is extremely high in potassium yet low in salt, making it the perfect to beat blood pressure. So much so, the "US Food and Drug Administration" has just allowed the banana industry to make official claims for the fruit's ability to reduce the risk of blood pressure and stroke.

Brain Power: 200 students at a Twickenham (Middlesex) school were helped through their exams this year by eating bananas at breakfast, break, and lunch in a bid to boost their brain power. Research has shown that the potassium-packed fruit can assist learning by making pupils more alert.

Constipation: High in fiber, including bananas in the diet can help restore normal bowel action, helping to overcome the problem without resorting to laxatives.

Hangovers: One of the quickest ways of curing a hangover is to make a banana milkshake, sweetened with honey. The banana calms the stomach and, with the help of the honey, builds up depleted blood sugar levels, while the milk soothes and re-hydrates your system.

Heartburn: Bananas have a natural antacid effect in the body, so if you suffer from heartburn, try eating a banana for soothing relief.

Morning Sickness: Snacking on bananas between meals helps to keep blood sugar levels up and avoid morning sickness.

Mosquito bites: Before reaching for the insect bite cream, try rubbing the affected area with the inside of a banana skin. Many people find it amazingly successful at reducing swelling and irritation.

Nerves: Bananas are high in B vitamins that help calm the nervous system.

Overweight and at work? Studies at the Institute of Psychology in Austria found pressure at work leads to gorging on comfort food like chocolate and crisps. Looking at 5,000 hospital patients, researchers found the most obese were more likely to be in high-pressure jobs. The report concluded that, to avoid panic-induced food cravings, we need to control our blood sugar levels by snacking on high carbohydrate foods every two hours to keep levels steady.

Ulcers: The banana is used as the dietary food against intestinal disorders because of its soft texture and smoothness. It is the only raw fruit that can be eaten without distress in over-chronicler cases. It also neutralizes over-acidity and reduces irritation by coating the lining of the stomach.

Temperature control: Many other cultures see bananas as a "cooling" fruit that can lower both the physical and emotional temperature of expectant mothers. In Thailand , for example, pregnant women eat bananas to ensure their baby is born with a cool temperature.

Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): Bananas can help SAD sufferers because they contain the natural mood enhancer tryptophan.

Smoking: Bananas can also help people trying to give up smoking. The B6, B12 they contain, as well as the potassium and magnesium found in them, help the body recover from the effects of nicotine withdrawal.

Stress: Potassium is a vital mineral, which helps normalize the heartbeat, sends oxygen to the brain and regulates your body's water balance. When we are stressed, our metabolic rate rises, thereby reducing our potassium levels. These can be rebalanced with the help of a high-potassium banana snack.

Strokes: According to research in "The New England Journal of Medicine, "eating bananas as part of a regular diet can cut the risk of death by strokes by as much as 40%!

Warts: Those keen on natural alternatives swear that if you want to kill off a wart, take a piece of banana skin and place it on the wart, with the yellow side out. Carefully hold the skin in place with a plaster or surgical tape!

So, a banana really is a natural remedy for many ills. When you compare it to an apple, it has four times the protein, twice the carbohydrate, three times the phosphorus, five times the vitamin A and iron, and twice the other vitamins and minerals. It is also rich in potassium and is one of the best value foods around. So maybe its time to change that well-known phrase so that we say, "A banana a day keeps the doctor away!"

Following are some rules for setting goals:

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Following are some rules for setting goals:

1.Be specific. If you want to own your own business by age 25, then say so.

2.Write down your goals on a piece of paper. That makes them real.

3.Post your goals where you can see them. Seeing them on a regular basis will remind you what is important.

4.Think outside the box. Your goals are yours—not someone else’s.

5.stay positive. Even when things get rough or seem impossible, a positive state of mind will keep you going.

6. Stay focused on the outcome. You may have to a take a step back or a step sidewise, but you can get back on track if you focus on the desired result instead of the problem.

7.Believe in yourself. Others may doubt you, but only you know your ability to succeed.

8.See roadblocks as learning opportunities. Sometimes we learn more when things do not go our way! Take those lessons learned and use them to your advantage

9.Remember, we all make mistakes. It only proves you are human. The secret is how you deal with it.

10. Celebrate your successes. When things do go right, take time to enjoy it.

11. Be good to yourself. No one will take better care of you than you!

12. Review your goals. Priorities will change throughout your life, and it is okay to change your mind about what you want. That does not mean you have failed; it means you have grown.

And finally . . .

13. Establish short-term, medium-term and long-term goals.

Following are some rules for setting goals:

Why "Dream" are Important!

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Everyone has personal dreams.

One person may want to be a doctor or a lawyer, while another may want to play in the NFL. Another person may want to be a teacher, while yet another may want to be a stay-at-home Mom.

Some may want to own a home on the beach, and some may want to take annual trips to the mountains to snowboard. Our personal dreams give us hope and may provide the incentive to stay in school or work harder to improve our grades.

Whatever our dreams, we can only accomplish them if we have a plan to do it

Dreams will remain fantasies until we take steps to make them real. The difference between dreams and goals is the level of commitment. Setting goals enables us to identify what is really important to us so we can prioritize our behaviors. It helps us to concentrate our time and energy on what is important, keeping us from distractions that consume our scarce resources.

To transition from dreams to goals, most experts recommend writing them down. Once written, they give us a sense of control and hope for the future. At that point, our goals give us purpose and start to shape our hope for the future. At that point, our goals give us purpose and start to shape our choices today and tomorrow. The more we believe in our goals, the more determined we are to achieve them. Goals become a source of motivation and confidence.

Short-Term and Long-Term Goals

Short-term goals are more immediate. They can be reached in a few months. Examples may be making an A in your math class, getting the lead role in the class play or helping Dad clean out the garage. Medium-term goals take a little longer, generally about one to three years. That may include buying a car or graduating from high school. Long-term goals take five years or more to accomplish, and may be more difficult because they are further away. Long-term goals may be graduating from college, owning a home, being a grandparent or running a marathon

When setting goals, it is recommended that you start with at least one long-term goal. Shorter goals have little meaning or purpose unless they are leading to some kind of long-term objective. Smaller, short-term goals can keep you working everyday on a consistent basis towards your main goal. When a goal is far away, it is often easier to forget about it or get discouraged. Those short-term goals, however, are frequent reminders of what we want to achieve.

Following are some rules for setting goals:

WHAT IS POETRY? If You Ask Me...

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Our everyday is Poetry and From what I can tell, when we are living the moments of our days with awakened senses and reflective minds, our bodies take on a resonance. We resound with what our bodies notice as we go about each day doing the ordinary tasks of living: the whistling of the tea kettle, the feel of hot stones beneath our feet, a red truck parked beside a yellow house, the pounding of our own hearts when we narrowly miss colliding with a bicyclist. This resonance, this noticing, becomes a kind of knowledge that can transform into emotion, memory, realization, conversation, inspiration, revelation. This is all the stuff of poetry. Poetry is our first and most natural language

WHAT IS POETRY?

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WHAT IS POETRY?

Poetry has certain characteristics that make it special. These include...

• Poetry uses vivid images and descriptive language to ‘paint’ a picture in the reader’s mind.

• Poetry cuts out all the excess words that you might find in prose, creating its magic with a limited amount of text.

• Poetry is normally designed to be read out loud - when you read it, do try to hear it as well.

• Poetry often makes the reader emphasise certain important words, and it usually has a strong rhythm.

• Poetry may rhyme, but it does not have to.

WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN A POEM…

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WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN A POEM…

STRUCTURE:

When you are analysing a poem’s structure, ask yourself the following questions:

• The stanzas. How many are there and how long is each one? Are the verses all the same length or are they different?

• The Punctuation. Does each verse end with a full stop or not? How does the punctuation affect the flow of the poem?

• The Rhyme Pattern. Is there a constant rhyme pattern? Does this affect the structure and flow of the poem?

• The ‘Storyline’. Does each verse contain a particular part of the story, or does it run throughout?

STORYLINE:

When you first read a poem, you are looking for meaning. What is this poem about? Some poems are not ‘about’ anything - they simply evoke a mood, or an emotion, or a vivid atmosphere. But even these poems can be said to have a ‘story’, because the poet is saying something to the reader. When you are analysing a poem, you should avoid saying it is definitely about ‘X’ or ‘Y’. Try instead to interpret its possible meaning or meanings in your analysis. Often, the ‘story’ in a poem will work on more than one level. There could be the literal level, at which the plot or action of the poem is apparent, but there could also be one or more deeper levels of meaning.

When you see a poem for the first time, take the following steps:

• On your first reading, simply gain a feeling for atmosphere or emotion. Do not try to ‘make sense’ of it.

• On your second reading, look to see if there is something happening in the poem. What is the poet or character doing?

• On your third reading, start to look deeper. Does the poet create a metaphor? Is the poem really about something else?

VIEWPOINT:

The word ‘viewpoint’ describes the point of view from which a poem is written. Just as in a novel, a writer might use a first or third person narrative, so with poetry it is important to identify what viewpoint the poet is using. Sometimes, poets will use a real or invented character, to tell their story, while other poems might be written from the poet’s own perspective. Some poems use a mixture of viewpoints, shifting between them in a way not possible in a novel. Poems that simply describe a place or an emotion might not use either the first or third person narrator. When the poet writes as though he or she is a ‘godlike’ voice, looking at the world from ‘on high’, rather than through a person, this is known as the omniscient viewpoint.

The three main types of viewpoint=

• First Person Viewpoint. This viewpoint is easily identifiable, because the writer talks directly to the reader. Look out for the words “I”, “my”, “me”, and so on.

• Third Person Viewpoint. In the third person viewpoint, the poet is slightly more distant, talking through a character. Look for the words “he”, “she”, “him”, “her”, and so on.

• Omniscient Viewpoint. With this viewpoint, the poet is even further away from the reader, and from his or her subject. The poem written using this viewpoint might provide a description, without any sense of character.

THEME:

Poets use a huge range of themes or subjects in their work. Often, poets will deal with more than one theme in a piece of work. For instance, a poet might deal with the themes of childhood, memories and the natural world, all within one piece of poetry. Remember, when you are analysing poetry, you must comment on the effects or images that are created, as well as simply identifying the themes.

RHYME:

The English language has many words that rhyme, including homonyms, which are words that sound the same but have a different spelling and meaning, e.g. son and sun. There are various different types of rhyme that you should learn to identify:

• End Rhyme: words that rhyme at the end of a line.

• Internal Rhyme: words that rhyme within a line.

• Half Rhyme: words that ‘almost’ rhyme, either within or at the end of a line.

RHYTHM:

Poetry is about sound as well as about creating images. Even if you are not reading a poem out loud, you should still be able to ‘hear it’ in your head. Rhythm is an important aspect of poetry. As well as changing the way that you say a poem, it can also link to the images that the poet describes. For instance, if a poet were describing a clock ticking, he or she might use short, alliterative words to help echo the sound of the clock. Rhyme and rhythm are inextricably linked, and the use of rhyme will create a certain rhythm naturally within a poem.

As well as use of rhyme, other aspects of a poem that will help to create rhythm=

• The length of the words used. A series of monosyllables will create a very different effect from longer words.

• The length of the lines. When we are reading a poem, we tend to stop or pause at the end of a line.

• The use of punctuation. Full stops, commas, semi colons and other forms of punctuation will all have an impact on a poem’s rhythm.

• The use of techniques such as alliteration and imagery. These affect the way we say the words and consequently the rhythm of a poem.

TONE:

The tone of a poem is one of the first things that you will notice it about it as you read. The word ‘tone’ describes the overall sort of atmosphere and feeling that the poem seems to have. A good way to understand exactly what tone means, is to think of a poem like a song. Ask yourself: if this poem was set to music, what sort of music would it have? For instance, a poem about losing a lover would probably have a sad, emotional music, because this would fit its tone. On the other hand, a poem about a beautiful morning have a more energetic, positive tone.

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WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN A POEM…2

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WHAT TO LOOK FOR IN A POEM…

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MOOD AND EMOTION:

When you analyse the mood and emotion of a poem, you should think both about the feelings of the poet, and the mood or emotions that the poem creates in you. There are various ways that a poet can create a strong sense of mood or emotion. They could use:

• Vivid imagery, for instance metaphor, personification or alliteration.

• Adverbs and adjectives that give the reader a sense of how they are feeling.

• A subject or theme that automatically evokes strong feeling, e.g. war or love

IMAGERY:

Imagery is the painting of pictures in the reader’s mind through the use of language. Because poetry is such a condensed form of language, poets tend to make greater use of imagery than novelists. Images take a variety of forms. They can:

• Use a comparison between one thing and another, to develop the picture that is created. This type of image includes similes and metaphors.

• Create sound pictures, by using words that make a sound like the thing that is being described, or that add rhythm to the poem. Examples of this type of imagery include alliteration and onomatopoeia.

When you are analysing imagery, it is very important to avoid simply ‘listing’ the images that the poet uses. For each image you discuss, you should consider:

• What type of image is being used.

• Why this particular image is being used.

• What the effect of this image is on the reader.

• How the image contributes to the poem as a whole.

When you analyse imagery, you should suggest a possible interpretation, rather than stating your ideas as definite.

BASIC IMAGERY=

Simile: A comparison between two things, using the words “like” or “as … as a …”.

Metaphor: A comparison between two things, where one is said to be the other.

Alliteration: The use of repeated consonant sounds at the beginnings of words. Used to create a ‘sound picture’.

MORE ADVANCED TECHNIQUES=

Extended Metaphor: A metaphor is extended to run throughout a poem or piece of prose.

Onomatopoeia: A word that sounds like the thing it describes, for example “ow!” or “crash!”

Assonance: The use of repeated vowel sounds to create a ‘sound picture’.

Personification: Giving human attributes to an inanimate thing.

TONE:

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TONE:

Ask yourself: if this poem was set to music, what sort of music would it have? For instance, a poem about losing a lover would probably have a sad, emotional music, because this would fit its tone. On the other hand, a poem about a beautiful morning have a more energetic, positive tone.

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ZAID IBRAHIM THE DE FACTO MINISTER OF JUSTICE

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ZAID IBRAHIM THE DE FACTO MINISTER OF JUSTICE
Posted by Dr. Mahathir Mohamad at October 8, 2008 3:54 PM

1. I was told members of the Cabinet were very upset when Zaid Ibrahim was appointed as Minister. It was known to everyone that Zaid helped PAS to defeat the BN candidate for Kota Baru. He was sore because he did not succeed to become division head of Kota Baru and he was not chosen as BN candidate for that constituency despite being the head of a legal firm of a hundred lawyers and being also well-heeled. During the elections he was in Perth, Australia.

2. The startled party and party officials suddenly found Zaid appointed as Minister in the Prime Minister's Department responsible for law. They were puzzled by Abdullah's choice. But then it is not so unexpected after all because he appointed another campaigner for PAS as Deputy Minister, and a man with dubious past as Senator and Minister.

3. The moment Zaid was appointed he went to town. Apparently without bothering to consult the Cabinet or the Prime Minister he publicly proposed so-called legal and judicial reforms. He proposed that judges should be appointed by a panel on which sit several members of the Bar Council. He did not think it odd that members of the bar would in the course of their work be facing the judges they appointed. I suppose he thinks that it will be alright because gratefulness is not a Malaysian value.

4. It would seem that his Cabinet colleagues were not happy with his proposal as well as his failure to inform the Cabinet about this major change. Since it is the Agong who will appoint the judges his idea might not be welcome by the Agong or the Rulers' Council.

5. In the past if the candidate was rejected by the Agong only the Prime Minister would know about it. But with Zaid's proposal rejection by the Agong can result in a public scandal.

6. The Bar Council would want to know why. If the explanation is not forthcoming then the Bar will organise a forum to debate whether their candidate can be rejected by whomever. The findings of such a debate would show that no one, absolutely no one can reject the Bar with impunity.

7. Zaid also resurrected the case of Tun Salleh Abbas. The Government then decided to award ex-gratia payments to the "unfortunate" judges although all the judges were being paid two pensions and one at least was being paid three pensions. They were obviously not starving.

8. True to the Government record of being open and transparent the amount paid is not revealed. I wonder whether the money came from Zaid's pocket or from the taxes paid by the rakyat.

9. Now of course Zaid has resigned and is aligned with the opposition over the detention under the ISA of Teresa Kok.

10. People accuse me of making wrong choices but in the case of Zaid it looks like the current PM has inherited my weakness.

11. One can afford to have principles when one is rich and does not have to depend on the small allowance of a Minister.

12. My deep respect for this one Minister who seem unconcerned about his allowances.

13. Incidentally former Minister, Tan Sri Kadir Sheikh Fadzir also resigned but he did not have a very big and profitable law practice.

Quick Salution to remove Browser Hijacker from IP address: 85.12.43.84

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Here's a series of steps by step on how you can take to use Hijack This to remove a browser hijack.

(BTW, thanks to my good friend RT for teaching me this, providing the notes this was based on and allowing me to pass this on to you.)

BEFORE YOU START - Download and install Hijack This from http://www.downloads.com/

-STEP 1- SAFETY STUFF

Backup your documents and create a system restore point.

-STEP 2- CHECK FOR SUSPICIOUS STARTUP ITEMS

You can use Hijack This to clean out hijacked items from Microsoft's Internet Explorer (redirections due to spyware), however they will return if the executable program causing it is not removed.a.

Click on Start> Run and type "msconfig" and click OK.b. Select the "Startup" tab. c. Uncheck any items you don't recognize.

Note that many legitimate programs will appear here too.Most spyware will load from this area.

If unsure if a particular item is legitimate or not, do a Google search on the .exe file name that loads. The only caveat here is that some spyware .exe files get a randomly generated name, so a search will not identify them.

You can look in the Command column to see the name of the .exe file itself and you can stretch this column if you cannot see the entire line of text.

By the way, it IS safe to uncheck everything here as a test anyway - nothing critical to Windows loads here. So, if in doubt, it is OK to uncheck something.

d. Apply the changes, and restart Windows.

-STEP 3 - Run Hijack This1.

Run the tool, and select "Scan".

2. Look mostly at the R0, R1 and 02 entries. This relates to the hijack, and represent changes to your default browser settings (homepage, search page).

3. Have a look at the addresses for these entries. If they are different from your preferences, check the box next to it.4. Click on "Fix Checked" and confirm.

This process cleans out the modified (hijacked) entries. You can also define what Hijack This uses by clicking the Config button (lower right), however this is not required.

-STEP 4 - DOUBLE-CHECK HOME PAGE AND TEST

One problem is that if the IE Home Page isn't cleared, you'll get "rehijacked" when you launch IE. This is because that particular page is the source of the problem. (It may try to load an ActiveX control.)

Hijack This may have already reset your Home Page in

STEP 3, but double check before starting IE:

a. Head to Control Panel, Internet Options.
b. Change your Home Page on the General tab.
c. Browse the Internet, reboot your machine, and test over the next little while.
If the hijack stays away, you've successfully cleared it, and one of the Startup items you disabled in STEP 2 might still be the cause.

-STEP 5- PERMANENETLY DELETE THE CAUSE

We need to find the Startup item that is causing this, if any. Recall that in STEP 2 we disabled some suspicious startup items. One, or several of them may be triggering the hijack.
Also note that we've been testing the machine with the Startup Items disabled. We want to ensure the computer runs fine (no errors) with all these items unchecked.

If you are unsure about deleting an item or using the registry editor, seek help with your local tech expert.a. Launch MSCONFIG once more.b. For the first suspicious item, expand the "Location" column to see where it is loading from in the registry.c.

Click on Start, Run, type "regedit" and click OK.d. Browse to the key listed in the "Location" column for MSCONFIG.e. Delete the key on the right hand side only, that specifically matches that startup item. **See example below.** f. Note the "Command" folder in MSCONFIG. Browse to this folder, and delete the .exe file itself. **See example below.**

-----EXAMPLE-----

In this example, the Startup Tab of MSCONFIG indicates that:
pxzyc.exe loads from Command "C:\WINDOWS\PXZYC.EXE" and Location "HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Microsoft\Windows\CurrentVersion\Run"
In this case, we go to the registry editor and find that Run key on the left window. On the right hand Window pane you'll see each item in that Run key, specifically "pxzyc.exe" in this case. Delete the entry for "pxzyc.exe" in the registry only.

In addition, we'll browse to the C:\WINDOWS folder, and manually delete the pxzyc.exe file that resides there.-----------------
g. Repeat these steps for each suspicious item.

-ADDENDUM 1
-Some spyware also adds itself as Web content on your desktop background.To remove this:

a. Right-click the desktop, selecting Properties.b. Select the Desktop tab, then the Customize button.c. Select the Web tab, and delete any content indicated.

-ADDENDUM 2
-In STEP 3, you may note that the RO, R1 etc. entries point to an .htm or .html file on your local computer. Although Hijack This will clean out your IE settings, it will not delete the local copy of the html file on your computer. Be sure to browse to the location of the file indicated, and delete the file manually.

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What is browser hijacker ?

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How To Resolve / Remove this IP address: 85.12.43.84
Problem
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First of all This A browser hijacker (sometimes called hijackware) is a type of malware program that alters your computer's browser settings so that you are redirected to Web sites that you had no intention of visiting. Most browser hijackers alter default home pages and search pages to those of their customers, who pay for that service because of the traffic it generates.

More virulent versions often: add bookmarks for pornographic Web sites to the users' own bookmark collection; generate pornographic pop-up windows faster than the user can click them shut; and redirect users to pornographic sites when they inadvertently mistype a URL or enter a URL without the www. preface. Poorly coded browser hijackers -- which, unsurprisingly, are common -- may also slow your computer down and cause browser crashes.

Browser hijackers and the pornographic material they often leave in their wake can also be responsible for a variety of non-technical problems. Employees have lost jobs because of content and links found on their computers at work; people have been charged with possession of illegal material; and personal relationships have been severed or strained. In one case in the United States, a Russian immigrant was convicted for possession of child pornography, although he claims to have been the victim of a browser hijacker.

Like adware and spyware, a browser hijacker may be installed as part of freeware installation. In this case, the browser hijacker is probably mentioned in the user agreement -- although, obviously, not identified as a browser hijacker. The problem is that users typically either ignore the fine print or only give it a cursory reading. A browser hijacker may also be installed without user permission, as the result of an infected e-mail, a file share, or a drive-by download.

To avoid contamination, experts advise users to read user agreements carefully, and to be cautious about freeware downloads and e-mail messages from unknown sources.

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Love

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I carry your heart with me.
I carry it in my heart.
I am never without it.
Anywhere I go, you go, my dear.
And whatever is done by only me, is your doing, my darling.
I fear no fate,
for you are my fate, my sweet.
I want no world.
For beautiful, you are my world… my true.
Here is the deepest secret no one knows.
Here is the root of the root
And the bud of the bud.
And the sky of the sky of a tree called life
Which grows higher than the soul can hope
Or mine can hide.
It’s the wonder that’s keeping the stars apart.
I carry your heart.
I carry it in my heart.

The Early Beginnings of Chinese Mid-Autumn Festival

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History of the Early Beginnings of the Mid-Autumn Festival:

Mid-Autumn Festival has been celebrated for more that two thousand year and can be trace to the early Zhou Dynasty where celebrating the moon during mid-autumn appears to have occurred since Zhou Dynasty (ending in 221BC ) where during this period the night of the roundest moon of the year was an occasion for the Chinese to hold rituals to greet the cool weather and sacrifice to the Moon Goddess at that times, it was during the Tang Dynasty (618-907) that the festival was made official. Becoming grander over time, by Qing Dynasty (1644-1911) times, the mid-autumn festival was second only in importance to the Spring Festival or Chinese New Year).

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The Moon festival for 2008 (also called the Mooncake or Mid-Autumn festival) falls on This September 14th 2008

The History of Chinese Mid Autumn Festival

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The History of Mid Autumn Festival

What is the Moon festival? Every year on the fifteenth day of the eighth month of the lunar calendar, when the moon is at its maximum brightness for the entire year, the Chinese all around the world celebrate "zhong qiu jie”. Or “Middle Autumn Season” Literally meaning Mid-Autumn festival

When did this festival first begin? No exact date can be found in historical documents, but scholars assume that it is related to 2 customs in China.

The first custom Concern that during the autumn of the 15th day of the 8th month of the Chinese calendar is the time when rice paddies are harvested; some people believe that the Mid Autumn Festival came from the autumn reward ritual.

The second custom concerns worship of the moon. According to astronomy, the Mid Autumn Festival occurs at the autumn equinox. At this time, the sunlight shines vertically on the equator, equally dividing the day and night in both the southern and northern hemispheres. The moon appears in the evening with gentle winds and light clouds. This is the best time to watch the moon. People later made this day, the day to worship the moon.

Still it should not be confuse that the moon are just for celebration only.

Enjoying the moon is an ancient tradition in the world and also in China going back nearly 1,400 years. Visit any historical palace or classical garden and you will very likely find a "Moon Viewing Pavilion" or two.

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It is lovely to think about actually, isn't it?

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"Taking time with your friends and family to sit outside under a starless sky, gazing at the round white orb shining brightly from the heavens above, is something we, in this century, ought to schedule in our daytimes."

The Mid Autumn festival, Why Chinese Celebrate it

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What is The Mid Autumn festival, Why Chinese Celebrate it?

" When the moon is full, mankind is one "

--In China, the full moon is Symbolism: is traditionally a symbol for reunion, tuanyuan, as yuan means round. The Chinese people celebrate by coming together as families to eat, drink and be merry and has always been represented the gatherings of friends and family.

Thus, Mid-Autumn Festival is a time for family reunions. On this night, Chinese family members and friends will gather to admire the bright mid-autumn harvest moon, and eat moon cakes and pomeloes together out side in the courtyard and some families will go together to scenic spots and parks for moon appreciation parties, holding barbecues outside under the moon, and to put pomelo rinds on one's head, and eating moon cakes.

Brightly lit lanterns are often carried around by children during the 14 th and 15th night of the festival

Together with the celebration, there appear some special customs in different parts of the country, such as burning incense, planting Mid-Autumn trees, lighting lanterns on towers, and fire dragon dances. Shops selling mooncakes, before the festival, often display pictures of Chang'e, floating to the moon.

Another one of the reason traditionally is that it is a reward ritual, Moon Cake Festival is celebrated on the fifteenth day of the eighth lunar month in observance of the bountiful Autumn harvest in the paddies field this is because China in the ancient time is an agricultural country, and farming is closely related to the seasons.

In ancient times, farmers worshipped the Earth God to pray for a good harvest, when they sowed the seeds in spring. This was known as spring worship. During autumn, farmers also worshipped the Earth God to thank him for giving them a good harvest. This was known as autumn reward. Since the 15'" month of the 8th month in the Chinese calendars is the time when rice paddies are harvested . Thus the Mid Autumn Festival also can be said is a day to celebrate and thank for the reward from God and Earth that came from the mid autumn season.

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PS:

From Memories of My late Great GrandMother

Why? putt pomelo rinds on one's head – this is usualy done by the doughter or grand doughter in the family will put a Pomelo skin on the head of the father or their grandfather and any family member who is the family patriarch. During this celebration This is because the Chinese word for "pomelo" or "grapefruit" is yu, which is homophonous with the word for "protection," yu, expressing the hope that the moon god give them protection.

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My Small and Humble Comment about The Mid Autumm Festival...

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Although old rituals are no longer followed, families continue to gather for a day to relax and eat moon cakes.The Mid-Autumn Festival is one of the two most important holidays in the Chinese calendar (the other being the Chinese Lunar New Year), and is a legal holiday in several countries. Farmers celebrate the end of the summer harvesting season on this date.

The symbolism that are used in Chinese Mid Autumn prayer and celebration

2008-08-26T00:36:00.003+08:00

"The symbolism that are used in Chinese Mid Autumn prayer and celebration"

The Thing that are use for the ceremony have many symbolism where also on the altar are moon cakes and plates of pomegranates, melons, grapes, apples and peaches, all fruits that are round like the moon, and rice, wine and tea. The pomegranates and melons represent children, the apples and grapes fertility and the peaches long life.

The melons are cut open and the edges cut in jagged shapes like the petals of the lotus. Another popular fruit for the altars is the grapefruit-like pomelo, whose Chinese name, yow, is a homophone for "to have." the filling of the moon cakes: sweet bean paste or lotus seed with a boiled egg at the heart to symbolize the moon.

Beside this, a sack of yellow beans are also (offerings to the rabbit in the moon) and cockscomb flowers. If a nine-joints lotus roots are found they will be giving to the members of the imperial court to offered to the moon but since the lotus rarely produces roots that have more than two or three joints, If they are not available several roots were patched together to get the lucky number of nine.

The full moon cakes, t'uan yuan ping, were sometimes as big as a foot in diameter and often had images on the top of the three-legged toad and the rabbit of the moon. In the old time they were made out of a greyish (moon-colored) flour and arranged in a pyramid of thirteen (13 for the 13 full moons of the year). Some people eat them as soon as they are done sacrificing to the moon, while others keep them until New Year's Eve.

The offering commonly made are : a brown seed called Ling Ke, or Water Caltrop also known as Water Chestnut . It looks like a Chinese bat which makes it an emblem of luck. It is sometimes found carved in jade or shaped as the knob of a teapot. It is also made into a child's toy, whirled on a string which is threaded through a hole cut in the middle.

One of the common popular practice are offering New toiletries on the altar for Her to bless. But now in the modern day ,When the full moon rises after sunset, each woman approaches the altar, bows three times, and lights two candles and some incense. Afterwards they burn the moon nimbus and the cardboard bowl containing the paper clothes and "spirit money." burnt at the end of the ceremonies, along with the "spirit money." and paper clothes As it dies down, firecrackers are sometimes thrown into the embers to scatter the ashes to the four winds of heaven.

For the rest of the night, the women sit in the courtyard all night long, feasting and drinking tea and wine, some studying the moon for auguries, some composing poems about the beauty of the moon and the night, some playing the game of “Capturing the Moon,” by trying to catch her reflection in a bowl of water. Other typical foods enjoyed on this night: chicken and roast meat and Chinese char siu.

The round "moon cakes" eaten on this festival are symbolic of family unity and closeness. Pomelos are also eaten on this day. The Chinese word for "pomelo" or "grapefruit" is yu, which is homophonous with the word for "protection," yu, expressing the hope that the moon god give them protection. Moon gazing is another essential part of this festival.

"To The Romantic ones"

On this day, the moon is at its roundest and brightest. This is also a time for lovers to tryst and pray for togetherness, symbolized by the roundness of the moon. Unlike most other Chinese festivals, the Mid-Autumn Festival is a low-key holiday, characterized by peace and elegance.
But most importantly, Chinese believe in praying to the moon god for protection, family unity, and good fortune.

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To the gir:l you may want to put New toiletries the altar for Her to bless as She endows her worshippers with beauty and aids in love relationships..... TJ

The Tradition in Chinese Mid Autumn and How It is celebrated

2008-08-26T00:21:00.003+08:00

The Tradition and How it is celebrated.

The Date -The date of Mid-autumn Festival also known as Chinese Moon Festival is on the 15th moon day of 8th Chinese lunar month (Chicken month). Since the new moon day is the first day of a Chinese Lunar Month. The first day of 8th lunar month in this year is 31 first August 2008, thus the Moon Festival is on 14 September 2007.

This is a day to worship the moon god. According to folk legend, this day is also the birthday of the earth god (T'u-ti Kung). This festival signals that the year's hard work in the fields will soon come to an end, with only the harvest left to attend to. People use this opportunity to express their gratitude to heaven (represented by the moon) and earth (symbolized by the earth god) for the blessings they have enjoyed over the past year.

Praying to the moon goddess traditionally by custom are done women and girl who is over the age of 13. If you are wandering why only girl pray to the moon and celebrate the Moon this is because the full moon of the eighth Chinese lunar month is a “women”. This is the beginning of the yin part of the year, when the dark takes precedence over the light, and the Moon is the symbol of yin energy, which also includes water, women and night. In the old Chinese agrarian system, autumn and winter were the women’s seasons.

There is a Peking (Beijing) proverb that says: "Men do not bow to the moon. Women do not sacrifice to the God of the Kitchen”

The Moon Goddess, known in many variation's of the stories are known as Hengo or Chang-e ,who rule rules the Jade Palace of the Moon. Where in may stories and fable she swallowed the pill of immortality given to her husband, the archer Hou Yi, and then fled to the moon to avoid his wrath. Her husband later became the God of the Sun and now the two meet only once a month during the New Moon. Other creatures that live in the Moon include a rabbit who is always pictured working with a pestle, pounding up the elixir of life, a three-legged toad (sometimes said to be Chang-O) and a cassia tree, which although attacked by a woodcutter, keeps renewing itself.

Usually shortly before sunset they will set up the altar or before the moon rises, the women in the village or the family will set up an altar in the middle of the court yard with an image of the Moon Hare or sometimes put a ceramic figure of the Moon Hare or the three-legged toad of the moon in the center, surrounded by 13 moon cakes, the fruit, and any other symbols that represent the moon, like pearls, dimes, abalone shells, mirrors, water, or thing that are link representing the Moon.

A sand-filled receptacle in the center of the altar holds sticks of incense and candles. Spirit money is also placed on the altar, sometimes in the form of folded gold and silver paper, representing ingots, or as "thousand sheets" (a series of connected zigzag strips), or circular pieces like coins. Paper clothing is also set out for the sun and moon, for instance, a gilt and red crown, or a red apron with gold embroidery.

Decorate with lanterns and then worship the Moon silently as she comes up. The women will “draw her down into their bodies” as if they they are one with the moon, using the posture of drawing down the moon, arms open wide and held up above they heads.

When the moon full every will be bathed in her silvery rays, traditional usually sing a song in honor of the moon, This is followed by the reciting of the poems and readings they brought to honor her. Some will dance and celebrated the even of the full moon while the male will be out merry making and gazing to the moon.

Life so bored but ..........Thank god we have friend

2008-08-24T00:28:00.005+08:00

Dear Diary..

Brags..... and comment of Today!!

Its been raining the whole afternoon that i had to cancell my Outing with my freind to watch a Movie at Mid Valley today.......Not much to do that i spent reading for my my mid tern tis monday...i hate the subject very much...no..not the subject but our lecture....

Braggs

before i begin my entry tonight, let me share with you an email i copied out. some of the phrases below have really touched me, and i hope, they would do the same to you.

~ Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one which has been opened for us.

The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back! Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!

Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy.

Always put yourself in others' shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person, too.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Happiness lives for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

the bolded phrase is the one i like best.

how true..that "Happiness lives for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives."

without knowing, without tasting the bitterness of hurt, sadness, heartbreak, loneliness, how is one able to fully appreciate the rest of the miracles that surround us everyday?

im a witness to that. my closest friends would know that i have went through some really difficult times. Times that have hurt, harmed and sorrowed me. Times that made me curse and swear at the world. And yet, i realise, it is only through these experiences that i have grown so much.

thank You so much you all ... i enjoy it and love You All..

Good Nite ...

2008-08-15T10:45:00.000+08:00

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看看你的是不是也说出了你的内心。。

2008-08-12T12:58:00.002+08:00

看看你的是不是也说出了你的内心。。is an email that i receive last night...NiCe!!

白羊座终极完美分析

“白羊吗？太恐怖了！他们脾气大、暴力、瞧不起人，还是躲远些、小心为妙！”
　　如果你这末认为，那你可能就会失去一个肯为你付出生命的人。受火星的灼烧，白羊决不是人们想象中的那种冷血狂魔！
　　白羊的内心世界有两个：恨的世界与爱的世界。白羊的外显世界与内心世界是同步的，只不过由于他的“恨”意更昭显，以至于掩盖了他爱的那一面。
　　白羊很善良，心中总是想着别人，很多时候愿意委屈自己而成全别人，但由于白羊不能掩饰自己的情感，凡事争锋，有什末不满就会立刻表露出来，于是不能将美事做尽，落个彻底的好人，反而最后还招来一鼻子灰！比如，白羊想看爱情连续剧，你想看科教片，于是你们就开始为了看什末而打假。如果你硬看科教片，则白羊会大吵大骂，最后“砰”的把电视给关上！白羊心里想，电视又不是你一个人的，凭什末只许你看不许我看？！你不让我看，你也别想看！但如果白羊占了上风，看上了爱情连续剧，而你默默的走开，则白羊一会儿又会觉得过意不去，心疼你，怕你不高兴，于是让你看。一句话，白羊是重形式不重实质，极度不能容忍别人挑战他的权威。
　　
　　其实，白羊是那种死要面子活受罪的人。面子，比白羊的生命还重要！白羊最不能容忍的就是别人贬低他、瞧不起他！谁要是对白羊吼几嗓子，白羊能吼谁24个小时。比如，上司若是责备白羊不当，则白羊就会气势汹汹的反责备上司，而且责备的更欢。上司责备他一句，他能责备上司10句！！当上司解雇了这个不肖员工以后，白羊不但不伤心，反而还有种壮烈感：“虽然丢了工作，但是丢得值！我当着那末多人的面骂了上司一顿，真是露脸！恩，同事们现在一定还在议论我的英雄事迹……”白羊边重新找工作边想，想着想着，自己便不禁暗笑起来，接着便是昂首阔步，得意洋洋，觉得自己真是了不起、不可一世！
　　
　　白羊爱面子，都爱到了成癖的地步。白羊希望别人喜欢他、爱戴他、吹捧他，最好能对他前呼后拥、关怀备至。白羊男们总是感慨自己为何没能当上总统，白羊女们则从来都认为自己是总统夫人的料儿，只是不小心找错了男朋友！白羊总觉得自己是个天才，只是因为怀才不遇才沦落到今天这种无名小卒的地步。比如，白羊认为自己天生就是个艺术家，只是张艺谋导演没发现他。若是张导发现他，他一定比巩丽要出色的多！由于白羊喜欢那种高高在上的感觉，所以，只要你平素多吹捧着他、赞美着他，则他便会“累死不知死”的对你，你喜欢他怎样他就会怎样。
　　
　　白羊很温柔，只要你没惹着他，你可以随便与他嬉戏。但如果你要是有什末一不小心的举动触犯了他，则最好赶快给自己准备个棺材。比如，白羊与你打情骂俏，很开心的气氛，双方都乐在其中。忽然，你一不小心，出手重了些，打痛了白羊，则白羊就会立刻瞪大眼睛、提高嗓门，把你骂个狗血喷头，甚至再狠狠的还你两个更重的巴掌。此时，欢乐的气氛一下陷入了僵局，弄得你心里别扭至极。但白羊却认为，闹归闹，你也总得有个限度吧，出手没轻没重，真是讨厌，我的漂亮的手都被你打红了！想着想着，白羊会更生气，弄不好再轰炸你一次～～～不过，过了10分钟，白羊又开始和你有说有笑，好象什末事情也没发生过。白羊凡事都来得快，去得也快，一般不记仇。
　　
　　你也许会说：“白羊不记仇？怎末可能！他们总是抓住别人的错误不放！”但是，白羊确实不记仇，他们抓住别人的错误不放，实际上是为了时刻提醒对方，不要再犯同样的错误！比如，白羊的爱人有外遇，但经过一番周折，两个人又和好了。那末，在以后的生活中，白羊会时常责骂爱人当初是怎末的抛弃自己、自己是多末多末的不幸、自己的心灵受到了多大多大的创伤！白羊之所以会这末做，主要有两个原因：一方面，每当白羊想起这些，就会十分的激火、生气，于是非骂爱人一顿不可，以解心头之恨；另一方面，白羊这末做是要时刻提醒爱人，以后不能再有外遇了，变相给爱人敲警钟！

白羊是那种把自己的快乐建筑在别人的痛苦之上的人，因为白羊爱满处宣扬别人的溴事。比如，他会在大庭广众之下，说你们小时候一起玩耍时你不小心尿了裤子，更或者，他会对你的心上人说你有爱挖鼻孔的习惯（偶服了白羊了～～～）。但是，白羊并不觉得说这些有什末不可以，因为在白羊心里，这些都是那末的美好，是童年的回忆、是人生百态的小花絮。他们说你的溴事，仅仅是因为他们觉得好玩，觉得很甜美，能给人带来乐趣，把别人的目光都集中到自己身上来，让别人认为自己是开心果！白羊完全没有挖苦你、拆你爱情道路的意思，只是结果往往……
　　
　　白羊天生气质非凡，人中龙凤。白羊的人生宗旨是“活出自己”。由于白羊天性中有桀骜的一面，于是在与人相处的时候，就不自觉的流露出一种傲慢的气息。由于白羊的这种不自觉的摆谱儿，以至于不了解白羊的人都躲着白羊，因为他们觉得白羊看不起人。但如果有个机会接触了白羊，则人们又会认为白羊是那末的好接近、那末的好心肠。白羊自己觉不出自己的傲慢，心中只是暗暗纳闷：为什末别人总躲着我，我是多末的平易近人、和蔼可亲啊！！！
　　
　　白羊多没主见，耳朵根儿软，自己做好坏分析的能力很差。白羊极富正义感，喜欢让不公正的事情昭雪。但是，由于白羊的没主见，使得白羊的正义感带有一厢情愿的色彩。比如，白羊认为从一而终是种正义，于是，任何发生婚外情的人都会受到白羊的谴责与蔑视。白羊认为，我一生下来，父母、老师就告诉我要从一而终，难道我坚持从一而终还会有错误吗？！白羊不明白，任何的一桩善也是一桩恶，正义与否远非能用是否从一而终而简单定论。这也可从一个侧面反映出白羊是个简单的人，任何复杂的事情到白羊手中都会变得简单、易行（人生能有这种魄力也实在是一件美事）。
　　
　　由于白羊没主见，所以白羊本能的喜欢和能安孔约旱娜嗽谝黄稹０籽蛐睦锎娌蛔《鳎龅绞材┦虑槎家员鹑怂担蛭籽蛉衔鹑四芑航馑闹械牟挥淇欤馨锼馔淹纯唷０籽蚍浅Ｐ枰饨绲闹С郑裨颍籽蚓突岣械椒浅５奈拗⒔孤恰１热纾籽蛟诠财瞪嫌龅搅肆髅ッ蛩诠怀瞪暇湍艽蟪炒舐钇鹄础Ｖ螅现猎娓改福轮列镒优灾撂帽碇谇灼荩庵僚笥蚜诶铮寄芙耸乱晃逡皇南蛩敲恳桓鋈诵鹗鲆槐椤Ｐ鹗鐾旰螅鹑艘欢ㄒ煊λ参克妇洌裨蛩只嵯蚰阈鹗鲆槐椋煌昝涣说倪脒洞耸隆?/SPAN>
　　
　　白羊对待感情亦是反应神速。若你向白羊示意爱慕之情，则白羊若喜欢你，第二天你们便成了情侣；若白羊不喜欢你，就会躲你远远的。你若穷追不舍，他还会一点面子不留的直指责你：“躲我远点，我不喜欢你！否则我打你！”（汗～～～）在白羊心中，喜欢就是喜欢，讨厌就是讨厌，没那末多的的暧昧不清。
　　
　　白羊喜欢那种有惊世骇俗之举的人，因为白羊觉得只有这种人才配得上自己。比如，你们约会，到了吃饭的时间，你最好带白羊去钓鱼台吃，就算你的钱只够在钓鱼台喝瓶矿泉水，白羊也会因你的这个壮举而爱死你；你若带白羊去吃街头的麻辣烫，那末你就做好被白羊蹬了的准备吧！
　　
　　白羊的性欲很旺盛，但由于他们很顾及自己的面子，所以总是光想不练。换句话说，就是白羊的意淫很严重。比如，在公共汽车上，身边坐着一个漂亮MM或GG，于是，白羊就开始对其产生了无尽的有关性的想象……由于白羊的行动力超强，所以做起爱来也是超神速。

处女座终极完美分析
都说处女座另类，双重性格，甚至有点神经质，其实原因只有一个，处女座的一切都要随自己外显的性格而转，姑且称之为“状态”。处女座状态好的时候，可以将自己聪明、细腻、能干、温情、幽默、有内涵等优良品质完全外展，此时他们显得如此完美，光芒四射，并且可以表现得非常外向、健谈，容易与人打成一片（这本非他们的性格）。而一旦处女座状态不好，便会变成另一个人，甚至非常窝囊，一事无成，不过通常此时他们都躲避外在的干扰,所以让人感觉有点间歇性自闭症)因为同为水星守护，所以处女和双子一样善变，但双子善变的是心思，处女善变的却是情绪。

　　
很多时候处女座要面对很多实际的琐事，这时的处女座便不得不在冷中面对周围世界：要么说话做事很不自然，有做作的痕迹；要么便极度冷漠和被动，对谁都不理不睬。其实处女座很清楚自己现在的样子，但他们无力改变和控制自己的情绪，只能选择疯狂地逃避一切。

他们想的是：与其很不自然地面对你，尴尬地和你说些无关痛痒地话，或是因和平时反差太大而被人说成表里不一，性格怪异，还不如先躲一阵子，等调节好了以后再出来。所以，在与人交往中，他们只会和不得不交流的人（实在躲不掉）或是完全陌生的人（反正无所谓）交谈，而和熟悉的朋友反而疏远。

所以.你在他心中地位越重，他躲得你越远。特别是恋人.

而且,大家都知道处女座的人有严重的完美主义倾向,所以就有了所谓的\\'处女座的人最喜欢若即若离\\'。原因很简单：他只想给你一个最好最完美的自己，而不愿让你看到他无助脆弱的一面。所以请记住，有时处女座对你冷，绝不是你说错做错什么，这是他们正常的生理现象，他们只是不想让严寒和冰霜伤害了你（可事实上这种做法已经伤害）。不必难过，因为他们在乎你的话，他们的内心比你还要难过、自责和内疚！他们所能做的，只希望快点调整好情绪，回到你的身边。

正基于以上两点，处女座有时便会表现出非常另类的行为和思维模式。他们的性格也很多来源于此：不喜主动，不善交际（也可以热情，只是今天热了，终有一天会冷的），不爱表现，不喜抛头露面（万一哪天情绪无法把握状态不好时，岂不大失脸面），诸如此类。

关于“洁癖”并非处女都有洁癖，很多处女座并不爱干净，但却要求整洁，他们更多的是井然有序，不喜欢别人破坏他们所整理和布置的“完美”格局。处女座更多的是有精神洁癖。一旦触碰到他们精神上的禁区，严重时会表现得歇斯底里。

关于“花心”一般说来处女座绝不花心，忠诚是他们的代名词。异性关系多很可能是他们需要确定一个好人缘和自己有魅力，来反击那些普遍观点。一旦找到心中真爱，他会呵护你一辈子，只要你能给他安全感，他永不背叛，心中眼中唯你一人。寻花问柳，红杏出墙这些事与他们绝缘（一是责任感所致，二是怕麻烦）。

关于“聪明”不似双子灵活机巧，不象水瓶创意非凡，也不是天蝎的那种计画周密，处女座更多体现的是智慧。细腻、理性、好学加上十二星座里一流的洞察力和最强的逻辑思维能力，处女座想不聪明都难。没事少在处女座面前信口开河，随意撒谎，很多伪纱他们一眼便能看透；也别跟他们玩什么心计，你玩不过他们的。处女是那种可以把你卖了你还得向他道谢的类型。没事也少跟处女座辩论，他们没理也可找出理，甚至找出不止一条理来。处女是永远不会吃亏的。

关于“单纯”处女座很纯真，但绝不单纯，他们内心复杂得让人难以想象，很多不经意的事可能都是他们精心布置的。处女座也总在纯洁和好色之间徘徊，这一点最难说清。不过他们真正的内心是极其善良的，
宁可自己苦也不愿伤害任何人，心灵如水晶一般晶莹剔透。

关于“幽默”都说处女座冷若冰霜，缺乏幽默。多和他们接触吧，你会体会到什么是冷幽默，什么是真正的幽默，而并非品位低俗的搞笑。

关于“迟钝”别看你和处女座说某些提议时他们半天才反应过来，在你说好的一瞬间，他们脑子里可能已经转过五六个你这项提议会造成的后果（通常是消极后果）了。他们总是想得太多，绝非想得太慢。

关于“自私”处女座的自私觉不是狮子的那种惟我独尊，也不是水瓶的以自我为中心。处女座正因为是无私的，所以显得自私。（能够理解吗？）因为处女不想伤害任何人。

关于“逃避”由于处女座性格上的因素，他们通常会显得压力很大。当周遭的事物已无法掌控，或是自己的情绪无法调节好时，他们会疯狂地逃避，堕落自己，这种状况通常对别人无害，却是伤害自己，让所有爱他们的人感到心碎。不过不用太担心，过一阵子他们自己会好的，他们天性的自我批判精神很快便会起作用。处女座一般不会彻底堕落，堕落前可能都已留有余地，只是在等待着希望的来临。甚至有时堕落都是做给别人看的。

关于“内涵”处女座有涵养这一点是肯定的。在成长中不断吸取教训，不断学习，取人之长来丰富自己的内涵。因为他们感觉到情绪无法把握，而这些是自己可以踏踏实实做到的，将来一定有帮助。这是他们所追求的完美主义目标。

处女座就是一个表面神秘到难以琢磨，说穿了却又很简单的星座。最接近神的人？可能吧，处女座喜欢这样
来标榜自己。因为他们确实有超凡脱俗的一面。他们的内心接近了神，可是身在这个世界，不能不食人间烟火吧，所以必须得戴着一个面具活在这个世界上。

处女座喜欢和人说些暧昧的话，对心仪的对象却不好意思表白。
处女座希望别人了解自己，却又只将能公布的那一部分对外展示。
处女座是最有责任感的人了，可很多时候却害怕承担责任。

金牛座终极另类分析
幽默是金牛的天赋

与一般星座书上描写的金牛们相反，其实金牛座非常具有幽默感。他们天生就有搞笑的才能，善于制造轻松的氛围，不要再将牛牛们认为成是一群僵硬腐化的人，相反他们很可爱。还记得在《满城尽带黄金甲》的发布会场上不断耍宝的金牛发哥吗？他的幽默感绝对令资深娱记也大跌眼镜，人缘好不是随便说说的，金牛座有着宽厚的胸怀。

其实他们有着叛逆的灵魂

金牛基本上看起来都是乖孩子，仿佛脚踏实地，固执老实，但是，谁曾想到，其实他们的内心都有着一个小邪魔在作祟？他们虽然是一板一眼的生活，但是在他们的内心里却喜欢着调皮的恶作剧。不要金牛们想象的太沉闷，他们其实内心五彩斑斓，而且特别钟意制造出各种人生的小小乐趣。也正是这样叛逆的灵魂，让有些金牛让人吃惊。所以，一般的容貌姣好的乖乖女，或者一般人理想中的文静男，其实，都不属于金牛的鉴赏范围，他们总会奇异的喜欢些标新立异的人。这点在金牛男上表现的较为突出，也因此而衍生出不少瓶女和牛男的佳话吧。

思考是金牛的具象

在贪图享乐的外表下，金牛有一颗哲学家的心。他们看问题的方法与众不同，他们有着唯物主义的思考逻辑，不会轻易人云亦云，也正因为如此，他们让人觉得固执非常。

但是千万不要因为固执就否认金牛们的智慧，有马克思，列宁，康德……为证，金牛们完整的理性思维往往能建立严密体系，只是有时候他们太容易钻牛角尖！不过即使是钻牛角尖的牛牛也具有鲜明的个人特质，李敖就是这类金牛的代表：）

务实的人生不需要浪漫武装

跟牛牛生活是一件比较乏味的事情，如果你钟爱浪漫的仪式。

因为牛牛无论金钱或者生活，他们都踏着务实的步伐。他们不会轻易说我爱你，他们不会随便送花，他们甚至不记得你的生日，更别提情人节等什么形而上的各种纪念日，这让人大为光火。因为没有了形式的爱情，又怎么能证明是爱情呢？

但是，金牛们会告诉你，其实有时候真正的帮助其实好过鲜花香水，有时候挺身而出的担当其实胜过所有的甜言蜜语。所以金牛们的爱情，也许让人闷到感觉不出火花，但是，在贫乏的爱的表象下，却藏着他们深刻的滴水不漏而且日久弥坚的关怀。

享乐人生的信仰

金牛们懂得生活。他们虽然很执著，但是该放弃的时候，他们并没有太多犹豫。从利益出发考量的方式，让他们在现实生活中相当的如鱼得水，而懂得平衡自己的贪念，而追求物质的享受和一心的宁静，是金牛座中的极品。这样的金牛能够在逆境中坦然，在顺境中懂得顺应。他们有着预见性的智慧，使人生得到完整的规划。在适当的时候寻求闲适，所以金牛座很少有面临困境无法自拔的困兽，他们相当的懂得自我调节和生活。他们有着自己的节奏。

能够轻松生活的智者

金牛们在星座排行中表现一般，但是其实他们都很出色，金牛座的孩子往往是班干部，金牛座的爸爸妈妈都是模范爸妈，他们在生活中尽职尽责，富有责任感，虽然有时候稍嫌古板，但是正是他们撑起了所谓规矩的框架。

严肃生活认真思考却有能享有生活乐趣的金牛们其实非常可爱，当然，如果他们不那么市侩，那就更好了！

巨蟹座终极完美分析
巨蟹是心软的，容易被感动，即使表面看起来总是有一副硬硬的壳，但那壳子底下是一颗柔软敏感到极至的内心。它们面对一份感情是犹豫再三的，不要说它们懦弱，它们只是明白自己是容易受伤的。他们对感情抱有信仰，相信纯真、相信天长地久，所以有时是挑剔的。

这是一层表面坚硬的壳，其实攻克轻而易举，因为蟹蟹有一颗柔软的心。

蟹蟹恋爱了，这时的它们变的很粘人，很婆妈，因为你是它的中心，它会为你考虑很多，饭吃了吗？天气会变了吗？记得带伞哦！路上车多，慢点走哦！……..诸如此类！

蟹蟹是深情而痴情的，爱上一个人会爱的很深，即使明知道没有结果也很难自拔。这是巨蟹的一种固执，想要得到的东西，往往不会轻易放手。有时，一段没有结果的恋情会成为蟹蟹的生活重心。这无疑是痛苦的，但又难以自拔。然而，巨蟹的不安全感又在内心大叫着放弃，所以这时的蟹蟹总是在坚持和放弃的巨大矛盾中苦苦煎熬着。学会放弃是蟹蟹的一门功课.

当然，如果蟹蟹真的决定放弃了，它的坚决会让所有人吃惊。
要记住：除了你自己，没有人可以伤害到你
蟹子是痴情的，但又不善于表达，面对自己心爱的人拘谨、放不开。它们的幽默感此刻变得生涩。
蟹子是深情的，但又不善于把握，为什么一次次控制不住自己的情绪，说出明知不该讲的话？

分裂而善于幻想的寄居蟹在说巨蟹之前，先说说几个一直以来欣赏的几个偶像，他们都不同，但他们有一个共同点，就是，他们都是巨蟹男。周星驰，王家卫，罗大佑，李宗盛，梁朝伟，张学友……一般在每次排行榜中总是靠末的巨蟹们，看起来并没有很明显的个性，但是，他们在艺术方面的直觉和敏锐却是别人难以匹敌，从这几个人名里就不难看出。他们在生活中都是温文尔雅的，被动的，甚至往往是沉默的，但是在他们的电影，歌曲中，却展露出令人惊异的才华，让我们总是不由自主的为之倾倒。当周星驰让我们笑得泪水横流的时候，我们也早听闻其实戏外的他认真严肃，不苟言笑，对待朋友和情人都很苛刻；我们知道在戏里演什么都神形毕似的影帝梁朝伟同性格南辕北辙的射手刘嘉玲20多年同居，至今都不愿结婚，他总是说，其实他的人生就是在戏里；我们知道张学友出道前曾经是黑社会的小混混，天天宿醉，自暴自弃，也看到张学友成名后依然为了家庭拼命打拼，几近崩溃……

　　这就是巨蟹，其实，最能说明巨蟹特质的，就是－－分裂无论是哪一种蟹，他们都有着分裂的思想。他们渴望安定，也渴望出人头地，他们内心充满艺术的灵感，夸张的幻象，但是在现实生活中，他们总是低眉顺眼，很难真正展露心中的狂想。所以在艺术的舞台上，他们反而得以施展，让心中奇异的狂想放大到极致，他们可以将任何一首歌一个角色演绎的入木三分，所有来自于生活中被动的接受，在艺术的殿堂上得到了最好的宣泄，所以巨蟹真的应该属于舞台。即使没有好的歌喉没有好的外形，但是他们有良好的感受力和表现力，他们的性格实际上更像是一只寄居蟹，在真正自我的生活中，他们常常将自己包裹的很紧，但在诠释和演绎别人的时候，他们那内心的感情得到了释放。

　　巨蟹座的另一个长处是他们有着哲学的思考力世界因两股力量相互消长，而水象就是典型的阴柔之力。水象星座的人有一种天生的宇宙观，巨蟹也是如此，加之他们天生有母爱的情结，所以他们的思考往往带有着人性化的关怀。所以从事与艺术相关的行业的巨蟹，无论如何都可以算是幸运的巨蟹，因为能够得以发挥天然的性格所长。但是不是每个巨蟹都有这样的机会，所以大多数巨蟹都会感到自己的压抑和痛苦。他们不是没有渴望，相反他们需求很多，渴望很多，但是他们总是躲在自己的壳里做着各式各样的幻梦，只是在想，很少实施。所以如果你看到的总是低眉顺眼的巨蟹实际上并不是真正的巨蟹。那只是巨蟹的一个假象。

　　永远无法抹去的自卑巨蟹们其实是自我感觉很好的心高气傲的一群人，但是却又难以克服时时刻刻想躲进壳里的自卑感。他们天生多疑和敏感，碰到困难，就先躲进壳里，自欺欺人，在梦中编织自我的安全感，而从来没有想到如何主动将危机转化为机遇。他们对待困难的消极方式，使他们总很难真正木秀于林，他们总在捕捉他们认为最好的时机，但是那个时机却总是无法到来，其实世间哪有万全之策？当蟹蟹们艰苦的自我互博之时，大好时机已经失去。但是要改变这种天生的自卑感确乎很难，蟹蟹们几乎完全不由自主。
怀旧是巨蟹们的人生主旋律巨蟹们非常怀旧。他们喜欢旧东西，怀恋旧感情，对家庭有着天然的眷恋。泛黄的相片，褪色的丝带，尘封的梳妆台……所有一切带有浪漫情调的旧物，都可以让他们独自神伤，黯然追想，他们总是沉浸在过去的回忆里，永远记得年少时的孤寂敏感，永远记得初恋情人，多年后仍然四处找寻初恋情人的消息，慰籍多年来始终保持新鲜的记忆。所以王家卫的电影总喜欢用这样的句式开头：多年以后……

　　忽冷忽热患得患失的爱情他们天生悲观，永远需要多一点，更多一点的安全感。为什么他们如此需要安全感，因为他们天生就没有安全感，所以他们是很容易恐慌的，所以他们也就变得非常的多疑和猜忌。爱上一个巨蟹是要仔细思量的，因为他们会突然忽冷忽热，突然置之不理，突然恶言相向，但是其实他们并非不爱你，他们有时候是在跟自己呕气。他们渴望天天24小时同你粘在一起，他们对爱人有着强烈的占有欲，恨不得掏心掏肺给你，他们关注你的点点滴滴，小到为你买一支发卡，大到帮你选择哪路公车……他们都费劲心思，他们时时刻刻每件事都为你考量，但又因为付出的不停增加而变得越来越担心害怕，会不会得不到对等的爱。所以他们会突然变得冷淡了，也许只因为你一个眼神，他们就觉得你已经不如从前，于是开始无休止的试探，他们说话总是转弯抹角，但是却总希望你永远清晰表态，假设某天你也含糊了一下，那就完了，蟹蟹们立刻条件反射的开始惴想出无数个虚拟场景，在无尽的悲观中，意淫出种种悲惨场面，然后再见你时，就已经是冷口冷面，甚至说出无比绝情的话语－－所以，你和巨蟹的他们，是要努力去磨合的，给他们足够的信赖和安全，他们回馈你的，绝对让你感动的热泪盈眶。

　　虚伪包装下易感的心实际上巨蟹善于伪装。他们喜欢笑，无论何时何地，他们常常微笑，也许这笑容有时候让人欣慰，但有时候却会让人感到非常的虚伪。当然巨蟹们也总有自己的小奸小坏，但是他们虚伪的前提却总是先为了保护自己。他们对自己应得的利益是淄铢必较，有时候会让人感到他们是不是很小心眼，但是，在朋友聚会等场合上，他们又绝对是豪爽大方，主动抢着付账的人。所以其实巨蟹是个公私概念很明确的人，他们对该得的绝对毫不客气，而对待朋友，他们又觉得其实这点钱根本不算什么。他们是眷恋朋友和家人的，他们基本都有些喜欢酒。而且酒量都还不错，因为他们眷恋那种宾客相尽欢的气氛，更眷恋着家的和乐融洽之感。所以巨蟹们喜欢做饭，即使不会做饭也对美食有天然偏爱，他们懂得享受居家生活，所以巨蟹们有个理想婚姻是最快乐的事情。问题是巨蟹们却常常选择晚婚或不结婚，因为他们多疑又害怕，他们总是对新幻境充满怀疑，对新的家庭又向往又拒绝，在自我矛盾中，不断蹉跎了年华。

　　自己为自己创造安定感觉巨蟹们总是不安，这是一种不好的感觉，因为如此，许多巨蟹枉然蹉跎，终日郁郁。其实，巨蟹们可以尝试自己为自己创造安定的感觉。找一个家里人都喜欢的对象，建立一个自己的家，也许巨蟹会发现自己会变得安稳很多。找个摩羯是比较理想的选择。或者找一个自己的爱好，倾注所有的心血，自己也会变得安定很多。当然蟹蟹们也许会说，你这是站着说话不腰疼啊，要是那么容易的话，还用得着你说吗？呵。但是，无论怎样，当我们自己意识到自己的不安，就该努力去克服他，其实壳外的世界，没有那么可怕，这是真的。

　　总的说来，巨蟹们很可爱，尤其是在艺术上有成就的那些人，他们创造的都是令人仰止的丰碑，所以巨蟹们不必没来由自卑，其实你们都很出色。

摩羯座终极完美分析
年轻的魔羯都是很单纯的，我想他们也不会知道自己将从天使变成恶魔，魔羯座的人天生善良，感情也都很脆弱，也许会因为一些很小的事情难过很长时间，所以他们通常在表面表现的酷酷的与事隔离的样子，其实他们只是不希望让别人看到他脆弱的一面，坚强，理智，承受是魔羯的代名词，他们并不是很随便的表达自己所想，他们希望了解身边所有人的性格，并不是因为好奇，好象只是因为一种安全感，为了保护自己魔羯生出了一种特殊能力。
　　
　　魔羯相对任何星座来比能在最段时间看出一个人的性格无论他们在如何隐藏，这点很像天蝎但是他们却看不出对方的心，他们很容易就会了解到他们身边每一个人的优缺点，但是他们通常不会说出来，也不会太介意，所有的魔羯都很包容对方请记得，如果有一只魔羯指出你的缺点那一定是友善的，虽然他们会用一种讽刺的口气来指出．
　　
　　　　所有魔羯都拥有２个性格，只是大部分魔羯都不愿意去接受，因为他们希望自己永远的傻傻的活下去，魔羯的坏可以媲美过所有星座，也许他们不相信，但是随着时间的积累魔羯的人在慢慢变坏，其实这也是一种自我保护，他们需要知道了解自己最后的一张王牌，做不做就看对方是否达到让魔羯抱负的地步了，这并不是在表扬，似乎用阴险可以形容，当魔羯讨厌一个人的时候那就是一种绝对，魔羯不会随便讨厌一个人，但是如果哪个人做的太过分，这个人会从魔羯心底彻底抹杀，如果这个人激怒了魔羯，呵呵那么这个人就只能等着灾难的降临。
　　
　　　　魔羯是个比较城府的人，他们不会表面去得罪了，但是他们会计划着让这个人知道他所做的事情将会给自己带来多大的回报，魔羯的报复手段极其残忍，他会加倍的还给你，（如果你有一天遭受到摸名的灾难那么你去想想你在什么时候得罪了魔羯）魔羯并不会随便的去加害一个人，因为魔羯也讨厌自己的坏，他们是天才的杀手，一切的一切从很早以前就做好计划，而且这些计划在没有事件出现前他们就在考虑如何完美并无破绽的进行报复计划，也许这些和他的悲观有些联系，魔羯的人很了解世界，但他们固执的相信美好尽管自己知道那是不可能的，大部分魔羯都讨厌坏坏的自己，当然想抛弃自己是不可能的。
　　
　　朋友（最喜欢装傻的星座）
　　魔羯的人都很没有安全感，他们喜欢在任何人面前装傻，这可不是一般的装傻能力，魔羯人聪明就在于这点，他们认为只有傻子在会不牵扯到任何伤害，与其做一个聪明的人不如当一个傻子平凡而又随意，如果不是值得魔羯相信的朋友魔羯永远不会让对方知道自己会有智慧，而无论安全与不安全魔羯对朋友都很真，他们很珍惜些朋友。
　　他们最希望获得朋友的信任，如果从一个朋友那里得不到信任，他不会再与这个朋友交往下去．和魔羯接触过的人都会认为他们脾气很好，好的似乎发傻，其实他们并不是脾气好，只是他们很会装，因为他们了解身边的朋友的所有性格，所以他们在包容对方，就算你做了什么过分的事，他们也早就想考虑好如果对方为什么会这样做，最明显一点，你们可以去看看身边魔羯的朋友，无论你怎么做那些魔羯都不会很惊讶的，其实他们已经知道你为什么会这样了．魔羯的交友观也很随便，他们可能会和贵族很好，也可能会和乞丐聊天，一切的一切只是心灵的交往，很少有魔羯会有势力眼，除非你这个人品太差了。
　　
　　感情（超级白痴）
　　魔羯的人傻的可以，他们并不了解爱情，但是他们只知道爱的感觉，对于他们任何感情的表达都是一种感觉，他们很认真的感受每一个感觉，大部分感觉都可以一个人去感觉，最失败的爱却要两个人，傻傻的魔羯一开始会认为，爱你是我自己的事情和你没关系，可是到后来越来越感觉不是滋味，于是开始对对方表白，表白成功后却不知道如何走下一步，也许是太不浪漫在作祟，魔羯的人可能会拿任何事情开玩笑，但是在爱情方面只要他说出”我爱你”或者话题谈到将来结婚，那么他绝对不是在开玩笑，魔羯很物质，但是这点和金牛处女不一样，他们的物质表现在爱上，他们认为给所爱的人带来无限的物质的就是最大的幸福，因为他们很自卑，唯一能用自己努力获得来的就只有物质了。
　　当自己努力的去让自己所爱的人幸福的时候，自己所爱的人却因为其他的其他离开了他，而到最后自己却不明白自己到底做错了什么，真是可怜的家伙们．
　　
　　追求: 魔羯的追求是认真的，只要对方不让魔羯认为完全没有机会，魔羯就会像疯子一样的追求着，他们其实对自己非常没有信心，唯一的动力只是相信自己在爱着，为了对的起自己的感情，为了认真的去爱一回．
　　
　　被追求:　魔羯对于不喜欢的人不会给予任何机会，魔羯的人很善良，而且他们知道长痛不如短痛的道理，如果魔羯勉强接受了你，那也是出于一种同情心，但是交往没几天他们就开始内疚，他们认为怜悯的爱对追求者来说是一种伤害，他们会尽量的躲避并且对追求者很冷淡追求者尽量的让追求者开始讨厌她／他．如果追求者不理解的话，放心最长不超过一年，魔羯会很理智的告诉你别在联系了，她／他会消失的无影无纵．
　　
　　拒绝:　如果魔羯真的爱了就不会去拒绝你，永远不会．
　　
　　被拒绝:　魔羯比任何一个星座对感情都很认真，恢复伤痕的时间也很长，他们会选择消失，这样对你对他都有好处，因为他怕多看你一眼而又再次无法自拔　他怕再多看你一眼　心如刀割

射手座终极分析
乐观与忧愁：射手座人的内心不是外表看上去那么乐观的，因为喜欢看的远，容易担忧的事情也就多，在他们的字典里，即使现在好，也不一定代表未来好，有时候很多人觉得很好的一个工作或一个伴侣，他们很轻易的就会放弃掉，可能只是因为一个毫不起眼的小原因。所以，这样的外在表现，就让人们觉得他们不喜欢被某件事情或某个人束缚住，追求自由的，没有压力的感觉。

现实：常说射手座是追求梦想的人，但往往忽略了他们现实的一面，算计起来不会比处女座差哦，只是更高明更隐藏罢了。射手座人的梦想是必须建立在现实的基础上的，一般他们很少谈及自己的梦想，而是实际的去做一些向梦想靠拢的事情。如果可以借巧力完成的事情，决不会多花一点工夫。所以有时候射手座也容易给人耍小聪明的感觉。可是，不得不承认他们完成的还满不错。也许终其一生，他们都在考虑怎么巧妙的做一些事情，花最少的精力去达到最好的效果。所以，很多射手座看上去让人们会觉得很懒，但是其实他们的大脑可没有停下过思考现实的事情。

拒绝低俗：几乎所有的射手座内心都是骄傲的，其程度绝不亚于狮子座。只不过他们不会显现在脸上，外在的表现总是随和的，恰当的。可是内在有着极强的自尊心，敏感也情绪化。因为射手座人心中是骄傲的，所以他们拒绝低俗，不喜欢任何俗气的、粗鲁的事或人。如果可以，他们希望一切有关的事物，都是优雅的、高尚的，值得品味的。而真正能让他们觉得值得交朋友或谈恋爱的人是很少的，虽然表面上他们是很随和的。

多情：很多人说射手座多情，尤其是男性。其实在射手座人的心目中，对于爱情确实有理想化的倾向，和他们谈恋爱，是一件高难度的事情。他们非常讨厌俗气的人，所以你不能很物质或喜欢谈钱，但是他们又很现实，所以你不能一文不名，各方面也必须有一定的实力。物质与精神，你必须平衡的刚刚好，才让他们觉得你值得去爱。或者，你有足够的神秘感，可以让他们不知道你的缺点在哪里，而盲目的爱你。一般，当然是没有完美无缺的人的，所以，可能象金牛座这样永远会让射手感觉捉摸不透的闷闷的人，会非常吸引他们；或者象双子那样，足够机智，懂得察言观色，捕捉他们的情绪，才会让他们感觉到爱情的甜蜜。一般射手的感情模式是，第一阶段，你们还不熟悉，他（她）爱上了你，非常热情。第二阶段，你们逐渐熟悉，而他（她）开始龟毛，整天挑剔你的毛病，无论是背地里还是当面。如果你有幸通过他（她）的挑剔过程，基本挑剔出的毛病为零或者你把缺点保密的非常好；那么进入第三阶段，他们就又是忠诚和热情的爱人了。但是基本能通过第二阶段的人非常少，所以有了射手多情一说。其实射手对恋人的挑剔，是源于对爱情的挑剔，对丧失自由感的恐惧。

射手座人的人生，往往是幸运的，因为他们是聪慧的、明朗的、通透的。与众不同，也许是他们终生追求的梦想，希望每一个射手人，可以找到他们的梦想！

　　人人都说射手座是感情的骗子，对爱情不尊重，只追求片刻的快感，是花心与冲满欲望的象征。朋友们…你们了解射手座最真实的一面吗？
射手座是大孩子，天真与善良，遇到爱情时，可能让人感觉不认真，付出的比谁都少。可是，知道吗？射手座很想爱，却也很怕爱！刚开始他们只是慢慢的付出，谨慎的爱，好怕自己会受伤。可是在一句一句的爱，一天一天的相处下，射手座把带刺的防备丢掉，开始不顾一切的去爱他们所爱的人，在别人眼中，只是射手座为了达到某种目的而作的行动。可射手座不介意，他会在自己幸福的想象中陶醉，希望对方能感受自己的爱，想对方觉得与自己一齐是幸福的。
在射手座爱上了一个人，他会把自己放到最后。有苦自己承担，可能会因为吵了一场小架而不开心，却也是最快认错，无论谁的错，他们都会包容，知道吗？射手座会因为深爱一个人而原谅他的背叛，会因为你的一句话付出很多。他们爱玩，在玩的同时，也希望把那一份好心情带给你，射手座是乐观的。
　人们总觉得射手座的世界很快乐，可是呢？射手座难过时没有人知道，他不想让别人可怜自己，射手座不坚强，可是很善良。在你难过时哄你开心，让你有依靠，分手后，他会哭者去想属于你们俩幸福的回忆，也不想爱的人因为同情而勉强和他一齐。他比谁都希望自己爱的人快乐幸福，却常常忽略了自己，全身都是伤也笑着告诉你，我很好不用担心。
　　在所有人看到他的笑容以为他没事，却不知道失恋对射手座有多大伤害，华丽的外表下有一颗脆弱的需要别人了解和安慰的心。知道嘛？你的一点关心，心思细腻的射手座会记得你对他的好，把自己的爱毫无保留的送给你，射手座是不被了解的，可他们不会怨谁。他们会傻傻的认为，让我承担吧，别让别人也受到伤害。所以，不要让快乐的射手座痛苦，别让他们最有魅力的笑容成为掩饰痛苦的伪装，认真爱射手座。你会知道射手座的爱，是充满泪水的…

狮子座终极完美分析
狮子座，一个博爱和充满阳光，能量的星座，其实狮子座的人很向往爱情，他所拥有的爱情有的时候不是真的爱情，或者只是一种向往或者是自己的梦想，说白了就是狮子座的人最爱的是自己，他要让自己发光发热，获得别人的爱和崇敬，在这其中，他能够体会到这种来自他人的关爱而感到愉悦，于是，他就爱上了别人。。。可是，狮子座的我们想想，仔细想想，你真的爱了吗？真的象你说的那样的爱吗？

究其根本，我们爱了，是因为我们爱自己，狮子座的人的自恋程度可以说是十二星座之首，他可以因为别人的崇拜的目光或者是弱势的态度而展现自己的爱和博大胸襟，但是，这不是纯粹的爱；

此外，狮子座的人很喜欢征服感，或者他不爱你，或者还不足够爱你，但是为了一份征服感，他或者会“爱”上你，以证明自己的非凡魅力，当然，狮子座的人很不愿意伤害别人，因为他的内心是善良和充满正义感的，他是重视原则的人，但是，如果他做了伤害别人的事情，即便出于面子他没有说什么，但是其实内心里他会真的好自责好内疚的，虽然别人看不到，但是他的确会好难过。

狮子座的人，无论男女，都很容易陷入一份感情，但是热情来的很快，冷却的速度也快得惊人，我不知道别人是不是这样，我是真的这样的。如果他可以对一份感情持续很长的时间，那么恭喜了，说明你真的很强势很有魅力，足以让他对你死心塌地，否则，狮子座这种内在没有安全感又很敏感的动物，很可能从更有魅力和新鲜的事物上找温暖，因为，狮子座的我们看起来好坚强好阳光好乐观，但是骨子里面的不安感从未消退过，表面的自信只不过是保护自己的盔甲，但并不是很真实。

同时，狮子座的人也可以很绝情，这点我认识所有的狮子座的人也包括我自己都很像，不可能吃回头草，字典里没有“后悔”或者“回头”这两个词，因为狮子座的人很爱面子，自尊心比什么都重要，一旦放弃了或者决定了，就不可能回过头去改变，狮子座的人也很怕被伤害。作为我，宁可错过一份感情，宁可放弃。宁可不要，也不会冒可能会被伤害的危险，因为太不值得，因为狮子座的人太爱自己了。。。

狮子座的人喜欢热闹，但是也很享受孤独，他可以把这两者之间搞得很平衡，他很喜欢跟朋友一起，疯狂的玩闹，成为一个party的主角，但是回到家里，他立马就可以变得异常安静，不喜欢被打扰，他需要自己的空间来思考，如果不给狮子这个空间，对他步步紧逼，那么他一定会抓狂，变得不可理喻，他还会离开你，因为在狮子的字典里，“自由”和“自我”这两词的比重几乎占据了全部。

还有，狮子座的人很喜欢新鲜的，华丽的，有质感的，昂贵的，有品位的东西，他也喜欢朴实，但是却不喜欢无聊和无趣，他害怕一成不变的枯燥，他害怕今天就能预见明天的可能性，他喜欢为止的新鲜有趣的事物，如果你恰好具备了这一点，那么你和狮子座的人很配合。

狮子座的人有两种不同的倾向，一种是很喜欢天然的东西，不喜欢过多的修饰；另一类是很喜欢奢华另类奇特的事物，更多是狮子座是两者兼有，我属于这一种，我讨厌过度无谓的修饰，但是欣赏另类特别和高雅的事物，对于爱人的选择上，可能也会结合这个标准。

狮子座的人很宽容，通常不会因为小事而斤斤计较，他们喜欢展现自己与众不同的仁慈心和获得尊重。对于过往的爱人，狮子座的人很少去探讨是谁的功过是非，无论当时对方有多伤害自己，但是过去了就过去了，狮子座的人不会去诅咒或者怨恨，因为他们喜欢向前看，他们不喜欢做八婆和有损自己高贵形象的事情。狮子座的人相信，只要自己完美和努力，幸福就在前方，更美好的一定在等待着我们！！

双鱼座终极完美分析
看过很多关于双鱼的各种传说，分析，解释。似乎无一例外的把双鱼当作了一个女人的星座，动不动就是流眼泪，唉声叹气。可惜可叹，如果双鱼真的只是这样的一个星座，那么可以说没有一个人愿意去做双鱼，而历史上也不会有什么著名的双鱼人物了。

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　　最本质的部分：思考
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　　双鱼座的最本质特点是什么？善良？懦弱？温柔？不是，我告诉你，是思考（在很多情况下，是过多的思考）。
　　是的，双鱼座的一切特性，都来自于他过多的思考，或许世上没有第二个星座比双鱼座更能洞察别人的心理，更能分析事情的本质。
　　你可以称之为敏感，但是一旦这种敏感能够正确的使用，那么没有人能比双鱼座更快的学会人情事故，在这一方面，有一个双鱼座的伟人做的尤其出色，他的名字是周恩来。
　　
　　因为思考的太多，所以双鱼座的人就算不是真正善良的，也至少是表面善良的。对于双鱼来说，善良与其说是本质，不如说是双鱼喜欢的一种生活方式，以善良的方式活着，是轻松而又受人尊敬的，一般的双鱼座很早就能洞察到这一点。
　　
　　再谈谈温柔，这一点，不管是哪篇文章，都不会忘了提双鱼座的温柔。是的，双鱼的确是温柔的。因为双鱼总能敏感的体会到对方的细微变化，时刻了解到对方心意的转变，表现在行动上，就是能尽快的知道，什么时候应该为女孩披上自己的外衣，什么时候应该停下手里的活，转过身去和女友好好的说话。
　　
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　　与众不同的部分：信仰
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　　双鱼的信仰就是没有信仰！
　　在双鱼的世界里面，没有绝对的对和错，如果发生了一件事，他第一件做的事情是去理解这件事，去分析这件事，而不是去判断这件事是对的还是错的。
　　下面引用一段话说明双鱼的这个特点：
　　“鱼座男人没有偏见，没有亲自穿著鹿皮走几哩路，他不会评断印地安人；没有试试赤脚走路，他也不会评断裸体主义者。甚至这些做了，他还是会满心谅解而不会过于批评。他很少冷酷的指控，倒是每每温暖的忍耐，他甚至会试试了解他的岳母，天底下有几个男人能这样？海王子拥有罕见的同情精神，他的朋友向他吐露秘密而从不担忧会把他吓著，要吓到鱼起码需要两吨以上的炸弹。如果你和我以及你的鱼儿三人同坐一室，一个男人走进来告诉我们他有些担忧，因为他重婚，在四个州各有一个老婆，你可能眼睛瞪得大大瞧他，冒著火，心想监狱是最适合他的地方，我可能鄙夷的说他是个卑鄙的流氓，但你的鱼儿很可能问：“那四州？你爱不爱她们其中任何一个？”鱼很好奇，但防震。对他来说，这个家伙需要一缸子同情以及好得要命的律师。”
　　
　　有一位伟人利用了这点特性，结果成就了科学史上的神话，他就是爱因斯坦。
　　
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　　双鱼的致命缺点：懦弱
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　　现实中的双鱼座确实给人太多的失望，懦弱，多疑，自卑，优柔寡断，没有主见.....一个双鱼座或许没有上面全部的特点，但至少会有一，二个。就算是伟大如周恩来，有时候难免有些优柔寡断和没有主见，当然，这种时候不多。
　　
　　造成双鱼座优柔寡断的原因很简单。因为同样一个选择，在一个射手看来，只需要考虑2样东西，但是在双鱼看来，却需要考虑10样东西，因为他想的实在是太多了。简单的说一句话，双鱼都会想到它会给周围的人带来多少种不同的影响，它会让人对自己有怎么样的看法，会不会造成误解。（虽然很多时候，双鱼会冲动的把一些话脱口而出）
　　
　　至于多疑，这点和自卑联系的比较紧密。虽然双鱼座能轻易的了解对方的意图，看透事情的真相，但是却往往不能坚持住自己的观点，这种不能坚持大多数是因为双鱼座自己不愿接受这个事实，也有很多时候是因为双鱼对自己不够自信。关于前一点，比较突出的一个例子是，双鱼座的女孩不到男孩子直截了当的告诉她，他不爱她了，女孩就总是还抱有一线希望，虽然女孩心里明白的很。

懦弱呢？关于这点，和信仰联系在一起。你一定觉得很奇怪，懦弱和信仰又有什么关系呢？
　　信仰是种很可怕的力量，他可以让一个人做出平时不敢做的事情，拥有不该拥有的勇气，牺牲不该牺牲的东西。而双鱼恰恰是没有一丁点信仰的，就算有，也不过是为了给生活加一点调味剂，或是给自己找一个避难所。对于双鱼来说，自己能过舒适，安稳的日子，比什么都重要。富贵如浮云，最想的开这点的就是双鱼座了。至于爱国什么的，酒饱饭足的双鱼可以慷慨激昂，也会不惜重金施于，但是只是建立在自己有好日子过的前提下。
　　接下来，可以解释下双鱼的懦弱了。
　　只要能让自己和爱人平平安安，有什么不可以忍受的呢？什么尊严，什么气节，见鬼去吧。所以只要不把双鱼逼到绝境，你尽可以嘲弄双鱼的懦弱。每条鱼的忍受范围都不同，但一般都比正常人多那么一点点。但是如果你不小心让一条鱼觉得无路可走了，那么你真的要小心了。鱼可以践踏人间一切法律，无视所有道理，更不会考虑自己的尊严和人格。你务必要相信这一点，虽然这种时候很少，但那只不过是因为上帝不想让人们经常看到地狱的惨状。
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　　双鱼的最大优点：感情
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　　与其说双鱼是个为爱情而活的星座，不如说双鱼是个为感情而活的星座。
　　对于双鱼来说，世界上最重要的东西是感情，一条精神上满足的鱼，可以没有其他东西，就已经是最幸福的人（当然，绝大多数情况下，没有其他东西，很难精神上满足）。
　　任何感情对于双鱼来说都是重要的，爱情很重要，但不见得会比亲情更重要，在双鱼的眼中。
　　
　　对于鱼来说，感情是单纯的，是单独的。鱼可以原谅对方的一切，只要那个人是真心对他好的。你可以十恶不赦，可以吃喝嫖赌，可以之前是人尽可夫的妓女，可以是个卑鄙无耻的骗子，都可以原谅，只要鱼能确定你是真心的喜欢他，对他好。但是请注意一点，大部分的鱼都比你聪明，不要以为你的小伎俩可以骗到鱼，你是不是真心喜欢他，他比谁都清楚。
　　
　　对于一个男孩子来说，双鱼女孩能给你对于一个女孩子想要的一切，温柔，爱你不顾一切，可爱（很多时候是装的，鱼大多数是很聪明的），体贴.....
　　对于一个女孩子来说，双鱼男孩....嗯..... 看你的运气了，如果你遇到的鱼是个没有志气，不想做事，玩玩乐乐的鱼，而且他已经25岁左右了，那么好心的提醒你，还是尽早离开他吧。除非你是个富婆，或者你只是找个情人（没有人比双鱼更适合做情人了：安全快乐而无副作用）。否则，你会经历世间最凄凉的婚姻和生活，阿门................
　　
　　那么如果你遇到的鱼是有事业心，能上进，肯做事的鱼，或者干脆就是事业有成的鱼，那么真的是恭喜你，你是千万少女中最幸运的一个，再挑剔的女人也无法对一个有上进心有事业的鱼有更多的要求了。你可以得到世界上一切的温柔和快乐，包括用钱买的到的和用钱买不到的，鱼很乐意把他的一切奉献给他爱的人，看到他爱的人开心，他会更开心。大部分的鱼的“一切”仅仅只有感情，而没有物质，但是我们现在讨论的是最优秀的那种鱼，那种能随时把名望和财富送给你的鱼，现在你知道你有多幸运了吧。
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　　提到感情不得不提的：公平
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　　很奇怪吗？公平对于双鱼来说，是个很重要的单词。
　　双鱼没有普遍意义上的价值观，是非观，你不能用这件事这样做是对的，那样做是错的来说服一个双鱼座。永远记住，鱼的世界里很少有对错。
　　那么鱼又是怎么来处理他和别人（尤其是爱人的关系）呢？就是公平。
　　
　　如果鱼曾经有过十几，二十个女朋友，那么他就不会在意你以前有过多少个男朋友，如果鱼一个不小心跑出去玩了一夜情，那么你一夜情的时候，他也会选择无所谓
好吧，就算你的鱼纯情的一塌糊涂，你是他（她）的第一次，他也可以原谅你的曾经花心，一时花心，可能会的花心，只要你能用足够的关心和真心的喜欢弥补。鱼大致兑换了下你的关心（兑换比例只有天知道了，呵呵），如果觉得双方大致公平的（相对于他对于你的感情付出），那么他就无所谓，就会原谅你。
　　
　　所以和鱼相处是件很简单的事情，只要你能保证你给他的和他为你付出的差不多多，就可以了。至于伦理道德嘛...嗯，讲真的，鱼从来不是教条主义者。
　　
　　反过来，如果你让鱼觉得你对他的关心不够多，对他的爱不够多（不够多是指没有他给你的多），那么鱼会在痛苦之后，也相应的减少对你的关心和爱，不要怀疑，这方面，鱼比谁都表现的现实和斤斤计较。
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　　感情中的完美主义
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　　鱼在意的东西很少，所以很不幸，鱼对于他在意的东西就是完美主义者的态度。
　　
　　对于鱼来说，完美的情人不是忠贞不二的情人，不是事业爱情兼顾的情人，也不是外形完美的情人。鱼要求的是“完美的爱”。
　　
　　你可以不经常说我爱你，但是你说的时候，一定要是真心实意。
　　你可以很少陪他逛街，但是你陪的时候，一定要是真的开开心心。
　　你也可以对他说很少的情话，但是你要保证，你对别人说的情话更少，而且你对他说的是真心的话。
　　
　　对于鱼来说，欺骗和做作是最不可原谅的。很多人以为简简单单的对鱼说几句我爱你，固定性的发些短信问候鱼，经常为鱼买些好东西就能让鱼觉得被爱了。真不幸，大部分鱼都聪明过了头，一般都能轻松辨别那些举动是真心的，那些不过是手段（如果你曾经用这些手段征服过双鱼女生，也别得意，只不过是双鱼女生比男生更难以拒绝别人而已）。
　　
　　所以，请诚实一点对待鱼，爱他多少就给他多少，他也会给你同样多。这至少比他生你的气好的多，不是吗？
　　
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　　双鱼真的浪漫吗？
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　　所有的星座解释都会说双鱼是浪漫的，但是所有和双鱼（特别是双鱼男生，一般浪漫都是指男生做的事情）接触过的人，都往往感觉不到双鱼的浪漫，到底是为什么呢？难道双鱼并不浪漫？
　　
　　我给你个肯定的答案，双鱼绝对浪漫，他脑子里面的浪漫点子不仅包含了所有好莱坞大片的经典场景，还有更多他自己的原创镜头，他时不时的都在幻想浪漫的场面，一个鱼可能在他18的时候就开始想他30岁结婚的布置。
　　
　　那么为什么现实中是两样呢？因为2点，自卑和善良。
　　前一点很好理解，大部分的浪漫需要自信。很多时候，不是鱼不想浪漫，而是不好意思和没胆子那么做，你能理解是吧，呵呵。
　　
　　那么自信的鱼呢？为什么他也不浪漫？
　　因为他没有遇到合适的人，因为他善良。
　　
　　双鱼的爱情大部分是有些被动的。鱼总是轻易的喜欢上一个女孩子（注意，我用的单词是喜欢），然后开始和这个女孩开始交往，然后十有八九，会发现这个女孩不是能给自己完美的爱的女孩（这是肯定的，遇到最合适自己的人哪有那么容易），鱼很现实的知道，他和这个女孩不可能有将来的，2个人能拥有只能是一段回忆。那么对鱼来说，绝大部分的情话都会说不出口，因为鱼自己知道这些话都是骗人的，很多浪漫的举动做不出来，因为鱼不敢让女孩陷的太深，怕分手的那一天女孩太伤心。很多人说处女，金牛的人想的多，其实鱼想的并不比他们少，只不过犹犹豫豫又舍不得的鱼，就算明了的知道和女孩没有将来，也不会点破，只会静静的维持，享受拥有的每一天。但是这样的情况下，鱼的善良就让鱼忍住了很多浪漫的情话和行动。
　　
　　我这么说是不是显的鱼很高尚？呵呵，没有什么真正高尚的人。鱼能如此的为女孩着想，是因为这么做能让鱼觉得自己很伟大，有一种悲剧式的美感，鱼愿意让自己沉浸在这种自我的意淫中。
　　
　　当然，这样至少比不顾别人的死活，只图自己开心要好的多是不是？所以还是应该为鱼们鼓鼓掌的。
　　
　　所以，如果有一天，你看到一条浪漫无比的鱼，不要怀疑，他已经认定你们有个美好的未来，他已经知道他不会给你太多的伤心了，那你还犹豫什么？上去拥抱你的幸福吧。
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　　结语：什么样是好的双鱼？
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　　双鱼有很多缺点，但是大多数都可以原谅。除了2条，懒惰和犹豫。
　　
　　而双鱼要成为一条好鱼，所需要的东西很简单，事业。
　　
　　其实不用去提醒鱼们其他的事情了，他们自己都能想明白。只需能保证鱼能稳步进行他们的事业就可以了。
　　
　　一旦鱼用心去赚钱了，那么他肯定能赚到钱。但是这一点很难，真的很难，如果有一天，你看到一条生龙活虎的鱼，千万不要放过，好好的捆住他，很有可能，他会带给你所有的梦想.

双子座终极完美分析
有很多的朋友，可是“看起来朋友很多，可是知心的没有几个”这句话很深刻的形容了双子。双子很能说话，他跟别人可以天南地北的聊，可以聊得很八卦，也会聊一些很严肃的话题。双子可以跟你聊很多东西，可是注意了，他都只是跟你聊一些不关自己的事。随便他跟你说些什么，可是跟自己有关的都只是些皮毛而已。比如，今天又有某个明星怎样怎样了；隔壁班有多少美女帅哥的。关于自己的事，他几乎是不说的，就算是说，也是说一些关于自己无关痛痒的事。当你想更进一步的了解双子，他会很自然的把话题给扯开。

对于自信的双子来说，他又同时很没有安全感，这是双子特有的矛盾。他喜欢把自己重重包围住，不让自己暴露。对于双子来说，如果在一个还不了解的人面前把自己暴露了，就等于让别人抓住了自己的把柄。这样就失去了一定的优势。当双子感到独孤悲伤时，只会一个人躲在房间里哭，或者一个人郁闷着。

双子也很怕被伤害，很多时候宁愿自己承受一切，也不愿别人抓住自己的把柄。所以久而久之也就养成了习惯。双子基本上也是个很痛苦的人。表面上总是很有活力，很快乐的样子，可是没人的时候他又总是很忧伤。双子总会被一种莫名的悲伤笼罩。但他不会让别人发现的，他怕被伤害，也怕被别人抛弃，只能自己硬挺着一切。所以双子很神经质，精神脆弱，容易人格分裂，因为承受了太多的东西.
一般来说双子的孩子都很早熟。双子对很多的东西都在乎得要命，可是表面上就是看起来什么都不在乎。双子并不是故意要掩饰自己，上面说了，这只是一种习惯了，可是在外人看来他就成了虚伪的人。

双子是被公认的最花心、最冷酷无情的星座。其实对于双子的花心，真的不想再说些什么了。解释得太多，累了，也没耐心了。可是说起双子，就不得不提感情，双子这一生，似乎必须被感情牵伴，跟爱情纠缠一世。很多人说双子并不花心，只是博爱，所以才会有那么好的人缘。忘了在哪里看见了这样的一句话：双子最大的悲哀在于有两个人的思想，却只有一个人的身体，双子有爱自己所爱的人的权利，也有保护彼此所爱的人的义务，双子只剩下一个时，爱也就只剩下义务了。
我想用如来若去说的一句话给双子的花心做个总结：花心的极端就是痴心的可怕。该懂的人应该会懂的。至于冷酷无情真的不知道该从何说起。其实双子是最平和的星座，如果可以不发生冲突，都会尽量避免。双子也很少跟别人吵架，他讨厌吵架，如果是因为一些生活琐碎小事吵架，那么双子就在吵完的那一刻就把这件事给忘了；

要双子真的跟你翻脸，除非是你的所作所为或所说的话实在让双子不能忍受，这时他会很鄙视得看你一眼，然后头也不回地走掉，甚至会不给你留面子地离开。这时你一辈子也别想再和他和好了，就算有的双子碍于面子和你再成为朋友，但是他们已经对你鄙视到了极点，只不过维持着这一层不得不维持的“朋友”关系其实，很大一部分双子，对待感情是非常专一的，之所以给人留下花心的美名，是因为很少有人能够让略带童心的双子动真感情，不是双子铁石心肠，而是双子个性里面天生有一些忧郁，一些潜在的不自信，只是双子隐藏的深入，可是一旦让双子动了真感情，那么恭喜你了，双子的天真，率直，外加表达能力丰富，一定能让你获得很多快乐。

每个双子都有一个故事隐藏在心里，多数是不堪回首的往事，双子是个念旧或者说是喜欢沉浸在回忆中的星座，他（她）的这个故事通常都是因情所困，动了感情而被伤害了的双子是脆弱的，也是坚强的，他（她）可以很快的振作起来，可以当什么事都没有发生，这些都是双子演给世人看的罢了，等到夜深人静的时候，双子内心的伤痛随着血液渗透到全身，他（她）可以一整夜的去回忆之前的点点滴滴，可以一整夜的沉浸在痛苦之中，可以一整夜坐在那里发呆，但是，一旦天亮了，要出去见人了，双子马上就从痛苦中抽身而走，你看到的肯定是一个神采奕奕的双子，这就是双子，拥有双重性格的双子，一个在世人面前乐天，快乐，在孤独夜晚独自伤悲的双子。

双子的爱是最永恒的，可以付出一切，有人说我们花心，那时我们没有真正的爱，当双子爱上一个人的时候是痛苦的，因为我们太敏感。假如双子爱上了一个不爱自己的人，那莫我相信他永远都不会再爱了，当爱给过了一个人，他再也没有能力再付出了，其实太多的人都不懂我们，其实连我们自己都不懂自己，我们很会伪装，很会说谎，但我们最细腻，对感情最敏感，双子的爱与悲伤，谁又真的了解！

水瓶座终极完美分析
几乎每个水瓶座的心底都有着一段刻骨铭心人间记忆，一个永远无法忘记的背影。
那也许只是极其短暂的两情相悦，只是一种单恋，或只是一种只存在于虚幻空间。
一切看起来是那么平静，那么和谐。
没有惊天动地，没有海誓山盟，没有花前月下，没有浪漫，没有誓言，没有温度。水瓶座的理智和冷漠，注定了任何感情永无燃点。
水瓶座不容易喜欢上一个人。有人说水瓶座对伴侣的要求太高，其实并非这样，水瓶座注重的是感觉。只是那么轻描淡写的一眼，那个人已经吸引了水瓶的所有注意力，从此目光便无法转移。
用一秒钟爱上一个人，然后再付出一生去忘记，水瓶座就是这样的试验品。
但几乎所有的水瓶都会否认在自己的身上发生一见钟情，因为一向自视清高，承认爱上一个人这钟事似乎是在侮辱自己的智商。
更多的时候是因为，连自己都没发现已经爱上。水瓶座很多时候对于感情反应非常迟钝，迟钝到每次都是最后的知情者。有时容易出现弄不清自己的感觉，不清楚自己想做什么，觉得迷惘。
在对方没有非常明确地表示感情时会退怯，觉得爱情是两厢情愿，不想勉强对方。
显得很被动，忽冷忽热，犹豫不决，极其矛盾。在没有完全确定前，决不轻易付出感情，因为怕失去。也许是缺乏安全感，也许是对自己的保护，也可以算作是一种自私。
一般水瓶座的好朋友都是经过很长世间的考察的，不仅仅是几年，而是十几年。一旦被水瓶座当作好朋友的，会赴汤蹈火掏心掏肺。
在公车上，街边，商场，水瓶老是认错人。在茫茫人海中，始终在寻找一个熟悉的身影，直到产生幻觉。
这一刻，水瓶座突然很想痛哭流涕，因为突然发现自己几近疯狂的爱上一个人，失去了理智，失去了自我。这种突如其来的感觉，很恐惧，很无助。
水瓶座不喜欢这种感觉，因为不知该如何面对。要让水瓶座主动去追逐，是件异常困难的事，在水瓶座的世界里无法承受拒绝，就是这么脆弱，无论表面上看来是多么的坚强。
水瓶座在人前总是一幅无忧无虑没心没肝的样子，不想别人看见自己的悲伤，那样会有不安全的感觉，总是在无人的地方暗自落泪。
算了，还是放在心里吧。既不用尴尬的表白然后遭到拒绝，又不会相爱容易相处难的惨烈分手。这样很好，没人看出来，不至于太没面子。可以继续貌似潇洒。
但是，不同了。尽管水瓶座装着多么不在乎，看都不看一眼。可是对方说的每句话都从耳朵进去，没见出来。对方提的任何过分的要求，水瓶座统统照单全收精心尽力，决对不会有半个不字。完全成为一个爱情的奴隶，脸上还装酷无表情，整个死要面子活受罪。
这种情况下，如果对方使点阴谋诡计，刻意疏远避而不见或是视而不见，电话不接或是哼哈敷衍等等，水瓶会给整疯了，开始会想是什么自己地方做错了，说错话了，然后拉下面子主动讨好试探。不用多，碰壁两次，水瓶座就会有自知之明了，不会再去想是为什么会这样，也不想知道了。心里会想，原来是对方讨厌自己，不想见到自己。明白之后，就是绝对的安静了。
这还没完，过了一段日子。对方如果突然又改变态度，水瓶座竟然能既往不咎问也不问，殷勤依旧，完全没有尊严可谈。只要能和对方开心的在一起，过去不重要，未来也不重要，面子不重要，金钱不重要，时间不重要，自己也不重要。
天平失衡，感情重重的压在心底，自己却飘在了半空。太在乎对方，迷失了自我，幸福也变得虚无。
自己都不爱，谁还会珍惜。
水瓶座一旦付出，便是彻底，不可收回。
感情投入的越多越是伤的重。
最擅长的是难为自己。不想对方难过，只好让自己难过。总是认为自己有超乎寻常的承受力，把自己想得太坚强，而把别人想得太脆弱。不知道，受伤的其实是自己，只是不知道如何表现出来。
爱，这个字对水瓶座来说，太沉重珍贵了，无法用语言诠释。一旦说出口，犹如远古的文物，被发掘出土暴露于空气中，变得面目全非，失去本来的价值。
所以，不轻易说。
只需一次，水瓶座便把一生的精力耗尽，只因执著，便落得伤痕累累。那段感情如强酸腐蚀着那颗麻木的心，穿了一个洞，再也无法弥补。时间是世界上最有力的矬子，把空洞的毛边渐渐抚平，不再搁人。每当寒风吹过，犹闻隐约凄凉的萧萧声，似挽歌。
只需一次，水瓶座便不再幻想，于是狠狠将自己摔碎，拒绝熔化拼凑。因为怕熔了记忆，怕熔了那个远远的背影，怕熔了自己千年的期盼。
之后，水瓶座依然谈笑风生，依然开朗豁达，继续着一段接一段的新感情，重复着一切，因为无法承受寂寞。
人们都说水瓶花心，见一个爱一个，水瓶座会哈哈一笑，说“哪有？冤啊！”。其实心里在滴着血，脸上却得笑的灿烂，安慰自己“我是谁啊！哪会那么弱呢！”
有人说水瓶座太冷酷太自私，自以为了不起。可是谁又了解，水瓶座的心，容量很小，只能有一个，且不具修改性。除了那个人，其他所有自动归为一种程序。
因为无法虚伪，所以甜言蜜语都吝啬给予。因为天真，所以至死之前仍在等待。因为没有勇气，所以眼睁睁放手真爱无能为力。
当看到一个瓶子在疯狂地快乐或悲伤时，请千万不要被迷惑，水瓶总是不由自主地交错操纵着快乐与悲伤。其实并不像看到的那么快乐，同样的，也不像看到的那么悲伤。只是悲伤时，喜欢带上快乐的面具，而当水瓶快乐时，悲伤又不肯轻易放过。
只有真正懂得水瓶座的人，才能看见眼底那一缕似有似无的哀伤，才能明白是什么让水瓶如此的义无反顾，是什么让水瓶变得如此忽冷忽热捉摸不定，才能体会水瓶的坚强只是竭力掩饰的脆弱。
星相上说，水瓶座往往不被所爱的人珍惜。我想，是为什么呢？也许答案就在心中，只是水瓶座的本性不愿承认而已。
水瓶座除了需要一个深爱自己包容一切的人以外，还需要一个心理医生

天秤座终极完美分析
优雅的天平在灯红酒绿中微笑转身，顾盼神采，洒脱如同水中的鱼。他们与红酒，水晶杯，晚礼服，钢琴曲是那么的相得益彰，漫不经意的吸引着公众的眼光……
几乎所有人都有这样一种印象：
天平座的人善意、可亲，爱交朋友。于是大家也由此认为天平是群居生物，必然是害怕独处，喜欢热闹的。
但，事实并不是表面看来那样简单。
的确，天平是个和平使者。在公众场合可以很好地调节气氛使之均衡。气氛热烈时，他们会沉静的压住阵脚；气氛冷凝时，他们会运用不着痕迹的轻松幽默化解坚冰。总之他们不会随波逐流去助长气氛的冷热，而是像用天平称量物品一样，加减砝码，使之维持水平状态。
而他们在做这种加减的时候，动作是优雅的，态度是和悦的，看起来漫不经心不动声色。实际上，他们是很有心计的人，尽管众口难调，也可以找到一种万全的方式来使全局和谐起来。
但是这并不是说他们喜欢主宰，只是因为他们看不得失衡，那会使他们如坐针毡。
因此，尽管慵懒的天平座讨厌麻烦，讨厌得要命，他们还是会不由自主地担负起调节的责任。也许正因如此，使得天平在公众场合从未放松过自己。性格使他们承担了不必要的责任，无可推卸。
他们不吝惜金钱，却吝惜自由的时间和安静的休闲时光。像所有风向星座一样，他们喜欢自由，喜欢像风一样谁也捉不住他。
他们喜欢自在独立的空间。就算你是他最好的朋友，也不要老和他粘在一起，你要知道他并不喜欢如此，尽管他不会直接说出来。你也得相信，你的天平座朋友也许半年也没有音信，但是只要一见面，你还是他最好的朋友。因为他就是这种交友方式，你拿他怎么办？
“我懒得……”
这是天平座的口头语。他们懒得出门，懒得聚会，懒得应酬……所以他们并不是很喜欢参加party。倒是宁愿呆在家里上网，看书，画画。他们自身是均衡的，一个人的均衡总比一群人的均衡来的容易。所以他们喜欢独处。
通常，天平座的人会给人一见如故的感觉，因为他们有着温婉的微笑和优雅的举止。对初次见面的人，天平座往往表现出自己最讨人喜欢的一面：善解人意，大方，诚恳，健谈。但是这种热情劲儿不会长久。冷漠何时到来取决于你与他交往的频率。你越是粘得紧，他就冷得越快。因为他们喜欢“君子之交清淡如水”。不是他们不喜欢同伴，而是他们和人交往更多地关注了对方的情绪，总想着照顾对方心情，不要发生冲突，所以感觉像是在工作一样，无法真正的放松。
较之对宫白羊座，天平是另一种独立的个体。白羊是一种外在的独立，内心是热的；天平则是表面看似亲和力很强，内心却是任谁也无法融入的。天平的冷静，连他们自己也觉得惊讶。“我居然如此冷漠！太不可思议了……”他们审视自己的时候，感觉有点陌生。那是因为他们把内心世界掩饰得连自己都骗过了。
他们控制情绪的能力太强了。最亲近的人会感觉到，天平给人不露声色的隔离感，有时会被埋怨“太冷静了，我都不知道你在想什么！”
可是他们不是故意要隐瞒什么，只是出于本能。一个连自己都骗过了的人，你还能要求他对你坦白什么？
他们不喜欢歇斯底里，不喜欢痛哭失声，不喜欢安慰别人也不怎么喜欢被安慰。因为他们懂得，谁也无法真正理解另一个人。
天平，其实是很独立的一个星座。他们在霓虹灯影里微笑，在灯火阑珊处寂寞。他们叫你懂得：孤独的最高境界是繁华。

天蝎座终极完美分析
天蝎，生于秋深。性喜静，意清幽。爱之切，怨亦深。本质轻名利，但拥有成名得利的天赋。

　　偏重灵与肉的完美结合。直觉力之准之锐，行动力之潇洒之特,常令徒有虚表之人忌愤不已。天蝎，一个别具一格的星座。格调分明有别常人，心胸高妙不露于表。常容人难容之事，亦笑人可笑之处。

　　对于朋友，重质不重量，高度要求知心。宁可孤独，也不违心。对于爱情，宁缺毋滥。宁可抱憾终生，也不苟且凑合。风流不羁的言行下，执着追求一种宗教意识的爱情信仰。内心具有高度责任性，忠诚性，自律性以及矛盾性。浪漫儒雅，风趣超脱。拥有奇异诱人的容貌气质。根本上，提倡由爱生性的性爱模式，鄙视纯粹的兽性性行为，但，自己却又常在意志薄弱时，自虐般地沉溺其间。

　　天蝎大多恩怨分明，黑白绝不混肴。犹如包公，宁可得罪众官，也要奖惩公道。多思少言的特质，齐全透彻的智慧，使一切真相假面恐慌不已。因此，本质静默孤僻的天蝎们极易招惹他人的非难和灌上莫须有的罪名。而其强硬又柔弱的本质，常使其背负黑锅也不辩护，不低头。典型的“独当千古错，冷漠自逍遥”的天蝎风格。只有在忍无可忍时，天蝎才会真正采取报复行为。可也因其很多时候过于忍辱负重，好比老实人发火，报复也就更显突兀强劲，反令圆滑的小人真正的祸首们恼羞成怒，借机大肆渲染。由于天蝎有隐忍为善的一面，更有别致的独特气质，从而也导致了天蝎倍受他人嫉妒却常被反咬一口的现象出现。也因为典型的天蝎,并不擅长疏通改善人际关系，更不善于有效地表达澄清自己，从而成为了十二星座里最具争议的一个星座。

　　天蝎们拥有天赋般灵性的思维，结合现实的洞察，产生了异于常人的思索角度。爱情观，友情观，人生观，皆如此。由于意识超常，天蝎们总是：苦于红尘无知音，不如隐形爱孤独。天蝎的确就是这样极端：不是最另类的现代人，就是最另类的原始人。

　　人们研究天蝎的误区在于没有能力到达天蝎的心理根本。

　　其实，天蝎们一生都在寻求知心的朋友，同时他们也容忍对手的存在，但，并非制造敌人。要知道，天蝎本性不好战，但具备战斗的智慧和能量。请注意：这是关键。所以你可以成为天蝎的对手和朋友，但，不要把天蝎当敌人。因为，天蝎从不主动侵犯他人的利益。你也不要做些低层次的敌对事情，那只能显得你自己无聊挫败。比如：如果你煽动众人，想用流言蜚谣打击算计，甚至孤立天蝎，那么不久你就会发现天蝎依旧活得很洒脱，很独特。因为，他们本来没有把你当敌人，某种意义上，是你自己“自作多情”，以小人之心度君子之腹了。而这种俗不可耐的敌对伎俩，对于天蝎们来说，无疑是一堆可笑差劲的破招。天蝎生性渴望理解,却不奢求理解，安于孤独，更能乐于孤独。天蝎的优势在于，对于别有用心的人，能够一眼看穿，并完全做到视若无睹。也许，当你自鸣得意时，天蝎想的正是不和这头牲口一般见识！看，天蝎就是这样的心态，清高地忍让，忧郁地承受，却，酷得干脆利落，宛如一位高超的剑手，不是不过招，只是你非对手。为什么你非对手，因为你已经把自己立意为敌人。对于敌人，不用过招。兴趣无时不屑一顾。兴趣来时，一剑定胜负。这种彻骨的冷静和孤高，也正是天蝎人虽不招惹别人，却还是招致阴险有毒的恶名的根本。而，也只有天蝎自己知道，真正恶毒的其实是你！但是，一切也都没有用，要知道，能够忍受孤独的人，也就是最无所畏惧的人了。这也就是天蝎为什么可以在铺天盖地的恶名谣传里，依旧活出自己风格的原因。某个角度来说，才思横溢的天蝎人，正是从别人不切实际的攻击诽谤里，看到了自己与众不同的价值。因为，没有人会化很大的心血很多的精力，对一个平庸无常的人做太多的关注。显然，天蝎是别具一格的。
我本善良，我本真实，这样的句子，用在天蝎身上是最恰当不过了。每只天蝎似乎从出生那天起，就注定要为自己的独特而历经许多风波。对于人性，天蝎从来看得比所有人透彻。

　　可以说他们极端，但是，他们无法不真实地活出自己。也许，只有“曲高合寡”这四个字，才是孤独奇特的天蝎们最好的诠释。

　　天蝎。星象书上说，诞生在深秋的蝎子是最复杂的。同意这句话。因为蝎子可以根据需要在具体环境把自己塑造成适合的角色，是个善于戴着面具生活的人。但内心本我的强大力量又让他们在某个时刻不由自主地显现出其蝎子冷酷阴郁的一面。几乎没有任何一个蝎子座的人可以逃避这点。因为，本质的东西，深植于骨髓，扎根于灵魂。

　　这里，我希望通过自己的一点薄见，和大家一起认识这最复杂的蝎子。

　　情感强烈是蝎子座的人最普遍的特点。我至今没有发现感情因子欠乏的蝎子。他们有着异常炽热的感情，但大多藏得较深，平时看来是个比较和气的人，一般不爆发，爆发时绝对是喷涌而出的，有着强大的震慑力。

　　能促使蝎子爆发深藏的感情的事情其实并不多。我总结了三种情况。

　　一是欺骗，这种欺骗也许不是很大，也许发生在很好的朋友甚至亲友之间，也许只是一桩小事，但蝎子看来，重要的不是欺骗造成了什么损失，而是欺骗这种行为本身，他认为这是强烈的不信任感，是对他的不尊重。一个小小的欺骗在蝎子的心中会激荡起巨大的不快，天性阴冷的蝎子习惯将它放大来看，也可以说这种与他们处事风格准则背道而弛的行为是他们轻蔑并排斥的。用欺骗伤害蝎子产生的裂痕一般是不容易消除的。当事人在蝎子心中的地位可以说马上会大幅下降。经观察，没有哪个星座的人象蝎子这样如此深地看重信任和尊重这两个词，他们一般对此都很敏感。敏感得容下不在他许可的小小范围内出现一粒沙。越是亲密关系间的欺骗对蝎子的伤害就越大。因为他们对朋友往往交出真心，而这种付出偿来的若是欺骗和背叛的话，蝎子的心会冷到极点。

　　二是侮辱。敏感的蝎子其实并不那么开得起玩笑，当然他们能敏锐地分辨出你话里的真实含义，善意的玩笑他们还是不会拒绝的。但带刺的话他们绝对能马上听出，他能感受到你语气中的真实的感情成分。很自我的蝎子绝对不容忍别人侮辱他贬低他。也许一件事情让他糟糕，让他吃亏很大，但如果需要的话他能压抑住自己的情绪，装作若无其事。惟独侮辱不可以，你可以感受到蝎子那一刻表情越发阴冷，牙关紧闭。那是他在积蕴力量，你能感受得到他强压怒火的眼神，开始起伏的胸膛，只需要一个小小突破口，巨大的能量就要喷薄而出。这个时候，了解他们的人还是赶紧收口吧，否则谁都不知道会发生什么可怕的事情。我自己就经历过多次这样的情景，从来都是是猛烈的瞬间爆发，不明白的人奇怪怎么突然发这么大脾气，其实真实情况是，他忍着气已经很久很久了，只是你硬逼他爆发的。

　　三是为了他认为重要的人。蝎子是活得孤独的人，他们自己都会发现，自己和许多人是格格不入的，他满脸的笑容很多时候都不是发自内心的，只是为了场合的需要，真正谈得来并懂得他们的朋友一般很少很少。生命中他重视的人他一定会倾力保护，蝎子为了保护那个人时，显现出的感情是强大的。这个人最大的可能就是曾在蝎子需要时给过真正理解温暖关爱的人。哪怕是一点点。象会记恨一样，蝎子对那些对他真心好的人绝对是记在心上的，没有太多的表面的东西，关键的时候，真正肯为你牺牲的那个朋友，肯定是他。对他最爱的那个人而言，蝎子有可能的话甚至肯为她去死。如果他心中的那个她被别人伤害的话，蝎子会有剜心的痛，这个时候，他可能会暴露出最阴暗的一面，如果要把报复和蝎子联系起来的话，那么这种情况当属第一。蝎子这时候可能会在巨痛的驱使下，用最黑暗的力量为她去复仇去摧毁敌人。在我看来，蝎子最最强烈感情表现出来的时候，应该就是他为了保护她的时候。水象之王的蝎子外表看来往往不那么强硬，甚至有点软弱，这是很多人对他们的印象，但了解他们的内心的人就会发现，他们是讨厌被指使的人。可以说，蝎子是吃软不吃硬的，平等对他的话，他便是个性子很好的人，要是想压制他，蝎子内心马上会排斥，并且潜意识里他们是很厌恶习惯对他们指手画脚的人的。他们心中多数是不服，但不会明显表现出来，也许暂时地顺着对方，背后则默默积累力量，也许干脆用冷漠直接表示拒绝和厌恶。蝎子确实是喜欢掌控别人的人，但不象火象的狮子那种气焰上统领一切的感觉，蝎子能用一种独特的暗藏的力量影响人，因为他有着洞穿别人内心的敏锐力和坚定沉静的气质。如果蝎子具备一些火象性格的话，则会是个让人感觉非常凌厉的人，冷静的外表下说起话做起事来霸气十足。蝎子如果学着性格张扬一点的话，会马上显现出强大的领导力。蝎子对自己的爱人也有着强烈的掌控欲，只有当那个她只对他一个人好的时候，他才感觉安心，他希望她能常陪在他身边，希望她能经常依靠他，所以小鸟依人般的温柔甜蜜的女孩子最能激起蝎子爱的感觉。这就解释了为什么他和水象的鱼儿和巨蟹很和得来的原因。
蝎子比较喜欢不带表情的说话做事，可以说，蝎子很难学会用表情表达他们丰富的内心世界，他们是不善于利用表情的人。蝎子本质是不爱笑的，尤其不习惯在一大堆人之间肆无忌惮地笑，蝎子习惯浅浅地一笑，让他们在众人面前表情夸张地保持10秒钟我相信是件困难的事情。

　　他们确实常给人缺乏亲和力的印象，哪怕是他已经认识到了这点并试着去改变了，结果还是会发现，一不留神，他和人的距离感又莫名地产生了。可以说蝎子的笑保留着人类某种原始的东西，蝎子笑起来会带着丝羞涩，特别是在人多或异性面前。看起来非常孩子气，让人感觉纯真，显得乖巧。但蝎子多笑真的比较重要，蝎子笑起来纯朴真诚的样子可以很好地打消他们在别人心中不好的印象。蝎子可以多对着镜子练习练习。敏感的蝎子有时会莫名地收住笑容，这会给别人不好的印象，他们会纳闷并猜想你突然沉下脸的原因，很多时候，蝎子和人的隔阂就是这么产生的。

　　在蝎子的生命中总有一种向往孤独的特质。

　　他们即使在受不了凄寂的同时，又渴望得到只有在孤独时才能享受到的自我极致发挥和无丝毫保留的面对现实。

　　所以，孤独的蝎子是矛盾的。

　　孤独中他们的心灵像眼睛，诚实敏锐得揉不进一粒尘沙。

　　所以，孤独的蝎子更能洞悉谎言与人心。他们只有在孑然一身的时候，才有机会登上精神的高峰，望得远，看得清，障碍尽除，思维如月光染雪，剔透通明，理智与感情皆回归到最纯净的状态，能清楚的照亮自己。

　　所以，孤独的蝎子睿智。

　　当蝎子被身边的孤独包围的时候，他们的内心却是在释放。他们的身体和灵魂变成了过滤器，吸取着潮湿冰冷的空气，渗透出清澈甘甜的水滴，那就是他们的思想。思想无限流动，不受空间和时间的限制，抵达所有相通的灵魂。

　　所以，当到达你的灵魂时，请你好好珍惜。

　　当你看到陌生人面前孤僻而冷淡的蝎子时，请你见谅，因为即兴发挥不是蝎子的强项，蝎子一向预热很慢，感情需要很大的安全感才能活泼的施展。

　　所以，当你想要了解那些外表形单影只，独来独往的蝎子时，请细心的感受他们内在活动的勃放如春。

　　对于天蝎座的激情别人已经写得够多的了，以致再写就显得有点多余了。其实那些描述严格地来说，也不完全正确。天蝎座的人确实拥有过量的激情。但是这些热情不一定是用一种显而易见的方式来表达的。对于天蝎座的人来说，性是一种表达的途径，它是一种达到秩序的方法，而不仅仅是肉体上激情的释放。

　　天蝎座对性和爱的渴望，通常与它们能提供的转变有关。他们喜欢把性与爱称作自己所喜欢的名字：一次神秘的经历、一次深层次的体会。性与爱让天蝎座向比他们自己更强大的事物投降。天蝎座的伴侣有一种巨大的容忍力，他们为了爱情和忠贞可以牺牲一切。他们甚至可以做出巨大的自我牺牲。在他们身上有一点狂热，这会渗透到他们与别人建立的关系中，并且影响他们的精神和态度。

　　天蝎座是不会在浅的池塘里划水的。他们纵身跳入远远淹过他们的头的深度的汪洋。但是有时候可悲的是，在天蝎座所处的关系中释放出来的狂热，有时候会导致他们极端的猜疑，并且会让他们产生强烈的占有欲。假如天蝎座的人正陷入在爱情当中的时候，这种情况往往就会发生。假如他们没有真正谈恋爱的话，那么他们情感的大门就永远不会在你面前出现，你将面临真正的情感上的坚冰。

　　天蝎座的伴侣最大的问题，就是渴望对对方的控制。这种控制可以用一些十分不引人注意的方式表现出来。比如说他们表现得自尊心很强，即使已经做了某些真正愚蠢的事情的时候，也不会向你道歉。或是经常表现出一种不让你安静的怨恨，并且总要“惩罚”你(用沉默和一种凝重的可以用刀把它划开的凝滞气氛)而不告诉你到底做错了什么。他们或是找出一些微妙的方式来测验你，因为天蝎座实际上并不能真正相信你。你很少听到你的天蝎伴侣告诉你你的意义对他们有多重大。但是有一点你可以肯定的是，这种意义你听到得越少，就表明他们爱你的程度越深。
另一方面，天蝎座很少去尊敬那些不愿意去抵抗他们的人。天蝎座的伴侣必须要争取取得胜利，不要把胜利白白奉送给他们。不要吃惊，危机在天蝎座与自己伴侣的关系中是很平常的事情。假如你还没有看懂你压抑的天蝎座伴侣内心其实已经在沸腾，而只发现一丝“水蒸气”而已，那么真正的危机就要发生了。假如你不幸得到了一个这种类型的天蝎伴侣，那么你最好小心一点。适当时候，把你的天蝎座的伴侣送到临床医学家那儿去释放他们的压力吧。假如他们把这种压力朝你爆发出来的话，那可真不是开玩笑的。

　　天蝎真正不寻常的地方，就是他们有着让人难以置信的能力去了解你。因为他们几乎没有遗漏任何东西，所以他们能飞快地了解许多关于你内心最深处的动机。假如你不喜欢在你们爱情中保持对他们的绝对诚实的话，那么你就应该考虑另一个星座了。但是假如爱情对你而言，意味着比终日悠闲地听着音乐之外更多的东西的话，那么天蝎座无疑是你明智的选择。因为他们有很多的东西可以提供给你，同天蝎座的人建立爱情，能够彻底改变你。

　　探索是天蝎座最喜欢的娱乐方式。一个疑心很重的天蝎座的人会在你洗澡的时候，检查你的小本本里的电话号码，或是检查你钱包里的收据。一些天蝎座的人甚至会变成一个专业侦探,或是一个法医。但是无论你玩的是什么样的游戏，对于天蝎座的伴侣而言，他们希望你们之间的关系在一天中的每一个小时都是充满活力的，这至关重要。
　　
一些人认为占有欲是一种暧昧的病态的东西，或是一种在思想逻辑上错误的东西，并且都应该四处去宣扬：“让你快乐的一切都可以让我快乐。”但天蝎座的伴侣更有可能会这样说：“ 假如你没有我而会快乐，那么你就准备因此而付出高昂的代价吧！”

　　对于天蝎座而言，占有如同呼吸一样自然。天蝎座的感情是非常强烈的。他们会花很长的时间学会去信任别人，但是那时他们可就不会那么轻易放手了。一些天蝎座的人让他们的心变得冷酷起来，是因为他们害怕自己受到羞辱,他们可能开始只允许肤浅的爱情进入到他们的生命当中来，但是这个时候，天蝎座的恋人通常是来去匆匆，会忽然消失的。

　　没有人会同天蝎座的人一起经历一次没有改变的爱情。不管这种关系是继续还是结束，你都应该有自知之明，从更深的层次去看待生活。不要只期待甜蜜和舒适。一些十分聪明的人已经明白生活其实原本是由黑暗和光明组成，只有傻子才会相信生活是由其他的方式组成的。而且记住，天蝎座的人，可一点都不蠢。

What is Love

2008-07-29T16:27:00.002+08:00

"There are many in the world who are dying for a piece of gold, but there are many more dying for a little love"

I Feel as Though My Heart Lay Bleeding

2008-05-04T16:28:00.002+08:00

I feel as though my heart lay bleeding
On a counter top.
The pain is like a flooded scream
That cannot, will not stop.

I cannot live, I cannot breathe;
Pain is all I do.
I cannot think how I can be
Long living without you.

Ah, God! I want you back so bad
That I would gladly die
To hold you in my arms again
And not care how or why;

To hold you in my arms again
And tell you of my love,
And then go gladly back to dust
Should I your heart not move.

I Didn't get a chance to say good-bye.

2008-04-27T11:09:00.004+08:00

I didn't get a chance to say goodbye
To you, to tell you that I loved you, to say
What now must be one long, unbroken cry
Of pain, now that at last you've gone away.

I cannot tell you what a joy it was
To be the one to tend you in your need.
The burden was a gift, for giving does
Not burden one who loves, though loving bleed.

I wish I could have been with you when you,
Perhaps aware, perhaps not, turned towards heath
Alone, with no one there to wonder to,
To share your fear, your hand, your one last breath.

I wish, I wish, I wish . . . but it is done,
And now I must surrender what is gone.

Unknown Author

Tokyo Friends

2008-04-09T00:02:00.002+08:00

Tokyo Friends was released on June 8, 2005. Unlike many other Dorama, it was never aired on TV. Instead it was released as DVD; 3 DVDs to be exact. Volume one and two contained the first 4 episodes while volume three contained the last episode. Each episode is approximately 70 minutes long. A Tokyo Friends Premium Box was also released, which includes all 5 episodes, a bonus DVD and 12 postcards. Although this is a very typical Tokyo-story and was never aired on TV, it was quite successful, most probably because it was Otsuka Ai’s debut as an actress.

Tokyo Friends simply the best Japanese Movie I’ve seen so far. The way the story goes and music were so touching. I have to stay up late night to see how the story end because in Malaysia, the movie was aired from 12.30am to 3.30am.. imagine going to work next day with only sleeping 3 and a half hours.

Yoko Maki is so pretty and cool in that movie. I hope one day I can see her here, in Malaysia.

Keep up the good work and all the best that life can brings to you, Yoko Maki@Ryoko.

Regards from Malaysia.

17 signs you fall in love

2008-04-02T03:51:00.005+08:00

17 signs you fall in love :): Seventeen
You look at his/her profile or his/her pictures constantly
Sixteen
You are on the phone with him/her late at night for hour. When you just hang up your phone in a second, you still miss him/her.

Fifteen
You read his/her text message or IMS over again and again
Fourteen
You walk really slow when you are with him/her.
Thirteen
You are so shy when he is around.
Eleven
When you think about him/her, your heart beats faster and slower at the same time.
Ten
You smile when you hear his/her voice.
Nine
When you look at him/her , you can't see other people around you, all you see is him/her
Eight
You start listening a slow song when you think of him/her
Seven
You always think about him/her
Six
You realize you always smile to yourself when you think of him/her.
Five
You would do anything for him/her or anything to see her/him
Four
When you read this, there is one person in your mind whole time
Three
You are so busy to think of that person, you didn't notice No twelve
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Do you know who you are thinking of now?
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If you noticed No twelve was not there, you've done this test of falling in love.
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If you didn't notice No twelve, here it is:
Twelve: 17 signs of falling in love.

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LITTLE GIRL AND HER FATHER

2008-04-02T03:24:00.003+08:00

Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.

The father was kind of scared so he asked his little

daughter, "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall

into the river." The little girl said, "No, Dad. You hold my

hand." "What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father.

"There's a big difference," replied the little girl. "If

I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let

your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what

happens, you will never let my hand go."

In any relationship, the

essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.

So hold the hand of the person

who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours...

This message is too short......but carries a lot of Feelings.

Feeling Lonely

2008-03-17T08:27:00.004+08:00

Sitting here....i was feeling so lost ...somehow there's something missing here this morning and last night... i slept early hoping that this feeling will go away after i was at home all night long facing the computer doing nothing..

Then i wake to my bed. I sat there for a long time...just staring there in the darkness.... there i was feeling empty deep inside wondering what am i looking for? . No body has been calling me these weeks.. My had hand phone was my best friend until now of late...Don’t know why... i feel like hating my hand phone sometimes. the first thing comes into my mind was for my hand phone to ring .even if it just a short SMS saying Hi! . all i want is just to talk with friend during the holiday at home on my night and nothing else why is it so hard?

There were many plan had been cancelled due to some reasons, feeling down because of that makes me feel like I’m the only one left in this world buying myself a cake and sing birthday song...

i donno bout others... but if it's my closest frens' birthday i would put out all my effort to celebrate with her even though there's only 2 of us to make sure she is not lonely on her night...

sorry....maybe im just feeling....

I’m just feeling extremely lonely tonight....i just wish that i will heard a familiar voice today..even if it just for a while..

Spring Morning.

2008-03-14T10:45:00.003+08:00

I Like to see the sun
Shines on the houses
On a Spring Morning.
And the dancing shadows
Of Leaves.

Bird Singing songs,
Sweet scents fills the air,
Bright flowers bloom in the garden,
And everything is fresh and beautiful.
is fresh and beautiful

Like You

I miss you still .thank shanoon

2008-03-08T17:17:00.003+08:00

Candle were ready ,waiting to be lit.
An hour pass, seem like eternity of waiting
Candle all had died.worried emerges
The days when we were to be happy.
A call came by "they dead" she cried

My world became blurry, my eyes opened up like floodgates.
My knees got weak, and I wept.
Saying goodbye to you was the hardest thing that I have ever done. Your face so pale and lifeless, your smile that once welcomed all, was now cold and lifeless. Your eyes, showed no emotion.
Two years later, I think of everyday, and I Still Miss You all....

Feeling Lonely

2008-03-07T17:02:00.003+08:00

Dear Diary,

God I hate this feeling! Make it go away. . .NOW! I don't mind being alone. I hate feeling lonely.

I just needed to say the words...

It's not that I am really obsessed about things or loneliness, I just can't stand this things no more.

I am all alone, I remember people who were around me, when I was not. And that is hard to feel, 'cause even now I seek for myself knowing I am a lone person.

And soon I will recover my reality, my force ad strenght.

Now I just do Think that being lonely is not that bad. It is just that, not bad. I feel missing, I feel sorry, I feel things, that's all!

Maybe one day I'll rest my mind upon something really warm. But will I be calm? Will I rest? What is this unquiet feel?

I am overwhelmed, overwhelming, and lost; and then again, found.

Soon, I will remember, soon I will forget. But I just wanted to have someone, not me, to hold on to: everyone. But what if I get tired of it?

What...

That is foolish, and dumb, but it sure is me.

I thought I didn't need to be me to be... I just wanted to be.

Will someone let me be?

And if they let, will they let beside of me?

I love, I hate, I don't care. I am scared of myself sometimes. Profoundly scared.

Let me be. Let me be me. Let me be me, but be you with me. I love thee. Feeling out of my mind, in the middle of the night, but it is morning yet, and this soon I find myself moaning already.

Some time wandering ....but Difficult! But soon it will pass, and dead I will return to my wounded land. Go ahead! Let go, let go of these things, but hold them inside, but follow your path. Even if it is being alone.

I do Care For u.. SMS

2008-03-05T04:54:00.009+08:00

Dear Diary!!
Last Night! some one sent me message me saying that no body care for her...and i promptly call her and ask her why...and she told me of her problem....she just broke up with her boy friend and she was crying and repeatably telling me that no body care for her...and this got me upset and i scold her back...that i care for her!! she immediately hung up on me!! Which was my fault actualy...1 i think i scare her!!

But later i wrote and Sms "whic i forgot what i wrote but i wrote to her telling her that sound like this :

"you say that that no body care about u. But u need to known that There are many people that care for you..is just that you dint know it. It could be because one of them is me, if only 1 person cares 4 u...than it would mean that person is me..If no 1 cares 4 u that means i m not in this world any more!!!!

then after 3 hour at 4am my phone vibrate and i pickup my Hp just an hour ago and all that i can heard was a cry.... but know that she had read my mesage...that i told her that. u sily girl..stop crying..or i hang up...which she did..try to stop but in those between crying she said thank you!.. and i just laugh softly and hang up... and call her using my Happy number...we had a long conversation untill 5 oclock in the morning...and i promise to see her tomorrow...

dear diary im going to kedah tomorrow. to see our stupid little girl..

bye..cu again

Real Love Puppies...So Adorable!!!!

2008-02-28T19:18:00.006+08:00

His name is Heart-kun from Japan, a chihuahua puppy born with a perfect heart shape in its fur

This chihuahua puppy literally wears its heart on its sleeve.

The cute male pooch, born with a perfect heart-shaped patch on its side, has been suitably named Heartkun by its owner in northern Japan.

The one-and-a-half-month-old pup was born as one of a big litter, but is the only new arrival to sport such a heart-warming coat.

According to owner Emiko Sakurada, this is the first occasion a puppy with such marks had been born out of the more than one thousand chihuahuas she has bred.

So Adorable...this must be a sign from heaven that Love does exists!!!... Hope fully i will find it back again....

Which Country Celebrate 21 Valentine's Day every Year?

2008-02-28T18:20:00.006+08:00

The Answer is South Korea!!!

and i though that 14 February is the only Valentine's Day!! and i was Wrong.....but still it a good thing if not i probably go bankrupt of each month!!! haha....but then again i probaly will enjoy it ..as i will spend more time together-gethter( Malaysian Lingos) .....hehe

But i realy quite frustating if you are not creative enough in celeberting the day ....but to me i will prefer Valantine days as once a year...as i want it to be a special day that i remember forever..

Ok..here is the Article that i just read while Googling the word Valentine Heaven..

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Love comes at a hefty price in South Korea.

There are up to 21 anniversaries, special days and celebrations a year for couples to shower each other with affection and gifts, and as a result some relationships are crushed under the weight of festivities.

hanks to shrewd marketing in a society focused on commerce as well as love and matrimony, there is a special day on the 14th of each month for lovers to celebrate as well as a few other goodies along the way.

For example, January 14 is Diary Day in South Korea when sweet hearts are encouraged to buy gifts such as planners and mark all their red-letter days of love

Next on the calendar is February 14 and Valentine's Day, where South Korean women buy chocolates for their boyfriends.

Army trucks are regularly deployed to deliver chocolates from women whose boyfriends are in uniform as part of South Korea's mandatory military service.
March 14 is White Day. This celebration was born in Japan, imported to South Korea and is marked by South Korean men returning the favour of their Valentine's chocolates with candies for their girlfriends.

April 14 is Black Day and is purely Korean. This is a day where those who have not found love mark their status as lonely hearts by eating black food.

The dish for the day is Chinese noodles topped with a thick black sauce. Single students at universities order scores of bowls and eat them together in the hope of finding a soul mate over noodles.

May 15 is Yellow Day-Rose Day. Lonely hearts gather for curry and companionship. Those who find love by this day exchange roses. Dressing in yellow is also recommended.

Love and liquor

The rest of the celebrations that come each month on the 14th have yet to gain a strong following.

Some of the little-known days for lovers include August 14 Green Day when couples are supposed to dress in green, walk in the woods and drink cheap liquor that comes in green bottles.

On Silver Day, couples can freely ask their friends to give them money to pay for a date while couples are supposed to exchange gifts made of silver.
A new day that has taken off in South Korea is a festivity that combines feelings of affection with chocolate on a stick.

November 11 is Pepero Day and is named after a pencil-shaped cookie stick covered in chocolate that is purchased in abundance on the day and exchanged mostly by young South Koreans as an expression of their affection.

Oh Mi-kyeong, an adviser at Duo, a matchmaking company, said all the attention on love and special days makes singles focus on their status and can strain relationships.

"Singles feel lonely on these days and the atmosphere drives them to make a new girlfriend or boyfriend," Oh said. "Many couples fight on those days because they feel hurt if their lover doesn't do enough to celebrate the special days together."

Romance of snow

Many couples celebrate the milestone of 100, 200, 300 and 1,000 days since the first time they met or went on their first date. Since calculating the milestones is quite difficult, many couples in the world's most wired country turn to the Internet for help.

There are sites that calculate the special days for a person and send notice of an upcoming milestone with an e-mail or a text message over a mobile phone.

"It must be so difficult for young people to keep their relationships going with so many special days," said Yoko Tagami, a Japanese essayist living in Seoul who has written on the subject. "It could even scare single men away from marrying."

Newspapers and lifestyle magazines often get into the act, especially for "First Snow Day." Lovers are supposed to mark the first snow of the winter season with a romantic date.

Several media sources are awash with recommended spots and activities that will make young lovers' hearts flutter as they enjoy the sprinkling of snow.
Christmas Eve is one of the biggest date nights of the year. It also marks the season of high prices as many businesses try to make a few extra won off lovers.

Restaurants offer pricey Christmas menus, high-end jewellery stores are packed with young lovers purchasing non-discounted goods and even some love hotels raise prices for couples who want to stretch their Christmas Eve date into the morning.

And of course, birthdays and actual one-year anniversaries are also major events on the calendar for couples.

Couples, however, can feel the pinch of too many festivities.

"I gave my boyfriend a gift soon after we went out and that just made his expectations bigger for more expensive gifts. I had to ask my parents for money for gifts, and in the end, we broke up because of the cost," said Kim Mi-yeon, a student. (Agencies via Xinhua)

"Qu qin" the oldest of China's stringed instruments ( 3,000 year old )

2008-02-28T18:09:00.004+08:00

Endangered harmonies

By Sunny Hu

Shanghai Star. 2005-03-10

IN July 2003, a guqin debuted in an auction in China when the 1,000-year-old instrument was purchased by a mysterious buyer for 3.465 million yuan (US$418,000).

The guqin, a seven-stringed zither, is the oldest of China's stringed instruments, dating back some 3,000 years. It was called qin in ancient China, a term that referred to various zither instruments.

The earliest record of the guqin may be the mention in the first collection of Chinese poems "The Collection of Songs? "To make friends with beautiful ladies, we shall play qin and se (another ancient instrument, no longer played).?

The guqin is viewed as a symbol of Chinese high culture and as the instrument most expressive of the essence of Chinese music. In 2003, the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization (UNESCO) proclaimed China's ancient guqin music part of the Oral and Intangible Heritage of Humanity, alongside the flowing Kunqu Opera, one of the oldest opera forms still existing in China.

Guqin music combined with Chinese philosophy and literature has formed a special triad within traditional Chinese culture.

Back to the time of Confucius in the Spring and Autumn and the Warring States Periods (770-221 BC), playing qin and singing poems were among the six essential courses the great Chinese educator taught his students. Later, the guqin was regarded as one of the four required arts for ancient Chinese scholars, including the art of Go, calligraphy and painting.

Ancient Chinese scholars actively involved themselves in the guqin arts, playing the instrument, composing for it and also writing beautiful songs/poems to accompany the music. The guqin music was also influenced by Chinese philosophies including Confucianism and Taoism. Almost half of all guqin pieces have nature (water, birds, orchids, mountains, animals) as their theme, with musicians aiming to achieve harmony with nature ?typical Taoist thinking.

Through guqin music, musicians also show respect for wild geese that fly far out of ambition; for orchids and plum blossoms that have noble qualities and elegance.

The art of the guqin has left aesthetic and sociological marks over centuries of the Chinese civilization. Xue Yijian in the 7th century describes guqin music in his book as being able to express education and social graces, please someone, calm one's thinking, build up one's courage, touch one's soul and help one flee from reality and fight against ghosts and gods.

Guqin stories

The guqin has often been the theme of poems and touching stories and people have generated many idioms or phrases related to the instrument. For example, the phrase "combined Play of Qin and Se?means harmonious marital life and is the best blessing for new couples.

Another phrase, "The high mountain and the flowing water, it's hard to find my zhiyin?is the most widely accepted term for friendship. Zhiyin means the friend who really knows one's music, which refers to understanding friends or soul mates ?the highest praise for friends in Chinese, stemming from an anecdote about Boya and Zhong Ziqi.

Boya was head of the royal music department and a guqin master in the Spring and Autumn Period (770-476 BC). He once travelled on a boat on the Yangtze River and arrived in what is now Central China's Hubei Province to collect folk music. Suddenly, a storm came and huge waves almost overturned his boat. But the night quickly regained its serenity after the storm, with the moon hanging above the hill and birds singing in the forest. Boya couldn't help playing his qin and suddenly one of the strings broke, which indicated that someone who really understood the music was approaching. Boya found a woodcutter, Zhong Ziqi, and invited him to share the music.

Boya played a piece of music named "High Mountain? Afterwards, the woodcutter gave high praise: "How great the Tai Mountain is in the music!?Boya played another piece named "Flowing Water? As the music stopped, the listener commented "How vast and mighty the river is!?Boya felt so excited at these remarks he said: "You are my zhiyin.?The two promised to meet and talk about the qin the following year.

But Zhong Ziqi died before their planned meeting. Boya was deeply saddened by the loss of his real friend. Believing that no one else in the world would understand his music, he broke his qin and never played the instrument again.

There are also romantic stories about the guqin, captured by phrases such as "Male phoenix pursues female phoenix? about Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun in the second century BC. Sima had long heard of Zhuo, a beautiful and intellectual widow and daughter of the renowned rich Zhuo family. At a banquet with Zhuo's family, Sima bravely, passionately and straightforwardly expressed his love for Zhuo by playing the qin and singing: "A male phoenix travels all around to seek his lover and finally travels back to his hometown. And the beautiful lady is right here ...?

The song and music moved Zhuo standing behind the curtain, who fell in love with Sima at first sight and she promised to elope with him that night. The incredible woman later opened an alcohol shop to support her poor husband in his efforts to gain an official career. This forced her father to recognize their love. Thus, their love story was composed as a guqin piece and spread far and wide. Sima owned a guqin known as "Luqi? which is said to be one of the best guqin in history.

Small group

Just as the above two stories indicate, since ancient times, the guqin has been the instrument played more by elites of society for personal enjoyment than by the general public.

The art declined after the Qing Dynasty (1644-1911) and it is now known by only a small group of practitioners and admirers, a loose association of musicians who have recorded ancient pieces and attended to the preservation and repair of old instruments.

At the annual Chinese folk instruments solo play competition in 2002, only 99 guqin players attended the event ?far fewer than those for other instruments such as the zheng and flute.

Of the 3,000 pieces of guqin music available today, musicians are only able to play about 100.

To popularize the dying music, the guqin was included in the national folk instruments rating system in 2001 to attract new students to learn the instrument.

However, some guqin players opposed the practice, saying guqin music should be played and shared by a couple of friends in Qinshe (qin association) rather than performed on stage. They are also worried that broadcasting the music through microphones would destroy the beauty and essence of the music.

Attracting more people to study and enjoy guqin music appears to be the only way to save the ancient music. Only popularity with the public will ensure the music survives and develops, according to Wu Zhao, researcher at the Music Research Institute of the China Arts Institute.

The good news is that as more Chinese turn back to traditional Chinese culture, guqin music is gaining more popularity in cities and universities. Guqin societies have been established in Beijing, Nanjing, Shanghai, Changshu and other areas. Peking University Guqin Society is said to have a total of 400 members.

"Copyright by Shanghai Star."

"Life" and Whatsoever Happen !!

2008-02-27T21:17:00.002+08:00

I woke up early today....and it took me longer than usual to get out from my bed....i stare at my bed room ceiling and was thinking alot about "Life"....what does it mean to be
alive...? ......and then i realize something that we will never know when whatever will happen to us in the future... ... Big Question.POP!!into my mind....when I Then ASK MY SELF: when it happen HOW DID I LIVE MY LIFE? were it WORTH IT??

I Have realy long though this money and decide that wheresoever happen I am going to die someday. And when that happens, I will be forgiven and forgotten for all the things that I have
done, be it good or bad. So I'm going to live my life, my way, regardless of what people say. Live everyday like there is no tomorrow... I respect your right to hate me, my lifestyle, my looks, my attitude, my everything...Cos from starting from today i'will be my self which is just that's just downright me without the fake mask that most people put on...

This Morning Activity

2008-02-27T09:34:00.002+08:00

Today was very funny as we dance alot of stuff today from poco poco till Para2 Sakura dance 6this morning...haha..Quite enjoy it....now felt sleepy as been awake since 37 hour ago...neeed to sleep...

Bye2 ! signing off for today..!!

My 4月5日韧性超强 Birthday

2008-02-27T09:26:00.002+08:00

4月5日出生的人具有成功的潜力，以及维持成功的执着。他们拥有明星的特质，表现出沉稳自信的形象，却又不会过度自我中心。他们多半着眼于事物的表面，而不去深入地探讨。大多数在这天出生的人，一生中只会追求一种职业、一套原则，和一套思想体系。4月5日出生的人，就像那些具有明星特质的人一样，会汲汲于追逐别人的掌声；所幸就算得不到也没有什么关系，不管别人有没有注意到，他们依然会坚持努力。也许该这么说吧！不论周遭发生什么事，他们仍然会全神贯注在自己手边的事情。

具有这种明星特质的人，很难想象他们会是个谦虚的人；然而，事实的确如此！对他们而言，不出凡头地做个建党人物，可是最舒服、自在的事儿了。当然我们也可以说，对于这一天出生而格外有演艺天赋的人而言，谦逊只不过是他们精湛的演技罢了！不过，在这方面，他们并不喜欢被人分析、探讨或发现。只要他们扮演的角色是真实的自我，他们就不希望再被任何人做深入的挖掘或评断。

4月5日出生的人最适合的职业，是那种可以做一辈子的工作。因为他们比较喜欢在完善且令人满意的事业体中，作稳定、持续的努力；可是，他们的婚姻可就不然了。他们的婚姻多半狂猛暴烈。并且不乏鲁莽的行为和为时颇久的外遇事件，但他们并不觉得这样有何不妥。别人很难触碰到他们的情感层面，连好好坐下来把事情说个明白都很困难，或许他们鄙视、不屑于这样的事情吧！4月5日出生的人总认为，身边的人本来就应该了解他们就是这个德性！另外，他们会有一堆仰慕者像苍蝇般地涌来，所以伴侣需要极大的了解和体谅。

虽然4月5日出生的人，最不喜欢引起争议与讲座但是他们却会因行事直接、坦率，而引来威胁或敌对。然而，他们对自我的偏偏绝不会妥协，即使因此引起财务上的危机，他们也在所不惜--反正金钱对他们来说也不是最重要的。对他们而言，重要的是计划能够实现，并且确保理想不会受到威胁。他们虽然深信维护诚实和正直是必须的，但是也有可能会为了顺利进行自己的人生事业，而避开这些纷纷扰扰。通常他们会把“需不需要有一场争辩？”的问题，交由对手去决定。

当他们专注于一件事时，通常都是停不下来的，而且也浑然不知别人是否已经厌烦或是想做别的事了。同样地，有些在这一天出生的人，很可能终其一生都习惯作同样的事、过同样的生活。因此他们应该定期评估一下自己的人生，必要时做些改变，即使这很困难，甚至有些痛苦。

幸运数字和守护星
4月5日出生的人受数字5及水星的影响。水星代表思想敏捷，也代表改变。在这一天，火星（牡羊座的主宰行星）给予水星充沛的能量，而这种能量也将终生伴随他们。受数字5影响的人还喜欢冒险，所以我们将会发现即使那些家庭事业两得意的人，私底下也会有些冒险的行为，比如赌博啦、开快车啦、搞危险的外遇关系等等。生活的打击对他们来说，并没有多大的影响，他们依然我行我素，不受干扰。他们超强的韧性，果然令人望尘莫及。

健康
4月5日出生的人工作时尽心负责，闲暇时也容易玩过头。然而大吃大喝、意外的事故、随意糟蹋身体，全都对健康有害，尤其要注意饮酒和服用芗这类的问题。4 月5日出生的人，特别喜欢有异国风味的辛送还食物，但是他们应该改变这种单为满足口腹之欲、不为健康着想的饮食习惯。由于他们有少见的强壮体格和长寿，可以长期躲过因莽撞行为所招致的横祸。不过，他们应该把明智的工作态度也运用在饮食、嗜好和户外活动上。

建议
学会何时该放弃掉头而去，离开不见得不好。试着更忠实地对待伴侣。不要把健康的身体视为理所当然。不要只和别谈论自己的成功，也要谈谈遭遇到的问题，和别人分享喜怒哀乐。

名人
布克华盛顿(Booker T. Washington)非裔美国教育领袖，创立了“塔斯克基学院”，同时也是作家，著有《超越奴役》。

台湾戏剧学者及剧作家姚一苇，著有《欣赏与批评》等评论集，以及《傅青主》等剧。

台湾新派二胡演奏家温金龙，以“中乐西奏”的独特风格著称。

台湾小说家履疆，著有《乡桓近事》等作。

英车政治哲学家霍布斯(Thomas Hobbes)，研究欧几里德的几何原理创立演绎法。

蓓蒂戴维丝(Bette Davis)美国电影女演员，擅长扮演神经过敏的女人，代表作有《危险》、无赖荡妇》。

塔罗牌
大秘仪塔罗牌的第5张是“教皇”，他是神圣、神秘事物的解释者，象征人类的认知及信仰。教皇的知识充满奥秘，即使抽象的事物也受它主宰。牌面正立时，表示信心十足、不疑不虑，以及对事物有正确的理解力；牌面倒立时则表示爱说教、唱高调以及独断。

静思语
如果你有两只脚，你可以跑；如果你有一只脚，你可以跳；如果你没有脚，你可以飞。

优点
贯彻到底、努力、成功。

缺点
重复错误、过分放纵自己、情感封闭。

請讓所有人知道此事

2008-02-27T09:10:00.001+08:00

大約三個星期前，我在加油站加油。那時大概是晚上十一點半左右；有一部車朝我接近，車內有兩男兩女。

開車的那個男人問我：『妳擦哪種香水？』
我感到有些疑惑，然後我問：『為什麼問這個？』

他說：『我們有在販賣一些較便宜的名牌香水。』
我回答他我身上並沒帶錢。

接著他從車內的一疊紙中抽出一張遞給我，上面寫著很多香水的名稱。
我快速的瀏覽一遍之後還給他，並再說明一次我沒錢買。

然後他告訴我沒關係，他們有收支票、現金、或信用卡。
結果車內的其他人開始大笑。

我接著進入我的車子跟他們說謝了不用了。
之後，就在昨天，我收到這封 e-mail ，它讓我整個人都寒起來了。

請仔細閱讀以下這封信。這不是笑話。

希望男性朋友也可以將這件事提醒讓你們的太太、女兒、母親、姊妹等人知曉。

這世界似乎已變得越來越瘋狂了。包裹內放置炸彈和停車場出現販賣香水的神經病。

但請務必要小心。

我昨天下午在停車場，有兩個男人過來問我擦什麼香水。

然後他們接著問我要不要試用一些他們正在販賣的很棒的香水，而且價錢公道。

但是如果我幾個星期前沒有收到一封詐騙的警告信 "要不要聞聞這香水？ "，我真的很有可能去試用。

這兩個男人依然站在車道上，我想等看看有無人經過這裡。

我向前制止了一位正走向他們的女士，指出他們的位置，告訴她有關我收到一封 email 的事。

若是有人在商場或停車場接近妳 , 推銷較便宜的香水要妳聞的話。

" 這不是香水！那是乙醚！ " 當你聞到它，你就會昏倒。

有個朋友，在一次烤肉聚會當中絆倒了

2008-02-27T08:59:00.003+08:00

有個朋友，在一次烤肉聚會當中絆倒了，摔了一跤，旁邊的朋友建議找醫護人員，但她很確定自己沒事，只是穿了新鞋被磚塊絆了一下罷了。
她還有點危危顫顫站立不穩的時候，朋友們幫她清洗乾淨，又為她盛了一盤食物，她就跟著大家一起享受接下來的時光了。她的先生後來打電話通知大家，她被送到醫院，傍晚六點，就過世了，原因是她在烤肉聚餐的時候中風。如果他們懂得辨識中風的癥兆，她現在也許還跟我們在一起。有些人不會死，但結局處於無助無望的景況中。只需要花一分鐘的時間讀完這篇文章，腦神經外科醫師說，

如果他能在三小時之內接觸到中風患者，他就可以將中風的後果完全扭轉過來。訣竅就是辨識診斷出中風的問題，並讓病患在三小時之內接受醫療，而這是很難的。

辨識中風感謝上帝讓我們記住 STR 三步驟，請閱讀並學習 !有時候中風的癥兆很難辨認，不幸的是，缺乏警覺就會帶來災難。身邊的人辨認不出中風的徵兆，中風患者就會嚴重腦傷。醫生說，旁人只要問三個簡單的問題，就可以辨識中風：S ： (smile) 要求患者笑一下T ： (talk) 要求患者說一句簡單的句子（要有條理，有連貫性），例如：今天天氣晴朗。R ： (raise) 要求患者舉起雙手注意：另外一項中風癥兆是：要求患者伸出舌頭，如果舌頭「彎曲」或偏向一邊，那也是中風的徵兆。上面四個動作，患者如果有任何一個動作做不來，就要立刻打 999！！！並且把症狀描述給接線者聽。心臟科醫師說，收到這封電函的人，若能將它轉寄給 10 個人，就至少可以救一條命。

Twisted Morale Stories..5 STAR rate

2008-02-25T22:19:00.005+08:00

This was taken from a blog that i had just visted today..and it was well written and interesting.. from http://peiyeechang.multiply.com/photos/album/43/Love_story_using_traffic_signs..#1

Another Craps from Me

2008-02-22T04:20:00.003+08:00

Another Craps from Me

I am going to die someday. And when that happens, I will be forgiven and forgotten for all the things that I have done, be it good or bad. So I'm going to live my life, my way, regardless of what people say. Live everyday like there is no tomorrow... I respect your right to hate me, my lifestyle, my looks, my attitude, my everything...Cos from starting from today i'will be my self which is just that's just downright me without the fake mask that most people put on...

Peace To All and I Love u

How To Explaine bout girl Answer

2008-02-20T11:05:00.003+08:00

WOMEN EXPLAINED In Boys Views

Part I

Part II

Part III

Part IV

Part V

Easy to Explained Right?

hehe :)

Blues Day

2008-02-20T09:24:00.005+08:00

Today i woke up at 6.30 in the morning after spending a unrest lest night yesterday..
How is she today.... they are days...i sometime i thought i saw her...look back behind..i wish to see her... i still miss her....

evertime when i go there this song sometime came across my mind..I can’t help but parallel my feelings from the time with the memory with this song.

At first, I was excited to go. I was a little apprehensive at first, have never been so deeply . Overall, though, I was excited. I wanted to get in there and just LOVE !!! More than , what I wanted to let her know that they still people who care..

It belong to one of my favorite rock group call Coldplay; a song called “Fix You”. This song plays on each and every one of my emotions, from excitement to sadness. But then it offers a bit of hope, as well.

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i'm still worry about what had happen to her...

Why is the word so strange?

Some of the Best Moments in Life

2007-12-24T05:45:00.001+08:00

Some of the Best Moments in Life:

* To laugh until it hurts your stomach.

* To find mails by the thousands when you return from a vacation.

* To go for a vacation to some pretty place.

* To listen to your favorite song in the radio.

* To go to bed and to listen while it rains outside.

* To leave the shower and find that the towel is warm.

* To clear your last exam.

* To receive a call from someone, you don't see a lot, but you want to.

* A good conversation with a sweet person.

* To find money in a pant that you haven't used since last year .

* To laugh at yourself looking at mirror, making faces.:)))

* Calls at midnight that last for hours.:))

* To laugh without a reason.

* To accidentally hear somebody say something good about you.

* To wake up and realize it is still possible to sleep for a couple of hours.

* To hear a song that makes you remember a special person.

* To be part of a team.

* To watch the sunset from the hill top.

* To make new friends.

* To feel butterflies! in the stomach every time that you see that person.

* To pass time with your best friends.

* To see people that you like, feeling happy.

* To use a sweater of the person that you like and find that it still smells of their perfume.

* See an old friend again and to feel that the things have not changed.

* To take an evening walk along the beach.

* To have somebody tell you that he/she loves you.

* To laugh .......laugh........and laugh ...... remembering stupid things done with stupid friends....................

* These are the best moments of life....

* Let us learn to cherish them.

*"Life is not a problem to be solved, but a gift to be enjoyed"

Malaysian’ Love Quote.

2007-12-05T21:28:00.001+08:00

“It takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and a lifetime to forget them.”
by~ 3rd William Zhuo

“What is the use to love someone, when we are afraid to express it to someone?”
by ~3rd William Zhuo

“We were dying to be in love. But when we are in Love, Why we tend to push them aside?”
by ~3rd William Zhuo

“ willing to die to get LOVE, then, when love come in our life why we just push it aside like its didn’t have any value??
By ~ Bayu (unitary 07)

“Love hurt!! Sometime it’s beautiful and wonderful, and sometime it’s very sad”
By ~ Kasjali (unitary 07)

Love is memorable like the fist time we burn our finger as it is truly unforgettable.
By ~ 3rd William Zhuo

There are many medicine to cure disease, but the only cure for loneliness, despair and hopelessness is only love
By ~ 3rd William Zhuo

There are many in the world who are dying for a piece of gold, but there are many more dying for a little love.
By ~ 3rd William Zhuo
Reflecting back, this is the only regret.
Too often, when I’m in loved. I dint say so!

By ~ 3rd William Zhuo

Loves likes a white paper…
I need to paint it as beautiful as possible…
So that, I can feel it as bliss as I can…
Loves is smoothly to touch and…
Loves comes softly…
By once who’s found loves without anger…
By ~ Klose@eid_87

Love is very beautiful and wonderful… it can change a person,
Causing Happiness , heart break and feeling of hurt .Yet it a feeling that we want in our life even though it very strong , strange and hard to understand.
By ~ Kasjali Kamis

S are my spirit, A are my inspiration to do everything, W are for my future, A you make me feel complete, N like the moonlight that shine my eyes, I will sacrifice everything to have your love
By ~ Kasjali Kamis

Loves is precious…
Loves can be as wonderful as u want…
But, loves sometimes can be a thorn of roses…
And, makes you feel how’s pain loves is….
But, without loves life become as worst as the hell fires…
That’s the fatal of desires…
By ~ klose@eid_87...

You mend my heart when I feeling low, you cheer me up when I feeling low, yet you broken it into thousand of pieces scattered across the see.
By ~ 3rd William Zhuo

Love is Cinta!!.
It like guidance to help us achieve our dream.
Yet, it can also misguide us from our not archiving our dream.
Love depend on a person that are in the bliss of love
Azmil @ maxx

Love is like a fire that can burned dream,
Love is like the flow of water to archive our life goal.
Azmil @ maxx

Love is like a very special feeling
Which can complete a person life
Without love, life is mean less
By annuarul@acik (Kerteh)

Love born through eyes
Growth in the heart
Making someone happy or
Sometime it ends with tears.
By annuarul@acik (Kerteh)

Love sometimes similar like honey,
Very useful and sweet,
But sometimes like poison,
Can kill our heart until we can’t stand anymore,
Don’t ever try to search a fake love,
But be patient because it will come to you by itself,
And you will get blissful life forever and ever…
By Bayu@izzudin

LOVE not for other person,
BUT ONLY for yourself,
If you love other person more than yourself,
You waste your life…
By Bayu@izzudin

Without love doesn’t mean we didn’t have anything…
Without family we lose all of thing in this world…
By Bayu@izzudin

Tears, Idle Tears

2007-11-29T01:23:00.001+08:00

Tears, Idle Tears, I know not what they mean,
Tears from the depth of some divine despair
Rise in the Heart, and gather to the eyes,
In looking on the happy autumn-fields,
And thinking of the days that are no more.

Fresh as the first glittering on a sail,
That brings our friends from the underworld,
Sad as the last which reddens over one
That sinks with all we love below the verge;
So sad, so fresh, the days that are no more.

Ah, sad and strange as in dark summer dawns
The earliest pipe of half-awakened birds
To dying ears, when unto dying eyes
The casement slowly grows a glimmering square;
So sad, so strange, the days that are no more.

Dear as remember as kisses after death,
And sweet as those by hopeless fancy feigned
On lips that are for others; deep as love,
Deep as first love, and wild with all regret;
O Death in Life, the days that are no more!

By Unknown Heart

The Tradition and How it is celebrated.

2007-09-13T16:20:00.002+08:00

The Tradition and How it is celebrated.

The Date -The date of Mid-autumn Festival also known as Chinese Moon Festival is on the 15th moon day of 8th Chinese lunar month (Chicken month). Since the new moon day is the first day of a Chinese Lunar Month. The first day of 8th lunar month in this year is 11th September 2007, thus the Moon Festival is on 25 September 2007.

This is a day to worship the moon god. According to folk legend, this day is also the birthday of the earth god (T'u-ti Kung). This festival signals that the year's hard work in the fields will soon come to an end, with only the harvest left to attend to. People use this opportunity to express their gratitude to heaven (represented by the moon) and earth (symbolized by the earth god) for the blessings they have enjoyed over the past year.

Praying to the moon goddess traditionally by custom are done women and girl who is over the age of 13. If you are wandering why only girl pray to the moon and celebrate the Moon this is becouse the full moon of the eighth Chinese lunar month is a “women”. This is the beginning of the yin part of the year, when the dark takes precedence over the light, and the Moon is the symbol of yin energy, which also includes water, women and night. In the old Chinese agrarian system, autumn and winter were the women’s seasons.

There is a Peking (Beijing) proverb that says: "Men do not bow to the moon. Women do not sacrifice to the God of the Kitchen”

The Moon Goddess, known in many variatopn of the stories are known as Hengo or Chang-e ,who rule rules the Jade Palace of the Moon. Where in may stories and fable she swallowed the pill of immortality given to her husband, the archer Hou Yi, and then fled to the moon to avoid his wrath. Her husband later became the God of the Sun and now the two meet only once a month during the New Moon. Other creatures that live in the Moon include a rabbit who is always pictured working with a pestle, pounding up the elixir of life, a three-legged toad (sometimes said to be Chang-O) and a cassia tree, which although attacked by a woodcutter, keeps renewing itself.

A sand-filled receptacle in the center of the altar holds sticks of incense and candles. Spirit money is also placed on the altar, sometimes in the form of folded gold and silver paper, representing ingots, or as "thousand sheets" (a series of connected zigzag strips), or circular pieces like coins. Paper clothing is also set out for the sun and moon, for instnace, a gilt and red crown, or a red apron with gold embroidery.

What is The Mid Autumn festival, Why Chinese Celebrate it

2007-09-13T15:56:00.002+08:00

What is The Mid Autumn festival, Why Chinese Celebrate it?

"When the moon is full, mankind is one"

Brightly lit lanterns are often carried around by children during the 14 th and 15th night of the festival

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PS:

From Memories of My late Great Grandmother

Why? putt pomelo rinds on one's head – this is usually done by the daughter or grand daughter in the family will put a Pomelo skin on the head of the father or their grandfather and any family member who is the family patriarch. During this celebration This is because the Chinese word for "pomelo" or "grapefruit" is yu, which is homophonous with the word for "protection," yu, expressing the hope that the moon god give them protection.

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My Small and Humble Comment about The Mid Autumm Festival...

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Traditionally, on this day, Chinese family members and friends will gather to admire the bright mid-autumn harvest moon, and eat moon cakes and pomeloes together. It is also common to have barbecues outside under the moon, and to put pomelo rinds on one's head. Brightly lit lanterns are often carried around by children.Together with the celebration, there appear some special customs in different parts of the country, such as burning incense, planting Mid-Autumn trees, lighting lanterns on towers, and fire dragon dances. Shops selling mooncakes, before the festival, often display pictures of Chang'e, floating to the moon.

Early Begining

2007-09-13T15:54:00.004+08:00

History of the Early Beginnings of the Mid-Autumn Festival:

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The Moon festival for 2007 (also called the Mooncake or Mid-Autumn festival) falls on This September 25th 2007

The History of Mid Autumn Festival

2007-09-13T15:40:00.001+08:00

The History of Mid Autumn Festival

When did this festival first begin? No exact date can be found in historical documents, but scholars assume that it is related to 2 customs in China.

Still it should not be confuse that the moon are just for celebration only.

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It is lovely to think about actually, isn't it?

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[LOVE IS BORN] 2 あけました！

2007-06-10T01:24:00.001+08:00

おめでたい！

大塚愛です。

そろそろ正月気分も終わりな感じで、一番苦手な時期にきました。
小さい頃から男の子ような生活をしてきたけど、最近やっと家庭的な女性の生活に落ち着いてきました。
昔から、初夢は覚えてないんやけど、１回自分の脳を見てみたいくらい、
はちゃめちゃな夢ばっかり見てます。
１回夢の中で仕事してて、次のシングルのタイトルをめっちゃ考えてて、
ぽーーーーーーん！！！！と浮かんだの。
これごっっつええわ！って夢で叫んでて、笑いまくってたら、笑いながら起きて若干気持ち悪かった‥。
そのままそのへんにあった紙にタイトルを書いてまた寝たの。
起きて、我に返ってその紙を見てなんじゃこら！
とくに面白くもなくすぐ没に（笑）
マジックで達筆に書いてあったんやけど、寝ぼけたあたしはかなり盛り上がってたみたいです、
タイトル　　『遊びまくり』
どんな歌やねん！
没です‥‥。

Nuturing Love may be one of the most important roles you will undertake in your lifetime. It is not an easy role, nor is it one for which most of us are prepared. You may have questions about how to cope with your "care/Affectioning" receiver's difficulty.

Especialy when /If you have a job and are juggling several responsibilities or if your family member or friend needs a lot of assistance, you may need help with your love emotion, too. Whether you are expecting to become a caregiver of love or have been thrust into the role overnight, it is useful to know where you can get information and help that is from the person that you trust which is your friends.

そういえば、新しく入ったマネージャーの小林（おばやし（２６）B型の机318に、よさげなシャンプーが置いてあったから聞いてみた。 Squashy and 愛... = [LOVE IS BORN}ゑんへぺい

愛ちん「これ、おばやしの？」
小林「はい、僕の‥です。ファンの方から送られてきた‥‥」
愛ちん「‥‥‥‥？」

ファンから送られてきたものはおばやしのものになっていた！！！（笑）

しかし取り戻しました‥‥みなさん安心してください♪
Best Regard ~3rd William Zhuo

Life Delema 大塚愛 [LOVE IS BORN]

2007-06-09T23:11:00.001+08:00

大塚愛モバイルファンクラブ『LOVE9CUBE』ではここでしか見れないLOVEを毎日お届け！

とってもキュートなLOVEの動画や待受け画像、ゲーム（一部機種のみ）などLOVEの魅力いっぱいのコンテンツが盛りだくさん。

毎日更新の『TODAY'S LOVE』ではLOVEがあなたを励ましたり、癒したりしてくれるよ♪今すぐアクセスしてね。

デビュー3周年と24歳の誕生日を記念した
「大塚愛【LOVE IS BORN】～3rd William Zhuo.

Suicide! Thought

2007-05-29T07:54:00.001+08:00

I’m staring at the sun
But it's too yellow and bright
I don’t know what’s been happening
But I hope what I’m gonna do is right.

I’m falling from the top
But I’ve not yet hit the ground
I feel like I’m flying
People are screaming all around
The clouds and the sky stare back at me

As the breeze softly bites my face,
I don’t feel my weight anymore
I'm in a completely different place.
A thousand things run through my head,
I’m beginning to regret what I’m doing
But it's too late, I can’t turn back

I started it and have to keep going.
“Thud!” is the last I heard,
I know I’ve hit the ground
My body goes numb and so does my head,
People are starting to gather around

I get up but they don’t notice
I scream but they can’t hear
I realize why as I stare at myself
My eyes begin to widen in fear.

Fear soon turns into sorrow,
As I realize what I have done,
The tears start falling from my eyes
I turn away and begin to run.

Am I still Alive? You Ask....

2007-05-25T14:00:00.001+08:00

Well Im alive it just that i been busy.....i still blogging...it just that i been feeling rather tire lately...any way i going to change this web blog...i a couple of day and retouched the style....bye...i going to sleep now....i been busy moderating and busy battleground with flame war in two of my favorite forum with my life this day.... Sighh ..bye

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